{"id":26679,"date":"2020-09-25T09:42:29","date_gmt":"2020-09-25T09:42:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26679"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:37:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:37:59","slug":"se-necesita-un-hombre-fuerte-para-ganar-el-corazon-de-una-madre-soltera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-necesita-un-hombre-fuerte-para-ganar-el-corazon-de-una-madre-soltera\/","title":{"rendered":"Se necesita un hombre fuerte para ganarse el coraz\u00f3n de una madre soltera"},"content":{"rendered":"

Madre soltera<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Detente un segundo y piensa en el peso de esa palabra.<\/p>\n

Pronto te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que es una simple palabra desde fuera, pero desde la perspectiva de una mujer que tiene ese papel, es mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You will see that that word is full of worries about your child, tears spilled because you can\u2019t explain why dad is no longer there.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 llena de tristeza por los oscuros lugares a los que lleva a su hijo cada fin de semana, para que su padre lo recoja.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Places where nobody goes, places where there are not so many people because you don\u2019t want others to see your sadness for sharing your child with the man who used to be your everything once, but now, he is just a stranger you no longer recognize.<\/p>\n

That word is full of love, attention, sacrifice, late night talks, keeping awake because your child has a fever, working two different jobs just to provide him with nice clothes and shoes, so he won\u2019t be different from the other kids.<\/p>\n

Tienes mucho miedo de que tu hijo sea diferente de sus amigos y de que se sienta triste por ello. As\u00ed que haces todo lo posible para que se parezca lo m\u00e1s posible a ellos.<\/p>\n

Porque, para ser sinceros, \u00e9l ya es bastante diferente a ellos. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Y por eso, todo tu mundo se viene abajo. Sientes que la vida no es justa y que mereces algo mejor.<\/p>\n

Then you realize that you don\u2019t have time to think negatively because you have a little person in your life who needs you badly, and si te desmoronas <\/a>se quedar\u00e1 solo.<\/p>\n

Entonces lloras a l\u00e1grima viva, te limpias las l\u00e1grimas y contin\u00faas donde te detuviste. Y vives as\u00ed d\u00eda tras d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

A veces deseas tener a alguien no para que te cuide, sino s\u00f3lo para que veas que est\u00e1 ah\u00ed. Pero te das cuenta de que un hombre as\u00ed tiene que ser realmente especial. Porque s\u00f3lo un hombre de verdad puede conquistar el coraz\u00f3n de una madre soltera.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quien es fuerte y sabe aceptarte tal como eres puede conquistarte y hacer una vida contigo.<\/p>\n

Pero un hombre as\u00ed necesita saber un par de cosas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tiene que aceptar que tu hijo siempre ser\u00e1 tu m\u00e1xima prioridad. Significa que puedes hacer planes con \u00e9l, pero que los cancelar\u00e1s en un abrir y cerrar de ojos si tu hijo se pone enfermo.<\/p>\n

Because you would rather stay with the person you carried under your heart for nine months, making sure he is fine, than to have fun with a guy who isn\u2019t the perfect one.<\/p>\n

If a man wants to win the heart of a single mom, he needs to know that she doesn\u2019t like games, except the ones she gladly plays with her child. She won\u2019t put up with any shit in a relationship because she has been emotionally beaten, bruised and neglected for so much time. And she doesn\u2019t want her child seeing her going through the same things again. She would rather stay single than to settle for less than she deserves.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t have any problems showing her badass side because she learned that by being gentle and polite, she won\u2019t get what she wants.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

A man who thinks he is strong enough to date a single mom needs to know that she doesn\u2019t give second chances. She gave a lot of them in the past, and every time she was disappointed.<\/p>\n

Now, all she wants is a love that stays. She wants someone she can rely on. She wants to have a friend and a lover in one person. And most of all, she doesn\u2019t want to change because of him.<\/p>\n

She put a lot of effort to get to where she is now, and she wouldn\u2019t give that up for anything in this world. She just wants someone who will ponerle una etiqueta <\/a> y aceptarla como es.<\/p>\n

He needs to know that even though she split with her ex, he will always be a part of her life because of their child. And if he can\u2019t stand that they meet and talk about their child, he shouldn\u2019t even try anything with her. He needs to know that by accepting her, he accepts her child as well.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

When she was so brave to bring him into her life and the life of her child, he can at least be honest about his feelings. He needs to have his heart on his sleeve and have a strong will to stay or go but to never hold her somewhere in between. She already had an almost relationship, and she doesn\u2019t want another one.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t keep any man in her life until she is 100% sure that he will be good to her child. She will spend a lot of time getting to know a man before she even introduces him to her child. Because her child is her whole world and she doesn\u2019t want someone to hurt him.<\/p>\n

Es una persona dispuesta a hacer todo lo posible por quien la acepte tal como es. Se alegrar\u00e1 si conoce a un hombre que le devuelva la fe en el amor y que le demuestre que la vida puede ser bella.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1 m\u00e1s que feliz de tener a alguien a quien acudir cuando haya tenido un mal d\u00eda. Alguien con quien acurrucarse y a quien contarle sus peores pesadillas.<\/p>\n

Ella, la fuerte, tambi\u00e9n necesita que alguien le diga que lo est\u00e1 haciendo muy bien sola y que le reconozca el m\u00e9rito.<\/p>\n

She needs a man who won\u2019t run away at the first bump on the road. She needs someone who is strong enough to endure the storms life puts in front of him.<\/p>\n

Necesita un hombre de verdad que se gane su coraz\u00f3n y le demuestre que es digna de amor. Necesita a alguien que sepa que la han roto en pedazos pero que decida enamorarse de todos y cada uno de ellos.<\/p>\n

Porque, \u00a1ella lo vale con creces!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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