{"id":26713,"date":"2020-04-25T11:14:10","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T11:14:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26713"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:57:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:57:49","slug":"para-cada-chica-que-piensa-que-no-puede-dejar-de-amar-al-chico-equivocado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/para-cada-chica-que-piensa-que-no-puede-dejar-de-amar-al-chico-equivocado\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas las chicas que piensan que no pueden dejar de amar al chico equivocado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a1Eh, t\u00fa! S\u00e9 exactamente por lo que est\u00e1s pasando y c\u00f3mo te sientes ahora mismo.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you feel like you\u2019ve lost yourself to heartbreak and that you are fighting hard to not dwell on your pain.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que est\u00e1s luchando con todas tus fuerzas para olvidar al hombre que te ha hecho da\u00f1o y para acallar todos los sentimientos que a\u00fan sientes por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>But somehow, this isn\u2019t happening.<\/p>\n<p>Lo s\u00e9 porque yo fui t\u00fa. Tambi\u00e9n fui alguien que am\u00f3 al hombre equivocado, aunque era lo \u00faltimo que se merec\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you are aware of all of this guy\u2019s flaws. You are aware that he has caused you great emotional pain and that he is not the man you should be giving your love to.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando a un punto\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-768x514.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>The truth is that you have a huge heart and that you believe in everlasting love. You swore to this man that you\u2019d love him forever, no matter what.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> And you are still keeping your promise, even though he didn\u2019t do the same. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pero a veces te preguntas si est\u00e1s loco. \u00bfC\u00f3mo es posible amar a alguien que te ha hecho tanto da\u00f1o?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfC\u00f3mo es posible amar al hombre que te descuid\u00f3 emocionalmente y abus\u00f3 de ti?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfC\u00f3mo es posible que sigas sintiendo algo por alguien que nunca te quiso como deb\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>A veces, te preguntas qu\u00e9 m\u00e1s tiene que hacerte este hombre para que finalmente acabe con todo tu amor por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96562\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven llorando en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Wasn\u2019t everything he put you through more than enough for you to get him out of your head and out of your heart?<\/p>\n<p>A veces, te sientes culpable por seguir queri\u00e9ndole y ech\u00e1ndole de menos. Te culpas por no ser lo suficientemente fuerte como para superarlo y seguir adelante con tu vida, de la misma forma que \u00e9l lo hizo.<\/p>\n<p>Piensas que este dolor emocional es exclusivamente culpa tuya porque eres t\u00fa quien sigue aferrada al hombre que te hizo sentir as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>And then, there are days when you are convinced that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life craving this guy.<\/p>\n<p>When you think of all the ways he crippled you emotionally and when you are sure that you\u2019ll never be capable of loving someone else as much as you loved him.<\/p>\n<p>I know that things aren\u2019t looking good right now. I know that you can\u2019t seem to see the light at the end of the tunnel that you so desperately seek.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96564\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>But let me tell you just one thing\u2014you will <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/he-decidido-que-es-hora-de-dejar-de-amarte\/\"><b>deja de quererlo<\/b><\/a><b>, sooner or later. You probably don\u2019t believe me now but this man will become just a part of your past. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Un d\u00eda, ser\u00e1 s\u00f3lo un recuerdo lejano. <\/b>Y ese d\u00eda est\u00e1 a punto de llegar antes de lo que espera.<\/p>\n<p>I am not here to give you any false hope but when that day finally comes, you won\u2019t be able to believe that you cried this many tears for someone who was never worthy of your energy or time.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be able to believe that once you were convinced you would spend eternity suffering for someone who was never worthy of you.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014the pain you are feeling now is only temporary. You feel this way because you are processing everything that went on and because you are grieving your loss.<\/p>\n<p>Pero todo esto desaparecer\u00e1 cuando comprendas que algunas cosas y algunas personas simplemente no est\u00e1n destinadas a ser.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96566\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando a camara\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-looking-at-camera-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todo este dolor ser\u00e1 historia una vez que te des cuenta de que todo ocurre por una raz\u00f3n y por una causa mayor.<\/p>\n<p><b>One day, you\u2019ll accept the fact that this man is no longer a part of your life. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And the best part is that you\u2019ll realize that losing this guy was the best thing that could have ever happened to you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-sucedera-de-la-noche-a-la-manana-pero-sanaras\/\"> sanar\u00e1s <\/a> cuando menos te lo esperas.<\/p>\n<p>Todo el amor que sientes por este hombre desaparecer\u00e1 junto con el dolor que te consume en este momento.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo tienes que ser paciente y tener fe en ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/For-Every-Girl-Who-Thinks-She-Cant-Stop-Loving-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest.png\" alt=\"Para todas las chicas que piensan que no pueden dejar de amar al chico equivocado\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/For-Every-Girl-Who-Thinks-She-Cant-Stop-Loving-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/For-Every-Girl-Who-Thinks-She-Cant-Stop-Loving-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/For-Every-Girl-Who-Thinks-She-Cant-Stop-Loving-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/For-Every-Girl-Who-Thinks-She-Cant-Stop-Loving-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest-150x225.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, you! I know exactly what you are going through and how you feel right now. I know that you feel like you\u2019ve lost yourself to heartbreak and that you are fighting hard to not dwell on your pain. I know that you are struggling with all of your power to forget the man who&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":96567,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/For-Every-Girl-Who-Thinks-She-Cant-Stop-Loving-The-Wrong-Guy.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96567"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}