{"id":26585,"date":"2020-03-20T08:10:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T08:10:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26585"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:18:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:18:40","slug":"aceptando-que-habiamos-terminado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aceptando-que-habiamos-terminado\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como acept\u00e9 que hab\u00edamos terminado"},"content":{"rendered":"

I held onto my foolish hopes about us for as long as I could. Regardless of everything, I\u2019ve always been the perpetual optimist when it comes to romance, and you are no exception.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre espero lo mejor, incluso cuando la evidencia de que no es as\u00ed me mira a la cara con desaliento.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 puedo decir? <\/span>I\u2019m a sucker for love. <\/b>Puse todas las excusas posibles para no perder el contacto contigo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Aunque no hubiera absolutamente ninguna raz\u00f3n para que nos comunic\u00e1ramos, me inventar\u00eda algo, s\u00f3lo para poder seguir sintiendo tu presencia en mi vida, de cualquier forma que pudiera conseguirlo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Me negu\u00e9 a admitir que para entonces ya me hab\u00edas apartado de tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me cost\u00f3 mucho <\/span>ira<\/span><\/a> and resentment on my part to accept the fact we were done. While I was trying to salvage what I believed was left of us, what I failed to see was that there was no \u2018us\u2019 left. <\/span><\/p>\n

It was just me and my desperate attempts to get us back to what we were, but hadn\u2019t been for a long time.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was so foolishly trying to make us overcome the obstacles that came our way that I didn\u2019t see you had already moved on. That was the final nail in the coffin for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fue entonces cuando me di cuenta de lo que tanto miedo me daba admitir. <\/span>Hac\u00eda tiempo que hab\u00edamos terminado y ya me hab\u00edas sustituido por alguien nuevo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Fue un duro despertar para m\u00ed. Tuve que abandonar la fantas\u00eda de que a\u00fan sent\u00edas por m\u00ed lo que yo sent\u00eda por ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Segu\u00eda tan enamorada de ti que verte con alguien nuevo era como si me clavaran un pu\u00f1al en el pecho repetidamente.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

En aquel momento, fue doloroso AF pero hoy veo que era lo necesario para que finalmente perdiera la idea de ti en mi futuro. <\/span>You didn\u2019t belong there anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

And as much as it pained me to say, I thank God I saw you with her. I don\u2019t know if I would\u2019ve been able to pull through otherwise.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esa fue la \u00faltima vez que tuve contacto contigo. Fue entonces cuando decid\u00ed que era<\/span> suficiente.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

En ese momento, yo era la \u00fanica que me estaba causando dolor y miseria. Yo era la \u00fanica que me negaba el proceso de curaci\u00f3n que tan desesperadamente necesitaba.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, I finally took responsibility for my actions. I could no longer go on like that and be blaming you when I was the only one not moving on, still hung up on an old love who hadn\u2019t been in my life for months.<\/span><\/p>\n

I have to admit, even though I consciously decided I wouldn\u2019t contact you ever again, I still kept track of your new love life.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Necesitaba saber c\u00f3mo era y qu\u00e9 ten\u00eda que te hac\u00eda olvidarte de m\u00ed con tanta facilidad.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Pero entonces me di cuenta. Mientras siguiera prest\u00e1ndote atenci\u00f3n con cualquier pensamiento, no me estaba permitiendo seguir adelante.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hab\u00edas pasado p\u00e1gina tan claramente que era hora de que te tachara por completo de mi lista y no volviera a pensar en ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me doli\u00f3 mucho, pero lo hice. Dej\u00e9 de seguir tu vida. <\/b>Dej\u00e9 de preguntar por ti a amigos comunes. <\/b><\/p>\n

Decid\u00ed olvidar que exist\u00edas. Y fue la mejor decisi\u00f3n que he tomado.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know that our relationship was real. We had some good times. I\u2019m never going to <\/span>pesar<\/span><\/a> nada de eso. <\/span>Supongo que hemos seguido nuestro curso.<\/b> S\u00f3lo era cuesti\u00f3n de aceptarlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

It took me a little longer than I would\u2019ve liked but here I am. Ready to get hurt again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He salido del agujero que tan ineptamente me hab\u00eda cavado. Vuelvo a vislumbrar la luz brillante. <\/span><\/p>\n

And most importantly, I accept that we weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not the woman you were supposed to spend your forever with and now I can finally say it out loud and not break into a million pieces. I\u2019m finally okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

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