{"id":26881,"date":"2023-10-18T09:13:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-18T09:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26881"},"modified":"2023-10-19T12:10:19","modified_gmt":"2023-10-19T12:10:19","slug":"incluso-si-se-va-usted-es-el-que-gana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/incluso-si-se-va-usted-es-el-que-gana\/","title":{"rendered":"Aunque se vaya, t\u00fa eres la que gana"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No matter how much in pain you are right now, believe me \u2013 you\u2019ve won. I know it sounds crazy, but the moment he decides to leave you, he loses, and you\u2019re the one who wins.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who wins because you were not afraid to love him with all of your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Fuiste real y genuino en este mundo lleno de mentes falsas y prejuicios. Nos ense\u00f1aste a todos a amar sin ego\u00edsmo e hiciste del mundo un lugar mejor.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t even dare to think otherwise. Your tears, big heart and soul full of life are all traits of a real soldier.<\/p>\n<p>You weren\u2019t afraid to fight for your dreams and beliefs. You weren\u2019t afraid to fight for the most dangerous thing \u2013 love.<\/p>\n<p>You knew that you might get hurt, but your beautifully stubborn heart simply didn\u2019t want to give up at the first obstacle. Obstacles have made you stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Estabas preparado para caer y levantarte como si nada hubiera pasado. Estabas preparada para entregarte plenamente a otra persona, que es lo m\u00e1s hermoso e inspirador que se puede hacer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap.jpg\" alt=\"mujer feliz tumbada en el regazo de un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, even if he leaves, you\u2019re the one who wins. You\u2019re the one who will continue with your life with a head held high and your big, now even stronger, heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>Aunque \u00e9l te daba por sentado, t\u00fa dabas.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Aunque su naturaleza ego\u00edsta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/not-rebuild-take-granted\/\"> te di por sentado <\/a> , your big heart was giving. You weren\u2019t afraid to give the most valuable thing in your possession \u2013 your heart, to a complete stranger.<\/p>\n<p>Can you ever imagine what a brave person you are? I\u2019m really proud of you, and you should be, too.<\/p>\n<p>Dabas aunque apenas recib\u00edas nada a cambio.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre esperaste que algo cambiara, y fuiste generoso al darle una segunda oportunidad.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98497\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada en mentes profundas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though he didn\u2019t appreciate you, you gave him your affection and were patiently waiting for him to reciprocate.<\/p>\n<p><b>Aunque te minti\u00f3, fuiste honesto.<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Hay que ser valiente para ser sincero en un mar de mentiras. Sab\u00edas que te estaba mintiendo, pero decidiste seguir siendo sincera.<\/p>\n<p>Even though his lies have haunted you every night in your sleep, you didn\u2019t let them change who you are. You stayed true to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca perdiste la oportunidad de decirle lo mucho que le quieres o le echas de menos, aunque se negara a responder a tus llamadas. Fuiste sincera.<\/p>\n<p>La honestidad es un regalo muy caro que t\u00fa hac\u00edas de todo coraz\u00f3n, y tambi\u00e9n lo esperabas de \u00e9l, aunque sab\u00edas que no se puede esperar un regalo tan caro de gente barata.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98498\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mujer solitaria y triste sumida en profundos pensamientos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pero t\u00fa elegiste creer de otro modo porque siempre intentas ver lo mejor en los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>Aunque te hizo sentir indigna, diste todo lo que pudiste.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t care for his manipulative games that made you feel unworthy of love. He made you feel like you had to fight and deserve his love, and you gave everything you could.<\/p>\n<p>Luchabas como un verdadero soldado no porque \u00e9l te obligara, sino porque cre\u00edas que si dabas todo lo que ten\u00edas, \u00e9l acabar\u00eda cambiando de opini\u00f3n y empezar\u00eda a tratarte como te mereces.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-mayor-error-que-he-cometido-fue-darte-todo-a-ti\/\">Dar todo lo que tienes<\/a> te ha hecho vulnerable, pero segu\u00edas nadando orgulloso en el mar de sus mentiras sin importarte un bledo.<\/p>\n<p>You believed he would rescue you once you started drowning. He didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98499\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste junto al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you weren\u2019t afraid to continue fighting for his poisonous love even though you knew it would destroy you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Aunque \u00e9l eligi\u00f3 a otro, t\u00fa le elegiste a \u00e9l.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Le elegiste a \u00e9l y decidiste luchar por \u00e9l. Deber\u00edas estar orgullosa de ti misma porque hiciste todo lo que estaba en tu mano para ganarte su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s what brave people do. They don\u2019t like someone and then wait for them to magically appear on their doors and jump into their lives.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas valientes deciden luchar por alguien que les gusta, aunque sepan que pueden acabar heridas. No tienen miedo a los retos.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t let life challenge you; instead you\u2019re the one challenging it, and sooner or later, you will reap what you sow.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer de pie bajo la luz del sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tus esfuerzos se ver\u00e1n recompensados de un modo u otro, s\u00f3lo tienes que creerlo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Even though he left, you\u2019re the one who won.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sabes que lo hiciste lo mejor que pudiste, y que le diste una oportunidad aunque \u00e9l la dio por sentada.<\/p>\n<p>Know that you\u2019re the one who won because your heart has gone through enormous pain and now it\u2019s even stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Su coraz\u00f3n seguir\u00e1 igual, aunque hayas intentado repararlo. Pero tu gran coraz\u00f3n ser\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s grande y fuerte, y esperar\u00e1 pacientemente a alguien que te merezca.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who wins because you know how to love, and don\u2019t let anyone tell you differently.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98495\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Aunque se vaya, t\u00fa eres la que gana\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.png\" alt=\"Aunque se vaya, t\u00fa eres la que gana\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-150x225.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No matter how much in pain you are right now, believe me \u2013 you\u2019ve won. I know it sounds crazy, but the moment he decides to leave you, he loses, and you\u2019re the one who wins. You\u2019re the one who wins because you were not afraid to love him with all of your heart. You&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":98501,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26881"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26881\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98501"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}