{"id":26874,"date":"2020-08-30T09:08:29","date_gmt":"2020-08-30T09:08:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26874"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:08:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:08:37","slug":"si-la-quieres-estate-a-su-lado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-la-quieres-estate-a-su-lado\/","title":{"rendered":"Si la quieres, cuida de ella"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you love her, don\u2019t just say it. Words <i> son <\/i> important&#8230; but ultimately hold no bearing if not backed up by actions.<\/p>\n<p>If you really love her, you can\u2019t just say it and never show it. She needs to see that your words aren\u2019t just empty, and she needs to <i> v\u00e9ase <\/i> se lo demuestras, una y otra vez.<\/p>\n<p><b>Demu\u00e9strale que eres un hombre de palabra. Demu\u00e9strale que no eres como todos esos otros chicos que tuvo antes. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Show her that you\u2019re not just saying what you want her to hear. Show her that when you profess her your love, you feel it in every bone and in every fiber of your being.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ya sabes, se est\u00e1 hartando de o\u00edr esas tres palabras m\u00e1gicas, y de cre\u00e9rselas como el <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/28-senales-de-que-eres-un-romantico-empedernido\/\"> rom\u00e1ntico empedernido <\/a> que ella es, s\u00f3lo para que le muerdan en el culo despu\u00e9s de ser tan abierta y digna de confianza.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 harta de que le digan una cosa y tener que cuestionarla durante toda la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Decirle que la quieres es f\u00e1cil, pero estar a su lado cuando realmente te necesita es cuando le demuestras que esas palabras tienen un significado real.<\/p>\n<p>Que realmente no puedes ver tu vida sin ella y <i> apreciar <\/i> su valor. Necesita que se lo digan de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107931\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace.jpg\" alt=\"una joven pareja de enamorados bes\u00e1ndose en la terraza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Necesita que seas fiel a tu palabra<\/b> . Necesita ver que el esfuerzo que pone en vuestra relaci\u00f3n es valorado, de lo contrario empezar\u00e1 a abandonar poco a poco.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t see the point in continuing to water your relationship if you are going to let it die.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make her give up on you.<\/p>\n<p><i> Don\u2019t you dare tell her you love her and then leave her when it gets messy and complicated. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>When life happens and you have shit to worry about. Don\u2019t let all the burdens fall on her shoulders. She needs you to show her that you love her now more than ever.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t expect her to get you out of life\u2019s hardships on her own and then decide to join her when the coast is clear again.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not love. That\u2019s <i> comodidad <\/i> . Conoce la diferencia y nunca la defraudes.<\/p>\n<p><b>Si la quieres, preg\u00fantale c\u00f3mo est\u00e1.<\/b> Don\u2019t assume that she\u2019s okay just because she is quiet.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107933\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking.jpg\" alt=\"una pareja de enamorados en el sof\u00e1 hablando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ahora es cuando te necesita <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/6-razones-por-las-que-tu-amiga-mala-es-la-amiga-que-mas-se-preocupa\/\"> m\u00e1s <\/a> . Ask her, and don\u2019t let her fool you into thinking she\u2019s okay. She\u2019s not always going to be fine, and she is going to need you to see it and come to her rescue.<\/p>\n<p>Saber leerla. <i> She\u2019s going to need you to <\/i> de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n<p>Talk to her about the uncomfortable stuff. It\u2019s not all rainbows and butterflies.<\/p>\n<p>Cosas <i> se <\/i> get difficult, and you will need to figure things out together. Don\u2019t bail on her when it stops being fun.<\/p>\n<p><b><i> Para disfrutar juntos de la vida, hay que capear juntos las tormentas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Be consistent. Don\u2019t shower her with affection one day and then disappear the other.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitas ser confiable para ella. Igual que ella lo es para ti.<\/p>\n<p>De acuerdo, no todos los d\u00edas van a ser un picnic, pero cada d\u00eda es una nueva oportunidad para demostrarle que est\u00e1s comprometido con ella y que, pase lo que pase, no dejar\u00e1s que eclipse vuestro amor mutuo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107935\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"una pareja de enamorados sentados en el cap\u00f3 verde de un coche y disfrutando de la puesta de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Eres m\u00e1s fuerte que cualquier cosa que se te ponga por delante.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo m\u00e1s importante, demu\u00e9strale que la quieres <b>cuando deja de quererse a s\u00ed misma.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There are going to be times when she won\u2019t know how to love herself anymore. She will be so hard on herself and let life get to her. She will probably try to chase you away as well.<\/p>\n<p><i> Don\u2019t let her! <\/i> This is when she\u2019s at her most delicate and vulnerable. This is when she is a complete mess, but this is when she needs your love, guidance and patience the most.<\/p>\n<p><b>All you need to do is just be there. When she tells you to leave \u2013 stay. When she tells you she wants to be alone \u2013 be there more than ever. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And when she is on the verge of breaking things up \u2013 kiss her with such love and passion that she will be able to feel life coming back into her body and soul. Make her <\/b><b><i>siente <\/i><\/b><b>tu amor y tu presencia.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nunca olvidar\u00e1 esos momentos. Nunca olvidar\u00e1 c\u00f3mo la ayudaste a recuperar la cordura.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca podr\u00e1 decirte cu\u00e1nto valora tu amor y tu esfuerzo, incluso cuando estaba en su peor momento. Eres su ancla y todo lo que necesita para volver a sentirse viva.<\/p>\n<p>Esto es el amor. Las palabras son necesarias, <i> pero las acciones son lo que la hace pasar el d\u00eda. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Saber que tiene todo eso en ti es lo que la har\u00e1 superar cualquier cosa. T\u00fa eres su <b>fuerza <\/b> cuando est\u00e1 m\u00e1s d\u00e9bil.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever let her down. Don\u2019t ever make her regret trusting you with so much of herself.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t gamble away the love that she feels from you. If you keep being her anchor, she will never stop being your girl.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107939 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si la quieres, cuida de ella\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you love her, don\u2019t just say it. Words are important&#8230; but ultimately hold no bearing if not backed up by actions. If you really love her, you can\u2019t just say it and never show it. She needs to see that your words aren\u2019t just empty, and she needs to see you prove it to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":107929,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26874","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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