{"id":27004,"date":"2020-06-01T07:42:01","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T07:42:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27004"},"modified":"2022-06-08T17:15:02","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T17:15:02","slug":"secretos-que-un-narcisista-no-quiere-que-sepas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/secretos-que-un-narcisista-no-quiere-que-sepas\/","title":{"rendered":"6 secretos reveladores que un narcisista no quiere que sepas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Los narcisistas pueden enga\u00f1ar a cualquiera que nunca haya estado en contacto con ese tipo de persona.<\/p>\n

They can sell all kinds of stories and make up all kinds of lies to victims tangled in their webs, but they can\u2019t fool someone who has already been through their terror.<\/p>\n

So, in light of this, I\u2019m going to use my experience with a narcissist and share it with you, so one day if, God forbid, a narcissist crosses your path, you\u2019ll be ready to defend yourself.<\/p>\n

I never wanted to really talk about what happened to me because I was ashamed. I didn\u2019t want to admit to anybody, including myself, that I fell for the lies and tricks of one vicious man.<\/p>\n

Lo guard\u00e9 tanto tiempo en mi interior, embotellado. Me culp\u00e9 por ser tan est\u00fapida, por mantener los ojos cerrados, por ignorar todo lo que estaba ocurriendo delante de mis narices.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This went along for a long time until I decided to forgive myself. I\u2019ve realized that I\u2019m not perfect and because I made that mistake, I\u2019m not stupid either.<\/p>\n

It happened; it went down horribly wrong. I could have prevented it, but I didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Hice las paces con ello y segu\u00ed adelante. Fue un viaje espiritual cubierto de sangre, sudor y enormes cantidades de l\u00e1grimas, pero fue un camino que vali\u00f3 la pena recorrer. <\/b><\/p>\n

So, I\u2019m here now offering you my help. I want you to know all the tricks narcissists have up their sleeves because I want to save you from the pain I went through.<\/p>\n

Siga leyendo para descubrirlo los secretos y trucos narcisistas<\/a> nunca quieren que te enteres:<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t confront him<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you say anything that will shame him or give him a clue that you\u2019re up to what he\u2019s doing, he\u2019ll make your life impossible.<\/p>\n

If you let him know that you\u2019re aware of his narcissistic traits, he\u2019ll bring out the big guns with the intention of destroying you.<\/p>\n

En este caso, y en general, ignorar a un narcisista <\/a> es la mejor y la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n que te queda. Es la \u00fanica manera de ahuyentarlo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get caught in his provocations. In fact, don\u2019t show any emotions while talking to him.<\/p>\n

Acting like that will make you unappealing and uninteresting, and eventually, he\u2019ll walk away because you\u2019ve cut off his supply.<\/p>\n

Tiene miedo de que le pillen<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cada vez que realice cualquier tipo de abuso, intenta grabarlo o escribirlo. Lo importante es que tengas pruebas del acoso.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important because when you have tangible proof of abuse, he can\u2019t gaslight you.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t use various tactics to make you think you\u2019re crazy. and the abuse never happened. You just overreacted.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll try to go with it anyway, but since you have proof, you can always show it to someone you trust to really confirm that you\u2019re not imagining things, that the abuse actually happened.<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas se tienen en gran estima y lo \u00fanico que les importa es su reputaci\u00f3n. <\/b><\/p>\n

So if they see that their reputation has been compromised, they will run from you like hell because you\u2019re too big of a risk.<\/b><\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stand your indifference<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Cualquier tipo de respuesta que les des, incluso en forma de venganza, les alimenta.<\/p>\n

Necesitan atenci\u00f3n constante<\/a>\u2014good or bad, it doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

En lugar de urdir planes para vengarte de ellos, c\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo e intenta hacer de tu vida una vida mejor.<\/p>\n

If you choose to stay in contact with them for whatever reason, be prepared for constant attacks and guilt trips designed to get back their source of narcissistic supply – you.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re forced to stay in contact with your narcissist, make yourself as boring as you possibly can.<\/p>\n

Limit your conversations to only what\u2019s necessary and never give them a single detail more than they need to know.<\/p>\n

Making yourself appalling to a narcissist will definitely make him leave you alone, but you won\u2019t win that war without putting up a fight\u2014that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stand getting dumped first<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you discard him, he\u2019ll freak out. He can\u2019t stand that huge hit on his ego. So, his next step, only logical to him, is to try to come back to you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to get back together because te echa de menos <\/a> y quiere trabajar en su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Te quiere de vuelta para herirte y traumatizarte por haber tenido la osad\u00eda de dejarlo a \u00e9l primero.<\/p>\n

Quiere reavivar la relaci\u00f3n, as\u00ed que se convierte en el que la mata. Por supuesto, m\u00e1s tarde difundir\u00e1 rumores sobre lo zorra loca que eres, c\u00f3mo le destrozaste la vida, etc.<\/p>\n

Basically, he\u2019ll be decir la verdad<\/a> sino tu versi\u00f3n de la historia.<\/p>\n

In other words, he\u2019ll take your side of the story and all the things you\u2019ve been through and present them as his own.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t see you as a person, he sees you as an object<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

To him, you are what psychiatrists refer to as \u2018narcissistic supply\u2019. He doesn\u2019t see you as a human being with emotions and thoughts of your own.<\/p>\n

Te ve como un objeto, algo que debe usar para alimentarse.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re exactly the same to him as his exes and his future targets. He probably spoke of his exes in a bad manner; he probably called them crazy when he first met you.<\/p>\n

Now, he\u2019s doing the same thing to you with someone else, with his next target. He is always making sure he has backup supply just in case he drains his current source.<\/p>\n

Te ve como un objeto desechable que puede sustituir al instante por una nueva y fresca oferta narcisista. <\/b><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 lejos de ser humilde<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No es noble ni humilde. Es simplemente un actor extraordinario que hace la interpretaci\u00f3n de su vida.<\/p>\n

At the beginning of the relationship, he presents himself as such a flawless character that you even began to feel guilty because you\u2019re not more like him.<\/p>\n

Su habilidad para hacerse ver como una personalidad carism\u00e1tica e irresistible le da el poder de caer bien a todo el mundo.<\/p>\n

But after he\u2019s been putting on his show for such a long time, and after you\u2019ve truly seen what\u2019s he like, you stop buying it.<\/p>\n

But only you\u2014those who don\u2019t know him, fall for his false modesty instantly.<\/p>\n

What really goes down is that he\u2019s hiding behind the false modesty to hide his arrogant and egocentric self.<\/p>\n

Estos son sus mayores secretos, sus principales herramientas de destrucci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If they even suspect that you\u2019re on to them, they won\u2019t even try to get involved with you because you\u2019re a high-risk victim.<\/p>\n

Si revelas sus t\u00e1cticas, puede que entres en raz\u00f3n y cortes el suministro narcisista que \u00e9l no puede permitir.<\/p>\n

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Narcissists can fool anyone who has never been in contact with that kind of person. They can sell all kinds of stories and make up all kinds of lies to victims tangled in their webs, but they can\u2019t fool someone who has already been through their terror. So, in light of this, I\u2019m going to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":98513,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27004","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/6-Eye-Opening-Secrets-A-Narcissist-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Know.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27004","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27004"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27004\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98513"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27004"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27004"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27004"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}