{"id":26669,"date":"2020-05-25T09:22:35","date_gmt":"2020-05-25T09:22:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26669"},"modified":"2022-02-25T11:25:00","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T11:25:00","slug":"encontre-al-amor-de-mi-vida-pero-tu-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/encontre-al-amor-de-mi-vida-pero-tu-no\/","title":{"rendered":"Encontr\u00e9 al amor de mi vida pero t\u00fa no"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hasta que llegaste a mi vida, era un poco pesimista sobre el amor.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that I didn\u2019t believe in it (because I did), it was merely about not being entirely convinced that it could last an entire lifetime <i> . <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Even saying it seems a little daunting, doesn\u2019t it? <\/i><\/p>\n<p>But then you happened. You came into my life and swept me off my feet so fast that I didn\u2019t have time to react.<\/p>\n<p>De alguna manera te las arreglaste para hacerme ver que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-viaje-de-tu-alma-te-llevara-a-tu-persona-eterna\/\"> para siempre <\/a> ES posible y poco a poco empec\u00e9 a cambiar de opini\u00f3n. T\u00da lo hiciste.<\/p>\n<p><b>Me hiciste sentir m\u00e1s amada de lo que cre\u00eda posible y, a cambio, tontamente empec\u00e9 a creer que tal vez para siempre... <\/b><b><i>fue <\/i><\/b><b>en las cartas para m\u00ed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Sent\u00ed que realmente podr\u00edas ser mi \"felices para siempre\".<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Me hiciste disfrutar mucho m\u00e1s del sol y capear mejor las tormentas sabiendo que estabas a mi lado.<\/p>\n<p>Me has hecho cambiar de opini\u00f3n sobre todo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero entonces, te fuiste.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92614\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sin ninguna se\u00f1al, ni advertencia, ni nada que pudiera prepararme para eso. De la nada, desapareciste de mi vida y me dejaste colgando de un hilo.<\/p>\n<p><b>All I could think was, \u2018Why?\u2019 What could\u2019ve possibly happened to make you change your mind about me?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> \u00bfC\u00f3mo pudiste entrar en mi vida como una tormenta abrasadora y hacerme temblar de emoci\u00f3n, s\u00f3lo para un d\u00eda decidir que ya no val\u00eda la pena?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Did you just wake up one day and decide that I wasn\u2019t enough?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfFue una decisi\u00f3n consciente entrar en mi vida y convertirme en una eterna optimista sobre el amor para luego marcharse sin dejar rastro, JUSTO cuando empec\u00e9 a pensar que eras la indicada para m\u00ed?<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfYa no era mi cara junto a la que quer\u00edas despertarte? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfO su fe en lo que ten\u00edamos era tan d\u00e9bil que se rindi\u00f3 en cuanto sinti\u00f3 que sal\u00eda de su zona de confort?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sea lo que sea, necesito saberlo. Necesito de alguna manera estar de acuerdo con que transformes mis creencias por TI, s\u00f3lo para que me dejes colgado en la oscuridad. \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes esperar que yo est\u00e9 de acuerdo con esto?<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez la falta de cierre que tuve deber\u00eda ser mi gracia salvadora. Tal vez si supiera qu\u00e9 fue lo que te hizo irte tan abruptamente, estar\u00eda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-te-fuiste-estaba-devastada-pero-ahora-me-siento-aliviada\/\">devastado<\/a> e incapaz de hacerle frente.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQuiz\u00e1s deber\u00eda encontrar consuelo en tu falta de honestidad?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92620\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-alone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la cama sola\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-alone-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-alone-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Todo lo que s\u00e9 ahora es que necesito olvidarte. Necesito olvidar que alguna vez te am\u00e9. Necesito olvidar que alguna vez dej\u00e9 que me hicieras creer en algo que ahora parece tan descabellado. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfPero qu\u00e9 ir\u00f3nico es esto? El tipo que me hizo creer en algo que nunca pens\u00e9 que fuera posible resulta ser el tipo que me aplasta y hace que me arrepienta de haber dejado que un hombre tenga tanto poder sobre m\u00ed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What I\u2019m working on now is learning to forgive myself for expecting too much from you. To forgive myself for being so intoxicated by your \u2018love\u2019 that I disregarded my own beliefs.<\/p>\n<p>I am learning to forgive myself for holding onto you so dearly, even though you are no longer here, for which I\u2019ll probably never get an explanation.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you came into my life for a reason. Maybe you were meant to teach me that what I was so skeptical about isn\u2019t as impossible as I\u2019m making it seem.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez serviste para algo en mi vida y no supe verlo por el rencor que te he guardado durante tanto tiempo. Elijo creerlo. Lo necesito para preservar mi propia cordura.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe we just weren\u2019t meant to be and I should simply learn to live with it. It\u2019s easier that way.<\/p>\n<p><b>Dios sabe que te am\u00e9 m\u00e1s que al universo mismo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But now I see that you were sent to me to teach me something about love, something I probably never would\u2019ve learned had it not been for you.<\/p>\n<p>I am choosing to let go of my anger. I am no longer asking myself, \u2018Why?\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Sigo adelante, con la cabeza bien alta y cero resentimiento en el alma. S\u00e9 que todo sucede por una raz\u00f3n y eso es lo que dejar\u00e9 que me gu\u00ede a partir de ahora.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92613\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Found-The-Love-Of-My-Life-But-You-Didn\u2019t-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Encontr\u00e9 al amor de mi vida pero t\u00fa no\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Found-The-Love-Of-My-Life-But-You-Didn\u2019t-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Found-The-Love-Of-My-Life-But-You-Didn\u2019t-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Until you came into my life, I was somewhat of a pessimist about love. It\u2019s not that I didn\u2019t believe in it (because I did), it was merely about not being entirely convinced that it could last an entire lifetime . Even saying it seems a little daunting, doesn\u2019t it? But then you happened. You&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":92630,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26669","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Found-The-Love-Of-My-Life-But-You-Didn\u2019t.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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