{"id":26818,"date":"2020-05-29T08:20:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-29T08:20:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26818"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:10:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:10:17","slug":"esto-es-lo-que-realmente-piensa-cuando-dice-que-es-complicado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-lo-que-realmente-piensa-cuando-dice-que-es-complicado\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que realmente piensa cuando dice \"es complicado\""},"content":{"rendered":"

No hay nada peor que no saber a qu\u00e9 atenerse con alguien con quien esperas tener una relaci\u00f3n comprometida.<\/p>\n

Es una situaci\u00f3n en la que est\u00e1s en alg\u00fan tipo de casi relaci\u00f3n con alguien que doesn\u2019t want to label things<\/a> todav\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Y cuando le pides que aclare las cosas, te dice que lo vuestro es complicado. Bueno, esto es lo que realmente est\u00e1 pensando cuando te dice esto.<\/p>\n

I am ready for a relationship\u2014just not with you<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, es posible que alguien no est\u00e9 preparado para una relaci\u00f3n de verdad. Pero la mayor\u00eda de las veces, los chicos usan esto como excusa para estar en alg\u00fan tipo de casi relaci\u00f3n contigo, sin tener que etiquetarla.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las veces, se justifican dici\u00e9ndote que ahora mismo no est\u00e1n disponibles emocionalmente, que est\u00e1n demasiado ocupados para dedicarte el tiempo y la energ\u00eda que te mereces y que necesitan tiempo para decidirse.<\/p>\n

Bueno, tonter\u00edas. Quien quiera tenerte en su vida har\u00e1 tiempo. Si eres la elegida, querr\u00e1 estar contigo en este preciso momento.<\/p>\n

So when a guy tells you that he isn\u2019t ready or that things are complicated, he is probably just telling you that he doesn\u2019t want a relationship with you.<\/p>\n

Este hombre planea mantenerte cerca hasta que aparezca alguien m\u00e1s adecuado para \u00e9l y este nunca es un acuerdo con el que debas conformarte.<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014you are good enough and whoever doesn\u2019t see that doesn\u2019t deserve to have you in his life.<\/p>\n

Quiero sexo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s complicated\u201d is another way for a guy to try and m\u00e9tete en tus pantalones<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Es otra forma de decirte que quiere sexo casual, sin ninguna otra obligaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

But he is aware of the fact that you wouldn\u2019t accept something like this so he is basically giving you false hope that your relationship might rise to the next level sometime in the future.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014there is absolutely nothing wrong with sleeping with someone you are not in a real relationship with, as long as both partners want the same thing.<\/p>\n

Una cosa es que est\u00e9is de acuerdo en tener sexo ocasional y otra completamente distinta es que te siga mintiendo dici\u00e9ndote que las cosas ser\u00e1n diferentes si le das algo m\u00e1s de tiempo.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te quiero para lo bueno<\/h2>\n

\"adorable<\/p>\n

Cuando est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n complicada, en realidad est\u00e1s en una casi relaci\u00f3n. Y eso significa que ese hombre s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para lo bueno.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para el sexo, para las divertidas citas nocturnas, para los mimos y para todo lo bueno que conlleva toda relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPero qu\u00e9 pasa con las cosas malas? \u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa con los momentos en los que necesitas que est\u00e9 ah\u00ed para ti? \u00bfQue te coja de la mano cuando los tiempos se ponen dif\u00edciles? \u00bfCuando est\u00e1s enfermo o deprimido?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCuando necesitas que enjugue tus l\u00e1grimas o que te acompa\u00f1e a ese aburrido evento familiar?<\/p>\n

Technically, he is not your official boyfriend so he doesn\u2019t have the \u2018duty\u2019 to be around.<\/p>\n

And he knows this very well\u2014that is why he is insisting on having this type of relationship.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t know where you stand with your \u2018boyfriend\u2019, you simply can\u2019t rely on that man nor can you see him as your support.<\/p>\n

He hasn\u2019t made you any promises and he is using that to get what he wants. He hasn\u2019t promised to love you at your best or at your worst.<\/p>\n

Quiero una excusa para seguir viendo a otras chicas, pero tambi\u00e9n quiero tenerte cerca.<\/h2>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

A complicated relationship can\u2019t guarantee you fidelity. Well, to be frank, nobody can guarantee that your boyfriend will never cheat on you, even when you are in a labeled relationship but in this case, there at least exists a promise of integrity.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, b\u00e1sicamente, cuando un chico define vuestra relaci\u00f3n como complicada, s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 buscando una excusa para acostarse por ah\u00ed y ligar con otras chicas, sin enga\u00f1arte t\u00e9cnicamente porque no eres su novia.<\/p>\n

Pero al mismo tiempo, piensa usted es conveniente<\/a> y quiere tenerte cerca en su vida como algo estable y constante.<\/p>\n

Te guiar\u00e9 mientras me dejes<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Cuando un chico te dice que las cosas entre \u00e9l y t\u00fa son complicadas, b\u00e1sicamente te est\u00e1 diciendo que planea enga\u00f1arte mientras se lo permitas.<\/p>\n

He is perfectly fine with everything being this way and he doesn\u2019t plan on breaking things off unless you do it.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres el que tiene que ver que te mereces m\u00e1s y el que tiene que terminar las cosas, por mucho que te duela.<\/p>\n

\"Esto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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