{"id":27052,"date":"2020-03-01T11:46:20","date_gmt":"2020-03-01T11:46:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27052"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:30:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:30:36","slug":"soy-emocionalmente-abusivo-10-senales-de-que-usted-es-la-pareja-abusiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/soy-emocionalmente-abusivo-10-senales-de-que-usted-es-la-pareja-abusiva\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfSoy un maltratador emocional? 10 se\u00f1ales de que usted es la pareja maltratadora"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aunque mucha gente piensa que los abusos sexuales y f\u00edsicos son las \u00fanicas formas de maltrato, la verdad es bien distinta.<\/p>\n<p>El maltrato tiene numerosas caras y la violencia dom\u00e9stica, emocional y verbal son s\u00f3lo algunas de ellas.<\/p>\n<p>Hay muchas formas de ayudarle a darse cuenta de que es v\u00edctima de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/12-obvious-signs-emotional-abuse\/\">abuso emocional<\/a> but have you ever asked yourself: \u201cAm I the emotionally abusive one?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t act so surprised because turning into an emotional abuser is easier than you might think and it can happen to literally anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso te presentamos una serie de afirmaciones y preguntas que puedes hacerte o marcar como verdaderas o falsas para determinar si eres t\u00fa la pareja maltratadora de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ella hace todo para complacerte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85586\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-talking-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer hablando con hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-talking-to-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-talking-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-talking-to-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the first signs that you might be emotionally abusive is the fact that lately, you\u2019ve noticed that your romantic partner does everything to please you.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que lo ves como una muestra de su amor por ti, pero \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 lo hace realmente?<\/p>\n<p>Is she scared that you\u2019ll leave her if not everything goes your way? Does she nod her head to everything you say because she is afraid of confronting you or speaking her mind?<\/p>\n<p>Si la respuesta es afirmativa, entonces ella es sin duda v\u00edctima de tus abusos emocionales, aunque ninguno de los dos sea consciente de ello.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tiene problemas de autoestima<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85588\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste pensando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La baja autoestima puede deberse a numerosos factores que no siempre est\u00e1n relacionados con la relaci\u00f3n sentimental.<\/p>\n<p>And even though I am not telling you to take all the responsibility for your girlfriend\u2019s self-confidence issues, you should definitely wonder if you are the one making it worse.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfLa elogias y la empujas hacia adelante para que se sienta mejor consigo misma? \u00bfO alimentas constantemente sus inseguridades y quiebras su esp\u00edritu?<\/p>\n<p>Una de las cosas que hacen todos los maltratadores emocionales es hacer que su v\u00edctima piense que nada de lo que hacen es suficiente y hacer que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-odio-hecho-maravilla-no-era-suficiente\/\">se preguntan por qu\u00e9 no son suficientes<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Y si esto es algo que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n haces, todo est\u00e1 claro.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se queja de tu vida sexual<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85590\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-complains-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer se queja al hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-complains-to-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-complains-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-complains-to-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se considera que la vida sexual es estupenda s\u00f3lo cuando ambos miembros de la pareja disfrutan de ella con la misma intensidad.<\/p>\n<p>Pero las cosas son diferentes en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Your girlfriend has been accusing you of being too selfish in bed and when you come to think of it, the truth is that you don\u2019t try too hard to please her.<\/p>\n<p>And even though you probably don\u2019t know it, this is also a form of emotional abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Tu pareja nunca debe sentirse utilizada en la cama y t\u00fa no eres el \u00fanico que debe disfrutar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Evitas discusiones productivas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85592\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-pointing-finger-at-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer se\u00f1alando con el dedo a un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-pointing-finger-at-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-pointing-finger-at-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/woman-pointing-finger-at-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu forma de actuar en las discusiones dice mucho de tu papel en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Una de las se\u00f1ales de que eres un maltratador emocional es que evitas completamente las peleas.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de hablar las cosas, le das a tu otra mitad el tratamiento del silencio o act\u00faas de forma pasivo-agresiva.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you exaggerate while arguing? You don\u2019t aspire to resolve the problem. Instead, you take everything to a personal level.<\/p>\n<p>You just can\u2019t control yourself and when you and your girlfriend argue, you keep insulting and humiliating her.<\/p>\n<p>Cualquiera de estos dos enfoques es una forma de abuso emocional en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Remember\u2014it is the two of you against the problem and not against each other.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019ve been accused of \u2018gaslighting\u2019<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85593\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-2.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en el sal\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Has your girlfriend ever accused you of gaslighting her? Or have you been trying on purpose to make her believe some things that aren\u2019t really true?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfAlguna vez te has sorprendido a ti mismo tergiversando la verdad o intentando convencer a tu pareja de que algunos acontecimientos se desarrollaron de otra manera?<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever tried to assure her that she did or said some things that she actually didn\u2019t?