{"id":26960,"date":"2020-10-31T10:52:48","date_gmt":"2020-10-31T10:52:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26960"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:57:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:57:51","slug":"que-me-ames-no-es-un-estado-de-animo-es-un-compromiso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-me-ames-no-es-un-estado-de-animo-es-un-compromiso\/","title":{"rendered":"Quererme no es un estado de \u00e1nimo, es un compromiso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Being committed to someone is not something to take lightly. It\u2019s not something that depends on your mood or current state of mind. Commitment means that you will choose me and be there for me, regardless of any outside factor that might make it hard for you to love me that day.<\/p>\n

Being committed means more than just love. It means more than just labeling someone your \u2018boyfriend\u2019 or \u2018girlfriend\u2019. This is something you shouldn\u2019t rush into, unless you are fully ready and aware of everything it entails. Commitment is a big deal and it\u2019s much more than just a label.<\/p>\n

Comprometerse significa no volver a hacer nada a medias. Significa llegar hasta el final y darlo todo.<\/p>\n

Commitment means being completely dedicated and faithful to one person. It means no longer weighing up your other options or looking at anything other than me. You are fully invested in making us a priority and don\u2019t have anywhere else to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

Commitment means you are not going to cheat on me. You are not even going to think about kissing anyone else, nor giving another girl false hopes. You are a taken man, dedicated to your partner and you make that perfectly clear wherever you are. And it doesn\u2019t scare you. That is when you know it\u2019s real.<\/p>\n

You are already with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, so you really don\u2019t have any need to go around and engage in meaningless flings. You knowhow hurtful that would be and you love me too much to even think about it.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Compromiso significa que est\u00e1s dispuesto a ser completamente transparente conmigo. Aunque est\u00e9s acostumbrado a guardarte ciertas cosas para ti, sabes que comprometerte conmigo significa compartir lo bueno y <\/i>mal conmigo.<\/p>\n

Sabes que no hay otra forma de que funcionemos a menos que ambos podamos compartir las peores partes de nosotros mismos con el otro.<\/p>\n

No hay juicio. No hay ira. S\u00f3lo honestidad y un hombro sobre el que llorar.<\/b><\/p>\n

Commitment means always putting our relationship first. It means always putting in the effort, even when it\u2019s not convenient for you.<\/p>\n

Significa saber que no importa lo que la vida nos depare, siempre encontraremos la manera de que funcione. Aprecias demasiado nuestro amor para dejarnos escabullirse<\/a> a la primera se\u00f1al de problemas.<\/p>\n

Compromiso significa estar dispuesto a compromiso.<\/b> Significa que tomamos juntos todas las decisiones que afectan a nuestra vida. Significa aprender a dejarme a veces hacer las cosas a mi manera, sabiendo que alg\u00fan d\u00eda har\u00e9 lo mismo por ti.<\/p>\n

You know that the decisions we make impact both of us, so you know it\u2019s important to always find the middle ground. It\u2019s not always going to be comfortable but in the long run, you know we\u2019re worth it.<\/p>\n

\"silueta<\/p>\n

Commitment also means accepting that neither one of us is perfect. We are all flawed and it\u2019s only a matter of accepting and loving each other despite and <\/b>debido a<\/i><\/b> our flaws and quirks. It\u2019s what makes us all different and unique!<\/b><\/p>\n

Commitment means that you will always stand up for me when I am being wronged. Be that in a room full of people or in private when it\u2019s just the two of us. It means you will always defend me and stick up for me and never make me question your loyalty. And knowing that I\u2019d do the exact same for you.<\/p>\n

Commitment means realizing that, yeah, there will be fights, we will come to blows at times\u2026 but at the end of the day, you know that it\u2019s not you against me. <\/i>It\u2019s you and me against the problem.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

And finally, commitment means knowing how to apologize when you are wrong. We are not always both going to be right. And it\u2019s extremely important to be able to apologize to one another when we realize we are in the wrong about something.<\/p>\n

Da a la otra persona la sensaci\u00f3n de ser apreciada y demuestra la capacidad de asumir nuestra mierda.<\/p>\n

Si vamos a construir un futuro juntos, es importante que entiendas que no hay futuro sin todas estas cosas. Esto es lo que construye una relaci\u00f3n buena, estable y duradera.<\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t ready for this, you know where the door is… but if you are, then let\u2019s start working on making our forever as happy as possible.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Quererme<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Being committed to someone is not something to take lightly. It\u2019s not something that depends on your mood or current state of mind. Commitment means that you will choose me and be there for me, regardless of any outside factor that might make it hard for you to love me that day. Being committed means…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":123083,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26960","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26960"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26960\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123083"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26960"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26960"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26960"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}