{"id":26825,"date":"2020-03-29T08:51:04","date_gmt":"2020-03-29T08:51:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26825"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:08:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:08:19","slug":"asi-es-como-te-abres-al-amor-despues-de-haber-sido-danado-emocionalmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-te-abres-al-amor-despues-de-haber-sido-danado-emocionalmente\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como te abres al amor despu\u00e9s de sufrir un da\u00f1o emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfHa pasado alguna vez por una ruptura dolorosa que adem\u00e1s te rompi\u00f3 en pedazos <\/a> ? \u00bfHas estado alguna vez con alguien que te ha paralizado emocionalmente?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCon alguien cuyas acciones dejaron profundas cicatrices en tu coraz\u00f3n y en tu salud mental?<\/p>\n

If you have, I am sure you are convinced that right now, you don\u2019t want to be in another relationship ever again.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost all your faith in love, and all you want to do is to recover in the best possible way from everything that has happened to you.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que quieres es curar tu coraz\u00f3n destrozado y renunciar definitivamente a las citas, las relaciones y el amor.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que todo lo que quieres hacer ahora es excluir completamente el amor de tu vida. Piensas que la \u00fanica manera de proteger tu coraz\u00f3n es actuar completamente sin coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Que la \u00fanica forma de protegerte es construir una armadura a prueba de balas alrededor de tu coraz\u00f3n herido que mantendr\u00e1 alejado todo el dolor potencial.<\/p>\n

Pero antes de decidirte a hacerlo, ten en cuenta que el amor siempre merece una segunda oportunidad. <\/b><\/p>\n

You need to understand that just because one person disappointed you, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should be disappointe<\/b>d in love all together.<\/b><\/p>\n

Debes comprender que no todos los hombres son iguales. Tienes que entender que dejar escapar la posibilidad de volver a encontrar el amor es lo \u00faltimo que deber\u00edas hacer.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, debes dejar ir el dolor y a la persona que te caus\u00f3 ese dolor.<\/p>\n

En lugar de dejar que todo lo ocurrido te consuma, t\u00f3matelo como una dura lecci\u00f3n.<\/b> \u00bfQu\u00e9 le ha ense\u00f1ado el desamor?<\/p>\n

Did it show you what true love isn\u2019t? Did it teach you when it\u2019s time to walk away?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe ense\u00f1\u00f3 a ponerte en primer lugar y a quererte m\u00e1s? \u00bfTe ha ense\u00f1ado los errores que no debes repetir?<\/p>\n

En lugar de permitir que el dolor te atasque, aprende de \u00e9l. En lugar de permitir que el dolor te defina, piensa en \u00e9l como una experiencia valiosa.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Piensa en ello como algo que te convirti\u00f3 en la persona que eres hoy. Consid\u00e9ralo parte de tu pasado y d\u00e9jalo ah\u00ed, donde debe estar.<\/p>\n

Instead of allowing your pain to crush you, rise from the ashes of your broken heart. Don\u2019t think of yourself as weak for being hurt.<\/b><\/p>\n

Recuerda que no eres m\u00e1s que un ser humano y que esto es una prueba de tu fuerza.<\/b><\/p>\n

Loving again and opening your heart to love after you\u2019ve suffered severe emotional damage is the most courageous thing you\u2019ll ever have to do.<\/p>\n

Es una batalla que tienes que librar con tus demonios interiores, con tu pasado, con todo tu dolor, y una batalla que tienes que librar contigo mismo.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And it is a battle you\u2019ll have to win. Because if you don\u2019t, it means that the other person got exactly what they wanted. <\/b><\/p>\n

It means that they\u2019ve managed to break you along with your heart. That their mission is completed because they\u2019ve managed to scar you for life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Giving in to resentment and bitterness means that the other person won because you\u2019ve become just like them.<\/p>\n

It means that they\u2019ve convinced you that there is no such thing as true love and that you\u2019ll always hold on to them in one way or another.<\/p>\n

It means that they\u2019ve convinced you that the way they hurt you te hizo no querible para otros, tambi\u00e9n <\/a> . And that is a satisfaction you shouldn\u2019t give them.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Abrirse al amor es una batalla que ganar\u00e1s si tienes un poco m\u00e1s de fe en ti mismo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Remember that everything always happens for a reason, and that the Universe has bigger plans for you. I know you\u2019ve heard this a million times, but please, don\u2019t give up just yet.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not here to promise you that things will always turn out to your benefit in the future.<\/p>\n

I am not here to lie you that you\u2019ll never have your heart broken again.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que el amor ha sido y siempre ser\u00e1 arriesgado. Pero sin duda merece una oportunidad, y sin duda merece la pena correr el riesgo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Porque es la \u00fanica manera de vivir realmente tu vida, en lugar de limitarte a sobrevivirla.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"As\u00ed <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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