{"id":26762,"date":"2020-04-26T09:33:43","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T09:33:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26762"},"modified":"2022-06-21T00:00:35","modified_gmt":"2022-06-21T00:00:35","slug":"esto-es-lo-que-realmente-significa-estar-roto-porque-es-mas-que-un-desamor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-lo-que-realmente-significa-estar-roto-porque-es-mas-que-un-desamor\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que realmente significa estar roto (porque es m\u00e1s que una angustia)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las rupturas son un desastre emocional y un dolor enorme, pero estar roto es a\u00fan peor.<\/p>\n

Estar roto significa tener el alma destrozada, la confianza perdida y los sue\u00f1os inexistentes.<\/p>\n

Estar roto significa perder las ganas de vivir. Significa no poder levantarte de la cama porque no le ves sentido.<\/p>\n

Estar roto significa pensar que nunca podr\u00e1s recomponerte. Crees que est\u00e1s irreparablemente da\u00f1ado.<\/p>\n

Tu esp\u00edritu est\u00e1 aplastado y no tienes fuerza de voluntad.<\/p>\n

Te vas rompiendo poco a poco con cada d\u00eda que pasas con alguien que abusa emocionalmente de ti. Tristemente, lo s\u00e9 demasiado bien.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No eres consciente de que amas a alguien que no es digno de amor, alguien que abusa de tu buena naturaleza, alguien a quien le resulta f\u00e1cil manipularte porque es consciente de lo fuertes que son tus sentimientos hacia \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

How could I be so blind? Why didn\u2019t I see all the red flags waving in front of my face?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Era casi como si me hubieran lavado el cerebro. Y ahora que lo miro, probablemente lo estaba. Con todos los juegos mentales que me hizo, era incapaz de pensar con claridad.<\/p>\n

Lo peor de todo es que le quer\u00eda. Lo amaba con todo lo que ten\u00eda, incluso cuando vi lo que me estaba haciendo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Adorn\u00e9 la verdad. Me ment\u00eda a m\u00ed misma dici\u00e9ndome que no era tan malo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Que cambiar\u00eda. Que s\u00f3lo ten\u00eda que ser paciente y esperar hasta que se diera cuenta del esfuerzo que yo estaba poniendo en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda cambiarle. Ten\u00eda tantas ganas de cambiarlo. Pero la gente como \u00e9l nunca cambia, s\u00f3lo empeora. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Staying by his side too long made me broken and believe me when I say that is more than a heartbreak. It\u2019s the worst thing that can happen to you emotionally.<\/p>\n

Pierdes el control sobre tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

You become unable to function properly. It\u2019s like you are looking at your life from afar but you are not actively participating in it.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t maintain your focus on anything you do. You fall behind at work and in life because all you can think about is the things you went through.<\/p>\n

Te ves incapaz de respirar correctamente y la ansiedad te deprime.<\/b><\/p>\n

Te despiertas en mitad de la noche porque \u00e9l es el protagonista de tus pesadillas. Todo parece tan real y vuelves al cruel abrazo de tu pasado.<\/p>\n

Tu autoestima est\u00e1 destrozada.<\/b><\/p>\n

Te vuelves tan inseguro <\/a> and you find yourself unable to make a decision. You listen to everyone but yourself because you don\u2019t trust yourself either anymore.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s enfadado contigo mismo porque dejaste que esto continuara durante tanto tiempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are mad because you couldn\u2019t find the strength to leave sooner. You can\u2019t believe just how much you went through and what you endured in the name of love.<\/p>\n

Pensar en ello s\u00f3lo profundiza tu dolor. You can\u2019t stop the tears from falling. <\/b><\/p>\n

Te vuelves tan vulnerable que el mero hecho de pensar en tu relaci\u00f3n pasada te llena los ojos de l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\n

Desear\u00edas ser m\u00e1s fuerte y poder manejar mejor las cosas, pero todo parece tan duro e insoportable.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Pero aunque est\u00e9s roto, sigues respirando. <\/b><\/p>\n

Every day is a struggle, that\u2019s true. You struggle to get out of bed. You struggle to go to work. You struggle with your thoughts, pain and occasional numbness.<\/p>\n

Pero sobrevives. Remiendas esas partes rotas de ti mismo y te haces m\u00e1s fuerte cada d\u00eda que pasa. <\/b><\/p>\n

You became guarded, you became cautious and unable to trust anyone, you became someone you didn\u2019t recognize but who you still were deep down.<\/p>\n

Tu coraz\u00f3n sigue latiendo en tu quebranto.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que estar roto<\/a> es una experiencia insoportablemente dolorosa, pero te convierte en la persona que siempre debiste ser.<\/p>\n

You learn just how strong you really are. You didn\u2019t know you even had that much strength in you.<\/p>\n

Empiezas una nueva vida con una perspectiva totalmente nueva y nuevos horizontes ante ti.<\/p>\n

Respiras y das gracias a Dios porque por fin est\u00e1s libre de sus cadenas.<\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed cuando te digo que incluso cuando est\u00e1s completamente roto, sanar\u00e1s. Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed porque, contra todo pron\u00f3stico, yo tambi\u00e9n me cur\u00e9.<\/p>\n

\"Esto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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