<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve answered positively to all or some of these questions, it is a clear sign of your emotional abuse.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le gusta tener el control<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85595\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"pareja tomando caf\u00e9 y charlando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/lecciones-aprendidas-relacion-abusiva\/\">relaciones abusivas<\/a> tienen una relaci\u00f3n de poder distorsionada porque el abuso emocional no es m\u00e1s que un intento de tener el control sobre otro ser humano.<\/p>\n<p>When you come to think of it, this is exactly what you\u2019ve been trying to do with your girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes el deseo oculto de dirigir todos los aspectos de su vida.<\/p>\n<p>Quieres estar al mando de su carrera y sus finanzas, de la gente con la que sale, de su forma de vestir e incluso de sus actitudes y puntos de vista sobre la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Todas estas caracter\u00edsticas son comunes a todos los maltratadores, ya se trate de violencia emocional o f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te cuesta disculparte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85596\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch-in-fight.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sentada en el sof\u00e1 en pelea\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch-in-fight.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch-in-fight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch-in-fight-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another thing common to most abusers is that they don\u2019t have the ability to apologize.<\/p>\n<p>Even when an abuser knows that he did something wrong, he\u2019ll never state that he is indeed sorry for his words or actions.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you are an emotional abuser, you\u2019ll constantly put your partner in a position where she needs to apologize and feel sorry for literally everything.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Evitas la responsabilidad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85600\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/serious-man-listening-to-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio escuchando a mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/serious-man-listening-to-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La incapacidad para disculparse casi siempre va de la mano de la evasi\u00f3n de responsabilidades.<\/p>\n<p>Una de las se\u00f1ales de su comportamiento abusivo es el hecho de que nunca se considera culpable de nada de lo que ocurre en su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Incluso cuando admites que tu comportamiento fue una reacci\u00f3n exagerada, te justificas diciendo que te provocaron y que lo que hiciste o dijiste fue s\u00f3lo una reacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La acusas de ser demasiado sensible<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85602\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-arguing-with-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre discutiendo con mujer triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-arguing-with-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-arguing-with-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-arguing-with-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que la maltratas o la insultas o cada vez que utilizas una de tus t\u00e1cticas para hundirla, tu novia piensa que es el fin del mundo.<\/p>\n<p>She starts crying and she wants you to know how much pain you\u2019ve caused her.<\/p>\n<p>Todo esto te hace pensar que no es m\u00e1s que una llorona demasiado dram\u00e1tica. Pero la verdad es muy distinta.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que esto es s\u00f3lo su reacci\u00f3n al hecho de que usted est\u00e1 mental, emocional y psicol\u00f3gicamente abusando de ella.<\/p>\n<p>She is not being too sensitive\u2013you are being too aggressive.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te comportas de forma diferente en p\u00fablico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85604\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/friends-having-lunch-together.jpg\" alt=\"amigos comiendo juntos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/friends-having-lunch-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/friends-having-lunch-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/friends-having-lunch-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Las personas de su entorno suelen tener una imagen completamente distinta de los maltratadores.<\/p>\n<p>Piensan en ellos como novios, maridos y padres cari\u00f1osos y atentos.<\/p>\n<p>Y esto es as\u00ed porque la mayor\u00eda de los maltratadores fingen ser algo que no son cuando est\u00e1n en p\u00fablico y tratan a su pareja sentimental de forma completamente diferente cuando est\u00e1n solos.<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever caught yourself being completely different in public to how you are behind closed doors? If you have, it\u2019s time to rethink your behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, if you don\u2019t consider your behavior to be abusive, then you won\u2019t change it in front of other people because there is nothing you should be ashamed of.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85607\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Am-I-Emotionally-Abusive-10-Signs-You-Are-The-Abusive-Partner-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00bfSoy emocionalmente abusivo? 10 se\u00f1ales de que usted es la pareja abusiva\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Am-I-Emotionally-Abusive-10-Signs-You-Are-The-Abusive-Partner-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Am-I-Emotionally-Abusive-10-Signs-You-Are-The-Abusive-Partner-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Am-I-Emotionally-Abusive-10-Signs-You-Are-The-Abusive-Partner-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Am-I-Emotionally-Abusive-10-Signs-You-Are-The-Abusive-Partner-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even though many people think of sexual and physical abuse as the only forms of abuse, the truth is quite different. Abuse has numerous faces and domestic violence, emotional and verbal abuse are just some of them. There are many ways to help you realize that you are the victim of emotional abuse but have&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":85606,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27052","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Am-I-Emotionally-Abusive-10-Signs-You-Are-The-Abusive-Partner.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27052","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27052"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27052\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85606"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27052"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27052"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27052"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}