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<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"We\u2019ve all been there. You are (or were) in a relationship and all of a sudden you start questioning his friendship with his ex or just contemplating too many what ifs.<\/p>\n
\u00a1Por favor, para!<\/p>\n
If your man is truly devoted to you and there\u2019s not a single reason to be suspicious of his behavior, there\u2019s no need to overreact and spread a disaster that didn\u2019t even exist in the first place. You should leave his past behind because if you don\u2019t, it will interfere with your present and you will not be able to enjoy life with your man the way you deserve.<\/p>\n
Overthinking about his ex will not bring you anything good. Instead, you should focus on what you\u2019re doing at the moment and nourish your love.<\/p>\n
Here are some reasons that might help you understand why you shouldn\u2019t give a fuck about his ex.<\/p>\n
Whenever you find yourself thinking about his ex, just remind yourself that he\u2019s here with you. He\u2019s not with her because they are a thing of the past.<\/p>\n
He might be still friends with her but that\u2019s all there is to it. He respects her as a thing of his past and loves you because you are in his present.<\/p>\n
Remember that relationships are built on trust. If you don\u2019t trust him that he\u2019s yours, he will start suspecting his own feelings.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m sure you don\u2019t want that happen and that is why you should embrace what the two of you have and stop worrying about her because in his mind, she\u2019s literally non-existent.<\/p>\n
If you start asking him questions, he\u2019ll think of you as insecure. I know you\u2019re doing it just because you\u2019re interested and a little bit jealous but there\u2019s no reason for that.<\/p>\n
Avoid asking him questions if there\u2019s no need for them. You are a strong and confident woman who doesn\u2019t give a fuck about his ex.<\/p>\n
Yes, she exists but that\u2019s not the reason why you should start questioning everything. Insecurity is the number one relationship killer and you certainly shouldn\u2019t let some ex ruin what you\u2019ve been building all this time.<\/p>\n
If you choose to ask him about her and he gladly gives you answers without looking worried or something, you\u2019re good. It means he\u2019s okay to talk about her because he\u2019s not afraid that he\u2019ll reveal something that you don\u2019t know yet.<\/p>\n
If he\u2019s not afraid to tell you anything about his past relationship, it means he\u2019s over it and you shouldn\u2019t be worrying. When it comes to this, men are really easy to decipher.<\/p>\n
If he still has a thing for her, he won\u2019t be able to talk freely about her. He would have to think twice before saying anything and you would have noticed it.<\/p>\n
When the two of you are walking around or sitting having a drink and his ex passes by, does he, say, change his behavior or pretend that he didn\u2019t notice her? If he says hello to her like to anyone else, there\u2019s no need to worry.<\/p>\n
He will not hide her from you because he doesn\u2019t need to. He knows he\u2019s with you and all he\u2019s doing is showing her respect by greeting her and that\u2019s pretty much it.<\/p>\n
He\u2019s not pretending he didn\u2019t notice her because he\u2019s aware of her existence and it doesn\u2019t mean shit to him. He wants you to feel comfortable around her, just as you would want him to feel comfortable around your exes.<\/p>\n
Nope. She may turn up here and there but she\u2019s not a part of your relationship. His past stays in his past, just as your past stays in your past.<\/p>\n
Debes entender que quiere disfrutar del presente contigo mientras construye un futuro. Quiere que est\u00e9s a su lado y que no pienses en su pasado y en algunas personas irrelevantes que pasaron por all\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Conc\u00e9ntrate en el presente y deja todo lo dem\u00e1s en el pasado, donde pertenece. Aprecia estos momentos de alegr\u00eda con tu chico y no te preocupes de nada m\u00e1s que de ti y de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n
Recuerda que eres T\u00da con quien ha elegido estar. Ahora eres suya y todo lo dem\u00e1s es irrelevante.<\/p>\n
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We\u2019ve all been there. You are (or were) in a relationship and all of a sudden you start questioning his friendship with his ex or just contemplating too many what ifs. Please, stop! If your man is truly devoted to you and there\u2019s not a single reason to be suspicious of his behavior, there\u2019s no…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":26900,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26899","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/jr-korpa-774991-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26899","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26899"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26899\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26900"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26899"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26899"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26899"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}