{"id":27012,"date":"2020-09-01T08:19:13","date_gmt":"2020-09-01T08:19:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27012"},"modified":"2021-12-20T18:14:25","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T18:14:25","slug":"si-no-quiere-estar-contigo-no-le-obligues-a-quedarse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-no-quiere-estar-contigo-no-le-obligues-a-quedarse\/","title":{"rendered":"Si no quiere estar contigo, no le obligues a quedarse"},"content":{"rendered":"

Deja el tel\u00e9fono. Don\u2019t send that text<\/a>. Don\u2019t make that call.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ask him to come over. Don\u2019t beg him to talk to you. He doesn\u2019t deserve your efforts.<\/p>\n

Wipe away your tears. Don\u2019t waste them on him.<\/p>\n

Stop fighting so hard to keep him by your side. There\u2019s no need to do that. You are just going to exhaust all your emotions.<\/p>\n

Let him be. Let him go. If he comes after you, if he matches your efforts, maybe there\u2019s still something there. Maybe you still have a chance. If he doesn\u2019t, then it was never meant to be. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

And I know it\u2019s easier said than done, but there is only one truth when it comes to love\u2014love shouldn\u2019t be forced.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t go to such lengths to make someone see you. You shouldn\u2019t beg for his time. You shouldn\u2019t be deprived of his affection.<\/p>\n

Keeping in touch shouldn\u2019t be so damn hard. Being there for you shouldn\u2019t be an obligation. It should be something he does willingly.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t make him ready for a true and committed relationship if he isn\u2019t there yet. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t do yourself or him any favors by waiting. He might never be ready, and you will end up waiting for forever. You will be stuck in a bad relationship in which you lack so much.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t hold your breath that things will change either. You shouldn\u2019t hope that he will treat you better and pay more attention to your needs.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t hope that he will become more invested in your relationship or more present. He was supposed to do those things and be that man a long time ago. If nothing changed so far, it never will.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t become a different person to haz que se encari\u00f1e contigo <\/a>. Deber\u00eda amarte y apreciarte tal y como eres.<\/p>\n

Debe aceptarte como t\u00fa a \u00e9l, con todos sus defectos y virtudes.<\/p>\n

Love isn\u2019t about making pieces fit; it\u2019s about those pieces coming together naturally. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so simple and so true, but we forget about the natural and effortless course of things. We forget that love comes from both sides. We forget to take because we are so used to giving.<\/p>\n

Love shouldn\u2019t be hard. It shouldn\u2019t feel like a never-ending battle that we always end up losing. It shouldn\u2019t bring us more tears than laughter. That\u2019s just not right. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that we sometimes become so wrapped up in the idea of love that we really start thinking that love involves pain and suffering.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Deseamos tanto que las cosas funcionen que aceptamos cualquier cosa que nos den, aunque s\u00f3lo sean trozos de lo que merecemos y necesitamos.<\/p>\n

It shouldn\u2019t be like that, and you will realize that once you find your forever person.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s por qu\u00e9 todo tuvo que pasar de esta manera. Ver\u00e1s que tuviste que besar algunas ranas antes de encontrar a tu pr\u00edncipe.<\/p>\n

You will see that love, when it\u2019s real, simply flows. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Cuando el amor es real, los dos est\u00e1is preparados. Das y recibes. Se encuentran a mitad de camino sin necesidad de forzar nada.<\/p>\n

Cuando dos personas se quieren, gravitan la una hacia la otra. Encuentran tiempo y se esfuerzan sin que nadie se lo pida.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Hacen que funcione porque AMBOS quieren; porque ambos sienten algo tan profundo el uno por el otro que consiguen superar cualquier obst\u00e1culo.<\/p>\n

Everything doesn\u2019t always go smoothly, but love, affection and attention are never forced, and that\u2019s the main thing.<\/p>\n

Y aunque puede que no todo salga como te lo hab\u00edas imaginado, cuando tienes a tu lado a la persona adecuada, obtienes algo a\u00fan m\u00e1s asombroso de lo que jam\u00e1s habr\u00edas podido predecir.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que deja ir a cualquiera y todo lo que tiene que ser forzado, y despeja tu camino para el verdadero negocio. Espera a que fluya el amor.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>\n

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Put down your phone. Don\u2019t send that text. Don\u2019t make that call. Don\u2019t ask him to come over. Don\u2019t beg him to talk to you. He doesn\u2019t deserve your efforts. Wipe away your tears. Don\u2019t waste them on him. Stop fighting so hard to keep him by your side. There\u2019s no need to do that….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":107973,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27012","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-He-Doesnt-Want-To-Be-With-You-Dont-Force-Him-To-Stay.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27012","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27012"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27012\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107973"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27012"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27012"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27012"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}