{"id":26911,"date":"2020-06-30T13:30:14","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T13:30:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26911"},"modified":"2022-08-18T11:55:17","modified_gmt":"2022-08-18T11:55:17","slug":"10-lecciones-que-tuvo-que-aprender-antes-de-convertirse-en-una-mujer-fuerte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-lecciones-que-tuvo-que-aprender-antes-de-convertirse-en-una-mujer-fuerte\/","title":{"rendered":"10 lecciones que tuvo que aprender antes de convertirse en una mujer fuerte"},"content":{"rendered":"

La verdad es que ninguna chica se ha convertido en una mujer fuerte y poderosa de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana. Es un proceso y una verdadera transformaci\u00f3n que lleva tiempo y esfuerzo.<\/p>\n

But not only that\u2014becoming a tough woman also requires learning some hard life lessons and here are the most important ones.<\/p>\n

No conformarse<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nAntes de que esta chica se convirtiera en la mujer que es hoy, de alguna manera siempre se conformaba con menos, sin ni siquiera ser consciente de ello.<\/p>\n

Acept\u00f3 menos de lo que realmente merec\u00eda porque pens\u00f3 que era suficiente.<\/p>\n

And this is one of the first things she had to stop doing in order to empower herself . She had to decide not to let in the people who didn\u2019t deserve her.<\/p>\n

She had to understand her worth and not to let anyone in her life who didn\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n

No, she isn\u2019t too picky and she isn\u2019t asking for much just because she refuses to settle for less. She just knows her worth and she is proud of it.<\/p>\n

Ser independiente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Una mujer fuerte<\/a> doesn\u2019t rely on anyone. It doesn\u2019t mean that she doesn\u2019t have anyone to count on\u2014she just refuses to do so.<\/p>\n

Esta chica aprendi\u00f3 que ella es la \u00fanica que se cubre las espaldas.<\/p>\n

She learned that she is the only one who should push herself forward and that she shouldn\u2019t expect anyone to be the wind beneath her wings.<\/p>\n

She learned to be independent and self-sufficient. She learned that she actually doesn\u2019t need anyone but herself.<\/p>\n

Aislar a la gente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cortar con las personas que le importan profundamente es una de las cosas m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles que toda mujer fuerte hace en su vida. Pero es algo que hay que hacer.<\/p>\n

And it is something this girl learned to do. She realized that she can\u2019t save everyone and that she simply needs to break all ties with some people, no matter how long they\u2019ve been a part of her life and despite all the love she might feel for them.<\/p>\n

Tener fe<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

La verdad es que hubo periodos en la vida de esta chica en los que se sinti\u00f3 desesperanzada y desamparada.<\/p>\n

Pero incluso cuando estaba en lo m\u00e1s bajo, la fe era lo \u00fanico que la hac\u00eda levantarse.<\/p>\n

Aprendi\u00f3 a tener fe en que las cosas suceden por una raz\u00f3n. A tener fe en que las fuerzas divinas siempre tienen grandes planes para ella, incluso cuando no es consciente de ello.<\/p>\n

She has faith that she\u2019ll always find the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n

Pero lo m\u00e1s importante es que tiene fe en s\u00ed misma y eso es algo que siempre la ha mantenido por encima de la superficie.<\/p>\n

She has faith that she\u2019ll overcome all of life\u2019s challenges and obstacles.<\/p>\n

That she\u2019ll always find her way back up when she falls and that she\u2019ll always find a way to heal. And that is exactly what she has been doing.<\/p>\n

Para abrazar su vida de soltera<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Otra cosa que esta chica ha aprendido a lo largo de los a\u00f1os es a abrazar su vida de soltera.<\/p>\n

Aprendi\u00f3 que estar solo y sentirse solo no es lo mismo y que no hay nada malo en estar soltero.<\/p>\n

Aprendi\u00f3 que es una persona completa y que she doesn\u2019t need a man<\/a> para dar sentido a su vida.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean she gave up on love, she just realized it is always better to permanecer soltero hasta que llegue el hombre adecuado <\/a> en lugar de tener una relaci\u00f3n por tener una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Dejar ir<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Aferrarte al pasado no te llevar\u00e1 a ninguna parte y esto es de lo que esta chica se dio cuenta a tiempo.<\/p>\n

Aprendi\u00f3 a desprenderse de todo y de todos los que la deprim\u00edan.<\/p>\n

Dejar ir nunca es f\u00e1cil, pero aprendi\u00f3 que ten\u00eda que dejar de vivir en el pasado y que ten\u00eda que seguir adelante y ser lo bastante valiente para dar un salto hacia el futuro.<\/p>\n

Aprendi\u00f3 que la \u00fanica forma de seguir adelante es dejar ir de verdad.<\/p>\n

Perdonar<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Forgiving the people who had done her harm and who clearly didn\u2019t deserve her forgiveness was one of the toughest things this girl has ever done. But she did it for her own sake.<\/p>\n

Antes de convertirse en la mujer fuerte que es hoy, esta chica guardaba rencor y permit\u00eda que el odio la consumiera por completo.<\/p>\n

But with time, she grew to realize that none of this resentment was hurting the people who deserved to be hurt\u2014it was only doing her more harm.<\/p>\n

Por eso aprendi\u00f3 a dejar de lado la ira, el rencor y su deseo de venganza, porque era la \u00fanica forma real de seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

Ella encontr\u00f3 la fuerza para perdonar <\/a> everyone for all the pain they\u2019d caused her, without ever giving them the chance to do it again.<\/p>\n

No poner excusas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Para ser duro, a veces tienes que ser despiadado contigo mismo. Y esto es algo que esta chica tambi\u00e9n aprendi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Aprendi\u00f3 a no excusarse ni a s\u00ed misma ni a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Not to justify people who don\u2019t deserve it and not to go easy on herself; she learned not to lie to herself and to always be honest and to accept the truth, no matter how harsh or painful it might get.<\/p>\n

Amarse a s\u00ed misma<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Antes de esta chica se convirti\u00f3 en la mujer fuerte<\/a> que es hoy, estaba convencida de que anteponerse a s\u00ed misma era ego\u00edsta.<\/p>\n

Le preocupaba que la consideraran egoc\u00e9ntrica si se daba prioridad a s\u00ed misma por encima de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Pero con el tiempo comprendi\u00f3 que eso era exactamente lo que ten\u00eda que hacer si quer\u00eda ser verdaderamente feliz.<\/p>\n

She learned the importance of self-love and self-respect and she realized she could never expect others to love or appreciate her if she didn\u2019t do so herself.<\/p>\n

Y lo m\u00e1s importante, esta chica se dio cuenta de que ella era la \u00fanica que pod\u00eda hacerse feliz.<\/p>\n

Se dio cuenta de que estaba al mando y ten\u00eda el control de su vida y, por primera vez, empez\u00f3 a trabajar en su propia felicidad.<\/p>\n

Que es poderosa<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de aprender todas estas duras lecciones y tras a\u00f1os de luchar consigo misma, esta chica por fin se dio cuenta de lo poderosa y feroz que era en realidad.<\/p>\n

She realized she was a true badass who couldn\u2019t be taken down so easily.<\/p>\n

Aprendi\u00f3 a ver cada desamor como una lecci\u00f3n y se sinti\u00f3 orgullosa de cada una de sus cicatrices.<\/p>\n

Por primera vez, vio que era y siempre ser\u00eda m\u00e1s fuerte que cualquier cosa que la derribe <\/a>.<\/p>\n

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