{"id":26894,"date":"2018-10-30T10:49:11","date_gmt":"2018-10-30T10:49:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26894"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:40:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:40:36","slug":"para-ti-era-defectuoso-para-otra-persona-sere-perfecto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/para-ti-era-defectuoso-para-otra-persona-sere-perfecto\/","title":{"rendered":"Para ti era defectuoso, para otra persona ser\u00e9 perfecto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Me tom\u00f3 un tiempo ver esto. Durante mucho tiempo, t\u00fa fuiste mi est\u00e1ndar. Contigo med\u00eda mi val\u00eda. Lo que t\u00fa ve\u00edas en m\u00ed era lo que yo eleg\u00eda creer que era.<\/p>\n<p><em>Vaya, qu\u00e9 equivocado estaba.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Por suerte, despu\u00e9s de hacer examen de conciencia tras nuestra ruptura, me di cuenta de que tu retorcida visi\u00f3n de m\u00ed no tiene nada que ver con c\u00f3mo soy en realidad. Todo lo que hace es reflejar tu pobre juicio sobre m\u00ed y la naturaleza ego\u00edsta de tu amor.<\/p>\n<p><b>First of all, I don\u2019t really believe you ever loved me. What you felt for me may have been lust, <\/b><b><i>en el mejor de los casos<\/i><\/b><b>. You don\u2019t treat a girl who gives you her heart on a silver platter the way you treated me.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You never saw me as anything more than just a piece of meat. A piece of meat that would listen to you, guide you, help you and give you all the other things that you just couldn\u2019t get enough of.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfY qu\u00e9 obtuve a cambio? La mitad de tu atenci\u00f3n y que s\u00f3lo te preocuparas por m\u00ed cuando ten\u00eda mi mejor aspecto, para que pudieras pasearme entre tus amigos, que s\u00f3lo me juzgaban por lo corto que era mi vestido y lo alegre que parec\u00eda mi culo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Right now, I\u2019m disgusted at how I let you treat me. You never showed me any respect. You never bothered to be there when I was a mess. You were only there when YOU needed something from me. <em>Qu\u00e9 tonta fui al confundir eso con amor.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>But I thank God that he let you in my life. I really do. See, if not for you, this is how I would let everyone treat me. Because that is all I\u2019ve been shown. You showed me any attention and I put my best dress on and went running. And in return, when I called you, when I was in need, you never showed up. You never wanted to be there for me because you saw my emotional side as a flaw.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca pudiste aceptar que las relaciones son algo m\u00e1s que dos personas que disfrutan juntas de la vida y que, cuando las cosas se ponen dif\u00edciles, se abandonan mutuamente. Cuando los tiempos eran buenos, \u00edbamos viento en popa, pero cuando la vida se interpon\u00eda, desaparec\u00edas hasta que yo arreglaba las cosas.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done letting you treat me this way. I refuse to be seen as needy, when all I wanted was your attention. I refuse to be seen as clingy, when all I wanted was to know my boyfriend loved me. I refuse to let you picture me as flawed, when all I really am is human.<\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En aquel momento no me di cuenta de nada, pero ahora lo veo m\u00e1s claro que nunca.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>You are no longer a factor in how I choose to see myself, or most importantly\u2014my worth. You are no longer relevant in my soul-searching. You no longer exist.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que t\u00fa ve\u00edas como necesitada, otra persona lo ver\u00e1 como una chica que ama tan profundamente que simplemente necesita ver ese amor correspondido.<\/p>\n<p>What you saw as clingy, somebody else will see as a girl who loves spending time with her partner because he makes her happy. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que t\u00fa ve\u00edas como un defecto, otra persona lo ver\u00e1 como una joya escondida. Me ver\u00e1 como una chica amable y de buen coraz\u00f3n, comprometida y fiel, abierta y digna de confianza y, sobre todo, genuina y real.<\/p>\n<p>I will not settle for anything or anyone less. If you want me, you get all of me. I\u2019m not going to pretend to be perfect to please you and be alone in my misery. I\u2019m not going to put on a brave face around you, only to come home and cry myself to sleep.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>No<\/i><\/b><b>. Si tengo que fingir ser otra cosa que la real, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/girl-messy-heart-worth-falling\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">chica desordenada que soy<\/a>no eres relevante en mi vida. S\u00f3lo aquellos que pueden aceptar todo de m\u00ed son dignos de mi tiempo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are the one who made me realize that. Out of that shitty relationship, I came out as the winner. You taught me to value myself and I\u2019ll forever be thankful.<\/p>\n<p>Ya no tengo paciencia para nada a medias. Si me quieres, tendr\u00e1s todo de m\u00ed y no hay atajos.<\/p>\n<p>Love me or leave me, I no longer accept anything in-between. I\u2019m the best version of myself I have ever been and only those who can appreciate me in all my realness, get the key to my heart.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-26895 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Reasons-Why-Having-A-Sister-Makes-You-A-Better-Person-2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Para ti era defectuoso, para otra persona ser\u00e9 perfecto\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Reasons-Why-Having-A-Sister-Makes-You-A-Better-Person-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Reasons-Why-Having-A-Sister-Makes-You-A-Better-Person-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Reasons-Why-Having-A-Sister-Makes-You-A-Better-Person-2.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It took me a while to see this. For so long, you were my standard. You were the one who I measured my worth upon. What you saw in me was what I chose to believe I was. Boy, how wrong was I. Luckily, after some soul-searching following our break-up, I realized that your twisted&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26897,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/angelos-michalopoulos-742340-unsplash.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26894"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26894\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}