{"id":26611,"date":"2018-10-24T09:14:37","date_gmt":"2018-10-24T09:14:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26611"},"modified":"2022-01-16T19:15:46","modified_gmt":"2022-01-16T19:15:46","slug":"como-recuperar-a-tu-ex-novio-6-maneras-de-triunfar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-recuperar-a-tu-ex-novio-6-maneras-de-triunfar\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo recuperar a tu ex novio: 6 maneras de tener \u00e9xito"},"content":{"rendered":"

You probably don\u2019t know it but getting your ex-boyfriend back is actually one of the easiest things to accomplish. It is a piece of cake when you turn off your emotions and when you learn how to play your cards right aka c\u00f3mo hacer que se arrepienta de haberte perdido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Y estamos aqu\u00ed para ense\u00f1arte exactamente eso. Estamos aqu\u00ed para guiarte a trav\u00e9s de 6 pasos que debes seguir si quieres volver con tu ex sin parecer desesperada.<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t reach out<\/h2>\n

Cuando tu novio te abandona, lo primero que quieres hacer es llamarle y decirle cu\u00e1nto le echas de menos. El primer impulso que tienes es tenderle la mano y hacer todo lo que est\u00e9 en tu mano para que vuelva.<\/p>\n

Y este es el primer error que cometemos la mayor\u00eda de nosotros durante la etapas de la ruptura<\/a>. First of all, even if this succeeds, you will only send him the message that he can do whatever the hell he wants and whenever the hell he wants and that you\u2019ll always be right there where he left you, waiting for him.<\/p>\n

Secondly, you\u2019ll just look desperate and needy. Besides losing your dignity, you\u2019ll also make him see that he can have you whenever he wishes and you are sending him the message that he shouldn\u2019t be miedo de perderte.<\/a><\/p>\n

When you set things up like this, you are actually giving your ex a heads up to try some new things and to see if he can make it without you because you\u2019ll be there when or if he ever decides to come back. You are telling him that he didn\u2019t lose anything when he left you.<\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t call him or send him essay-long texts, telling him how much you love and miss him. I know you want to remind him of all of your good times right away after he leaves you but this is something you shouldn\u2019t do if you want this guy back.<\/p>\n

2. Ning\u00fan contacto<\/h2>\n

\u00bfHa o\u00eddo hablar alguna vez del \u00bfRegla de no contacto?<\/a> Es un m\u00e9todo probado por el cual cortas todos los lazos con tu ex durante 30 d\u00edas seguidos. Y cuando digo todos los lazos, me refiero literalmente a todos los lazos.<\/p>\n

That means that you should spend the next month completely ignoring the fact that this man has ever existed in your life. You can\u2019t call him or text him. You can\u2019t post songs or status updates about things which remind you of him. You can\u2019t hang out with his friends or family and you can\u2019t go out to the places where you\u2019ll know you could see him.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, s\u00e9 que suena imposible de hacer, especialmente ahora que te mueres por verle o saber algo de \u00e9l, pero es algo que se puede y se debe hacer. Puedes pensar que desaparecer\u00e1s de su coraz\u00f3n una vez que hayas desaparecido de su vista, pero la verdad es muy distinta.<\/p>\n

This way, you\u2019ll give this guy a chance to miss you. You\u2019ll give him a chance to wonder what you\u2019ve been up to and to think about you. Remember\u2014distance only makes hearts grow fonder.<\/p>\n

3. Piensa en las cosas que salieron mal<\/h2>\n

During this no contact phase, you\u2019ll have some time to cool your head off and to think about your relationship realistically, for the first time ever. This is the time in which you have to take off your rose-tinted glasses and put some effort into seeing this man clearly.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 os separasteis realmente? \u00bfQu\u00e9 se podr\u00eda haber hecho para evitar la ruptura? \u00bfCu\u00e1les fueron tus errores en la relaci\u00f3n? \u00bfCu\u00e1les fueron los errores de \u00e9l? \u00bfC\u00f3mo podr\u00edais mejorar vuestra relaci\u00f3n si \u00e9l volviera contigo?<\/p>\n

These are all the questions you need to find answers to now. But the most important question you need to answer yourself is: Is this worth it? I know you love this guy and that you are dying to have him back but you need to ask yourself if he is really worthy of you. Is he the man you want to build your future with or is it that your ego simply can\u2019t stand the fact that \u00bfte dej\u00f3?<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfTienen las cosas alguna posibilidad de ir mejor esta vez? \u00bfO acabar\u00e1n los dos igual, aunque vuelvan a estar juntos?<\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>\n

4. C\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo<\/h2>\n

When you\u2019ve responded to all of these questions and you are still certain that you want this man back in your life, it\u2019s time for the next step. And no, the next step doesn\u2019t include you calling him and crying how much you want things to be the way they were, even though I know this is probably something you wish to do.<\/p>\n

El siguiente paso es centrarte en ti misma. S\u00ed, quieres recuperar a ese chico, pero estas cosas llevan su tiempo. Y en lugar de quedarte sentada en casa esperando a que se acuerde de ti, aprovecha este tiempo y ded\u00edcalo a ti misma.<\/p>\n

First of all, you\u2019ll feel much better about yourself if you start investing your energy into making yourself look and feel better. Read a book or go get a mani and a pedi\u2014whatever makes you happy and whatever takes your mind off your ex.<\/p>\n

Secondly, you\u2019ll send him a better and more positive vibe. I know that you aren\u2019t doing anything for him to conclude that you desperately want reconciliation but trust me, he\u2019ll feel it if you spend all your days thinking of him. And when you start focusing more on yourself and less on him, your ex will feel that your energy has shifted and he\u2019ll automatically start considering you more desirable.<\/p>\n

5. Deja que venga a ti<\/h2>\n

So, it has been a month and you\u2019ve managed to stick to the no contact rule. You haven\u2019t spoken to this guy ever since the two of you broke things off and you haven\u2019t done anything for him to think that you want him back.<\/p>\n

Well, enough time has passed and it\u2019s time to change this. No, this is not the moment in which you\u2019ll admit to him that you\u2019ve been missing him all this time nor the moment in which you\u2019ll directly ask him to get back together.<\/p>\n

Este es el momento en el que tienes que deja que venga a ti<\/a> and the time in which he starts chasing you, if you play your cards right. I am sure you are wondering how to accomplish that.Well, now you have to reappear in this man\u2019s life and heart. But you have to find a way to do it discreetly and for it to appear unintentional.<\/p>\n

Puedes ponerte en contacto con \u00e9l por algo que necesites de \u00e9l, sin mencionar siquiera vuestra reconciliaci\u00f3n. Puedes empezar a aparecer en los lugares que suele frecuentar o puedes empezar a enviarle se\u00f1ales sobre tus sentimientos hacia \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

6. Establezca las condiciones<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019ve accomplished all of these steps the right way, trust me\u2014this man will volver a ti<\/a> and he\u2019ll be the first one to talk about getting back together. And when this finally happens, you should never be desperate enough to accept everything and to agree about everything with him just to have him back.<\/p>\n

Instead, start acting like reconciliation is just an option to you. It is something you will think about. Yes, you will be happy to have him back in your life but it doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t live without him and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean that you want this guy back at any cost.<\/p>\n

Set the terms and conditions about your old-new relationship. This will make it much more successful and it will show your soon-to-be boyfriend that he can\u2019t play with you the way he wants. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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