{"id":26614,"date":"2018-10-24T09:51:28","date_gmt":"2018-10-24T09:51:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26614"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:50:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:50:17","slug":"8-cosas-de-las-que-te-das-cuenta-cuando-vuelves-a-salir-con-tu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-cosas-de-las-que-te-das-cuenta-cuando-vuelves-a-salir-con-tu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"8 cosas de las que te das cuenta cuando vuelves a salir con tu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfEs buena idea volver a salir con tu ex? En 9 de cada 10 casos, dir\u00eda que NO. Pero siempre hay excepciones a la regla.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes people are too immature and unprepared for a relationship. Sometimes there are so many \u2018what-ifs\u2019 left between two people that they crave one more chance.<\/p>\n<p>A veces el amor sigue vivo a pesar de todo. En esos momentos, la gente decide darle otra oportunidad.<\/p>\n<p>A veces las personas est\u00e1n dispuestas a arriesgarse a que les vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o porque a\u00fan sienten demasiado profundamente. A veces lo consiguen contra todo pron\u00f3stico.<\/p>\n<p>Volver a salir con tu ex puede ser una experiencia agridulce. Hay algunas cosas de las que te das cuenta cuando decides dar ese salto de fe.<\/p>\n<h2>1. El dolor cambia a las personas<\/h2>\n<p>Una vez que te rompen el coraz\u00f3n, ya no puede volver a ser como antes. Ahora eres una persona diferente. Has aprendido mucho y te has hecho m\u00e1s fuerte.<\/p>\n<p>Dating your ex again will be a way of getting to know each other all over again. Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking you will pick up where you left off, and everything will be the same.<\/p>\n<h2>2. El sentimiento de familiaridad estar\u00e1 muy presente<\/h2>\n<p>Even though you\u2019ve both changed, everything will feel familiar. You will know stuff about each other such as your likes and dislikes.<\/p>\n<p>You have a history together that can be both a positive and negative thing for you\u2014positive because you will feel comfortable around that person; negative because in the back of your mind, you will fear that the same bad things will happen all over again.<\/p>\n<h2>3. You can\u2019t undo the damage that was already done<\/h2>\n<p>Ten\u00edas un motivo para romper y te ha dejado un sabor amargo en la boca. Puede que te encuentres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/a-la-chica-con-problemas-de-confianza-no-todos-los-hombres-son-iguales\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desconfiado<\/span><\/a> and fearing that the same things will happen again even though you\u2019ve both changed.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t leave the past in the past and forgive all that has been, there are slim chances you will make it this second time around.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Puede que tus seres queridos no apoyen tu reconciliaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p>Don\u2019t blame them; they are just worried. They have been with you through your breakup, and they don\u2019t want to see you hurt again.<\/p>\n<p>They wiped away your tears. They listened to you. They were there for you to lean on, and it\u2019s only natural that they are distrustful of your partner.<\/p>\n<p>Quieren que seas feliz. Hazles ver que eres muy consciente del riesgo y que aprecias su cari\u00f1o y su preocupaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Por fin algunas cosas tendr\u00e1n m\u00e1s sentido<\/h2>\n<p>La mayor\u00eda de las rupturas ocurren sin un cierre, y hay millones de preguntas en tu cabeza que se quedan sin respuesta.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora tienes la oportunidad de hablar las cosas, ver c\u00f3mo se sent\u00eda tu ex y por qu\u00e9 hizo las cosas que hizo.<\/p>\n<p>Just be careful\u2014talking about your past is not good for your future. That\u2019s why that talk should be limited to one or two conversations at the most.<\/p>\n<p>If you keep rubbing the past up their noses and constantly making them feel guilty, you will always be stuck, and your relationship won\u2019t be able to move forward.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Cosas nuevas para un nuevo comienzo<\/h2>\n<p>You have an opportunity to start fresh here, so don\u2019t go back to your old patterns. Be more open and ready to communicate. Be more creative with how you spend your days.<\/p>\n<p>There are always new things to do and new places to see. Don\u2019t fall back into the rut you left behind. Try harder this time. Both of you.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Ahora son m\u00e1s maduros<\/h2>\n<p>Assuming that you haven\u2019t given a chance to someone who was manipulative, narcissistic, toxic or in any way abusive, you probably were with someone who was not ready for a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Compromiso era la palabra que les produc\u00eda sarpullido. Les faltaban esfuerzos e inversiones. Nunca estaban ah\u00ed cuando se les necesitaba. B\u00e1sicamente, se quedaban a medias.<\/p>\n<p>They are all in now, and you can clearly feel the difference. They call and text regularly. You don\u2019t have to beg for their time or affection. Everything flows freely.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Por fin aprendieron a valorarte<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s like some kind of curse in people that they don\u2019t see someone&#8217;s value in their life until they lose them. It was probably a long time coming, but they finally see your worth.<\/p>\n<p>Podr\u00e1s ver que se arrepienten de verdad de sus actos. Se esforzar\u00e1n m\u00e1s la segunda vez porque querr\u00e1n enmendar todos los errores y har\u00e1n que te sientas segura.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-26617 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 cosas de las que te das cuenta cuando vuelves a salir con tu ex\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it a good idea to date your ex again? In 9 out of 10 cases, I would say NO. But there are always exceptions to the rule. Sometimes people are too immature and unprepared for a relationship. Sometimes there are so many \u2018what-ifs\u2019 left between two people that they crave one more chance. 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