{"id":26650,"date":"2018-10-25T06:46:08","date_gmt":"2018-10-25T06:46:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26650"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:40:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:40:04","slug":"no-vuelvas-a-tu-antiguo-amor-ya-sabes-como-acaba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-vuelvas-a-tu-antiguo-amor-ya-sabes-como-acaba\/","title":{"rendered":"No vuelvas con tu antiguo amor: ya sabes c\u00f3mo acaba"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le echas de menos. S\u00e9 que le echas de menos.<\/p>\n

Echas de menos su bonita sonrisa de ni\u00f1o y su adorable sonrisa de oreja a oreja cuando intentabas enfadarte con \u00e9l por molestarte con algo que ahora te parece tan rid\u00edculo.<\/p>\n

Echas de menos esos peque\u00f1os y preciosos momentos con \u00e9l, despu\u00e9s de haber tenido un largo d\u00eda, y que te iluminara nada m\u00e1s entrar en casa. Echas de menos que solo pensar en \u00e9l esper\u00e1ndote en ese sof\u00e1 te hiciera tan feliz.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s all those small things that you may have taken for granted at the time, but that now make you feel so empty and hollow. You feel like there is a genuine part missing from yourself, and you don\u2019t know how to fill that void that is churning in your chest.<\/p>\n

Y you\u2019re sick and tired of feeling this way<\/a>. S\u00f3lo necesitas que pare.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something. The thing you miss the most is not HIM. It\u2019s how you felt when you knew you had him around. But remember this. You broke up for a reason. A good reason. You just need to remind yourself of all the ways he made you feel insufficient and inadequate and stop idealizing him in your head. If it were REALLY that good, don\u2019t you think you would still be together?<\/b><\/p>\n

Hiciste todo lo que pudiste. Hiciste todo lo que pudiste para salvar tu relaci\u00f3n, y al final, your best just wasn\u2019t enough<\/a> m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t beat yourself up now that the story has come to an end. There is nothing left to be written. Let it go; give yourself a chance to heal.<\/p>\n

Cuando te encuentras con ganas de enviarle un mensaje de texto, please don\u2019t<\/b>.<\/span> When you feel yourself wanting to talk to him, call your bestie instead! But whatever you do, don\u2019t give him so much space in your head and your heart.<\/p>\n

Ya no pertenece all\u00ed<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este sentimiento actual de fragilidad no va a durar para siempre. As\u00ed es como te sientes ahora. Es totalmente comprensible, pero debes saber que pasar\u00e1. Acabas de perder algo que formaba parte integral de tu vida y necesitas darte tiempo para aprender a vivir sin ello.<\/p>\n

It is insane to think that going back to him would change anything. Don\u2019t be tempted. He is still the same person that made you feel so shitty at times. He\u2019s still the same person who couldn\u2019t find the time for you when you needed him the most! And he is still the person who didn\u2019t FIGHT for you when your relationship was going to hell. It was all you and your effort.<\/b><\/p>\n

Aren\u2019t you tired of always being the only one giving it your all?<\/p>\n

It is normal to miss him sometimes. After all, you spent a significant amount of life together. You were so used to having him by your side that now you just don\u2019t know how to function any other way.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t live in the past. It\u2019s there for a reason. For as long as you keep clinging onto that tiny glimmer of hope that things MIGHT get better someday and that he might change, you will be doing yourself a huge disservice by not allowing yourself to live your life in the present, y reviviendo continuamente momentos del pasado, momentos que en realidad son s\u00f3lo <\/b>destaca<\/i><\/b> de una relaci\u00f3n que ya no ten\u00eda sentido.<\/b><\/p>\n

Querida, \u00a1te mereces mucho m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l podr\u00eda ofrecerte! Te mereces vivir tu vida AHORA y encontrar tu felicidad en tu presente.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t deserve to have you still hung up on him when there are so many guys out there that could be your ONE.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let memories of your past diminish the light that you deserve in your present.<\/p>\n

El futuro puede ser tan brillante. S\u00f3lo tienes que dejar que vuelva a brillar.<\/p>\n

\u00c9L es tu pasado. \u00a1D\u00e9jalo ah\u00ed!<\/p>\n

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You miss him. I know you do. You miss his cute, boyish smile and the way he would adorably grin from ear to ear when you would try and stay mad at him for annoying you with something that seems so ridiculous now. You miss those precious, little moments with him, after having had a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26651,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26650","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/alicia-petresc-1115833-unsplash.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26650","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26650"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26650\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26651"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26650"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26650"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26650"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}