{"id":2690,"date":"2020-09-18T12:21:26","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T12:21:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2690"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:52:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:52:26","slug":"5-cosas-que-la-gente-toxica-destruye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-la-gente-toxica-destruye\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que la gente t\u00f3xica hace para destruirte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos tenemos a alguien en nuestras vidas por quien nos doblamos como un alambre... en un intento de complacerles. <\/a>These are the people that are sucking the life out of us\u2014toxic people.<\/p>\n

Every time a problem occurs, you end up questioning yourself\u2014is it something you did wrong? You end up thinking it was your fault for the disagreement you had.<\/p>\n

But, it\u2019s their fault. The only thing that makes the difference is that they have the power to make you believe you\u2019re the one to blame.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve had enough of their negative energies and their bad attitudes, you have to cut them off from your life\u2014tear them off like bandages, fast. That\u2019s the only way to get rid of those negative people.<\/p>\n

You mustn\u2019t support their toxic behavior because they will capture you in their vicious never-ending circle of toxicity.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas cosas que hacen las personas t\u00f3xicas para manipular a los dem\u00e1s y manejar las situaciones en su beneficio. He aqu\u00ed algunas de ellas:<\/p>\n

1. Son manipuladores<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Tienes la sensaci\u00f3n de que eres el \u00fanico que est\u00e1 progresando en el desarrollo de su relaci\u00f3n<\/a>\u2014and you are right!<\/p>\n

These people have the power to make you think you are the one to blame for all the bad that is happening to you, even though they are the main initiators for planting the \u2018seed of evil\u2019 in your relationship.<\/p>\n

They will trick you into doing something you don\u2019t want to or something that will hurt you and in the end, they will convince you it was for your own good.<\/p>\n

They will convince you their plan was brilliant and it was your fault that you failed. Due to the fact you failed you are hurting\u2014you are the one to blame.<\/p>\n

2. They don\u2019t listen<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Did you ever have the feeling you\u2019re talking but your words don\u2019t seem to be getting through to the person you\u2019re talking to? Well if you did, you were probably talking to a toxic person.<\/p>\n

They have absolutely no interest in what you\u2019ve got to say.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo les interesa lo que tienen que decir y las cosas que les conciernen.<\/p>\n

No matter how urgent or important the thing you have to say is, they won\u2019t be interested.<\/p>\n

Even if you\u2019ve got their attention for a while and it looks like they are listening to you, they will interrupt you while you\u2019re talking and start talking about something that is important to them.<\/p>\n

3. Proyectan sus sentimientos en ti<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tienes la sensaci\u00f3n constante de que algo va mal y de que t\u00fa eres la raz\u00f3n principal de ello.<\/p>\n

That person who is next to you is angry all the time, but he or she acts as if everything is ok and he or she forces you to believe you\u2019re the angry one.<\/p>\n

They are making you believe it\u2019s your problem. It\u2019s hard to get out from these situations because they have so much ability to make you believe what they want you to believe.<\/p>\n

This is similar to manipulating but actually it\u2019s projecting their emotions on to you and making you believe you\u2019re the core of the problem\u2014you end up being in the emotional state they are actually in.<\/p>\n

4. They have no respect for you and they think they\u2019re better than you<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

They discard everything you\u2019ve got to say and they don\u2019t care for what you want and what you do. They have double standards when it comes to your dreams and aspirations.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, tienen un doble rasero en general. Para ellos est\u00e1 bien hacer algo, pero si t\u00fa haces lo mismo, se produce un problema.<\/p>\n

En general, se creen mejores que t\u00fa.<\/a> They have the ability to make you feel worthless\u2014like shit.<\/p>\n

Seguir\u00e1n diciendo cosas que te hacen sentir peque\u00f1o e insignificante, s\u00f3lo para ponerse por encima de ti.<\/p>\n

5. Te est\u00e1n hundiendo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Lo que pasa con las personas t\u00f3xicas es que te hunden.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t bring out the best in you\u2014your potential is decaying because there is no one there to encourage you to do what you want. You have no support whatsoever.<\/p>\n

Siempre encontrar\u00e1n la forma de hundirte, as\u00ed que te callas para no darles la oportunidad de hacerlo. \u00bfHay una forma m\u00e1s astuta de controlar a alguien que esa?<\/p>\n

Getting rid of the toxic people in your life will only make your life more beautiful, so don\u2019t be afraid to do that step and exclude them from your life.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> As\u00ed se siente amar a alguien t\u00f3xico<\/a><\/p>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

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We all have that someone in our lives for whom we bend ourselves around like a wire in an attempt to please them. These are the people that are sucking the life out of us\u2014toxic people. Every time a problem occurs, you end up questioning yourself\u2014is it something you did wrong? You end up thinking…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":107589,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Things-Toxic-People-Do-To-Destroy-You.jpg",1000,667,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2690","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2690"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2690\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107589"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2690"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2690"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2690"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}