{"id":26717,"date":"2019-10-25T11:27:22","date_gmt":"2019-10-25T11:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26717"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:20:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:20:48","slug":"ella-te-perdono-pero-no-quiere-nada-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ella-te-perdono-pero-no-quiere-nada-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Te ha perdonado pero no quiere saber nada de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca pens\u00f3 que <\/span>encontrar la fuerza para perdonarte<\/span><\/a> for all the hell you\u2019ve put her through. She never thought she would be able to forgive you for all the harm you\u2019ve done to her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca imagin\u00f3 que podr\u00eda perdonarte por todas las l\u00e1grimas que llor\u00f3 por ti. Por c\u00f3mo la trataste o por c\u00f3mo la hiciste sentir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero aqu\u00ed est\u00e1, haciendo exactamente eso. <\/span>Yes, that\u2019s right\u2014you\u2019ve heard it well. This is her forgiving you.<\/b><\/p>\n

But she isn\u2019t doing it for your sake. No, the only person she is doing it for is herself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cuando dejaste atr\u00e1s a esta chica, tambi\u00e9n dejaste atr\u00e1s toda tu negatividad. Fue como si transfirieras toda tu toxicidad y pesimismo a ella.<\/span><\/p>\n

After you left, anger and resentment started to consume her completely. She was pissed and furious at you for everything you\u2019d done.<\/span><\/p>\n

En lo \u00fanico que pod\u00eda pensar era en las formas de <\/span>vengarme dulcemente de ti<\/span><\/a> porque pens\u00f3 que era la \u00fanica manera de recuperar la paz. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda vengarse de ti y quer\u00eda que sintieras lo que ella sent\u00eda porque pensaba que era la \u00fanica forma de curar su coraz\u00f3n roto y su ego roto.<\/span><\/p>\n

But then, it hit her. She had become a prisoner of her hatred toward you. And you still had power over her, even though you were gone. You were still a huge part of her life, even though you weren\u2019t physically present in it.<\/b><\/p>\n

She realized that she had become everything she swore she\u2019d never be. Her hatred and anger made her become a bitter, negative and toxic person. Her negative emotions caged her and didn\u2019t let her be free.<\/span><\/p>\n

She realized that she was actually holding on to you as long as she was holding grudges. And that is why she finally let you go, together with all the bitterness and pessimism you\u2019d left behind.<\/b><\/p>\n

She decided it was time for her to forgive you because you didn\u2019t deserve to still have an impact on her. You weren\u2019t that important for her to dedicate her time or energy to hating you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Te<\/p>\n

Te perdon\u00f3 porque finalmente acept\u00f3 todo lo que hab\u00eda pasado. Acept\u00f3 que no hab\u00eda nada que pudiera hacer para cambiarte y que las cosas ten\u00edan que ser como eran.<\/span><\/p>\n

Decidi\u00f3 que era hora de aceptar las disculpas que nunca recibi\u00f3 porque era lo \u00fanico que la liberar\u00eda. Porque era la \u00fanica forma de que ella siguiera adelante con su vida y de que t\u00fa te fueras de verdad de ella.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that her forgiveness is an invitation back into her life. Because it is anything but that. <\/b><\/p>\n

Yes, she forgave you but she still doesn\u2019t want anything to do with you.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that she forgave you but she definitely didn\u2019t forget about everything you did to her. <\/b>By forgiving you, she is letting go of you but it doesn\u2019t mean that she is approving your actions or sending you the message that you didn\u2019t do anything wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo porque tiene un buen coraz\u00f3n y porque <\/span>ella perdona<\/span><\/a>, it doesn\u2019t mean she is stupid. It doesn\u2019t mean that she doesn\u2019t see you for who you really are and it doesn\u2019t mean she thinks of you in any better way than she did before. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that she hasn\u2019t learned her lesson and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean she is ready to repeat her mistakes.<\/b><\/p>\n

By forgiving you, she isn\u2019t giving you another chance to screw her up once more or to break her heart again. She isn\u2019t giving you a green light or an opportunity to finish her off.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, she is giving herself another chance to rise from the ashes you\u2019ve put her in. She is giving herself a chance to completely move on from you and from all the pain you\u2019ve made her experience. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se est\u00e1 dando la oportunidad de empezar de nuevo y de tener un futuro sin ti.<\/b> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She never thought she would find the strength to forgive you for all the hell you\u2019ve put her through. She never thought she would be able to forgive you for all the harm you\u2019ve done to her. She never imagined that she could forgive you for all the tears she cried for you. For the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":26718,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/megan-te-boekhorst-1116023-unsplash-6.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26717"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26717\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26718"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}