{"id":27138,"date":"2020-04-05T08:23:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T08:23:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27138"},"modified":"2022-02-22T01:49:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T01:49:11","slug":"5-inquietantes-senales-de-que-tu-ex-es-un-autentico-psicopata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-inquietantes-senales-de-que-tu-ex-es-un-autentico-psicopata\/","title":{"rendered":"5 inquietantes se\u00f1ales de que tu ex es un aut\u00e9ntico psic\u00f3pata"},"content":{"rendered":"

Era un psic\u00f3pata. Un loco total y absoluto. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That is the sentence I use to describe my ex. He was a true example of a classic abuser. No, I didn\u2019t have bruises on my body. He didn\u2019t hit me, but emotional scars were deeply carved on my heart.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll take months for them to stop itching. It\u2019ll take years for them to fade away.  <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda que sus palabras dol\u00edan mucho. Sab\u00eda que pod\u00eda destruirme con una simple frase. S\u00f3lo necesitaba golpearme fuerte donde m\u00e1s duele. Y lo hizo. Cada. Cada. D\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Those horrible years of my life are finally over. I\u2019ve escaped his psychopathic grip. It is like I\u2019ve awakened from a terrible dream.<\/p>\n

Una repentina comprensi\u00f3n me ha golpeado como un tren – <\/span>Es un ejemplo real de psic\u00f3pata. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda que ten\u00eda que alejarme de \u00e9l tan r\u00e1pido como pudiera. Sab\u00eda que ten\u00eda que ser inteligente al respecto.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t allow him to manipulate me to stay once again. Not this time.<\/p>\n

Psychopaths are highly intelligent, and you can\u2019t recognize their behavior as abuso emocional<\/b><\/a> de inmediato. Pueden pasar meses o incluso a\u00f1os antes de que seas plenamente consciente de que est\u00e1 haciendo de tu vida un infierno.<\/p>\n

Your depression, your anxiety, the lack of will to live your life which you\u2019ve once enjoyed…it is all him. It is all happening because of him.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve seen that. I\u2019ve lived it, and I saved myself by acting quickly and wisely.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasa cuando rompes demasiado pronto, antes de que muestre su verdadera cara o si se cansa de ti y rompe?<\/b><\/p>\n

You may think that his desperate behavior, stalking and bad mouthing you is just an attempt to get you back, but it\u2019s much more serious than that.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a revelation of who he actually is. It\u2019s damn good proof why your decision to break up with him was the best one you could ever make.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de leer estas se\u00f1ales, la frase que usar\u00e1s para describir a tu ex ser\u00e1 exactamente la misma que la m\u00eda – <\/span>era un psic\u00f3pata. Un loco total y absoluto.<\/b><\/p>\n

1. Cambi\u00f3 demasiado r\u00e1pido<\/h2>\n

Every relationship has a honeymoon phase at the beginning. Both of you are on your best behavior because you want to keep each other. You\u2019re enjoying the new relationship, and you don\u2019t want it to end.<\/p>\n

So, you\u2019ll put up with things you usually wouldn\u2019t just because you\u2019ve just started dating. This is where most of us fuck up. Instead of keeping quiet, you have to confront him.<\/p>\n

El conflicto har\u00e1 que muestre su verdadero rostro y sus verdaderas intenciones.<\/p>\n

Lo que ocurre es que al principio es amable y compasivo, s\u00f3lo para entrenarte a ser obediente. Entonces, de repente cambia su comportamiento y se vuelve imposible estar cerca de \u00e9l, y la fase de luna de miel se acaba oficialmente.<\/p>\n

2. Ama todo lo que t\u00fa amas<\/h2>\n

Uno de los principales movimientos psicop\u00e1ticos es que intentan convencerte de que les gustan las mismas cosas que a ti. B\u00e1sicamente quieren hacerte creer est\u00e1is hechos el uno para el otro.<\/a><\/p>\n

Si te abres a \u00e9l y le cuentas los traumas de tu infancia, te dir\u00e1 que \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n lo pas\u00f3 mal. Si le dices qu\u00e9 m\u00fasica te gusta, te dir\u00e1 que a \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n le gusta.<\/p>\n

A esto se le llama imitar. Imita todo lo que amas o haces, todo lo que te ha pasado, tanto lo bueno como lo malo.<\/p>\n

At the beginning of the relationship, they mirror you to get you to like them. In the middle of it, they try to convince that you\u2019re the same, and by the end of it, they see you as completely opposite than in the beginning.<\/p>\n

If they said that you were smart, now, they are saying you\u2019re stupid.<\/p>\n

3. Once you were everything to him; now you\u2019re nothing<\/h2>\n

Eras su raz\u00f3n de vivir, la ni\u00f1a de sus ojos. Entonces una ma\u00f1ana te despertaste, y de serlo todo, pasaste a no ser nada.<\/p>\n

Cambi\u00f3 su opini\u00f3n sobre ti. Se volvi\u00f3 distante y desinteresado en ti. Y esto te llev\u00f3 a pensar que hab\u00edas hecho algo mal.<\/p>\n

But, the thing is, it\u2019s all a tactic to mess with you, to destroy your confidence. He wants you to doubt yourself and question what you could have possibly done to chase him away.<\/p>\n

Quiere que seas insegura de ti misma y que s\u00f3lo le escuches a \u00e9l. Quiere que seas obediente.<\/b><\/p>\n

He made you think that you and he have an unbreakable bond. He made you feel like you\u2019ve found the man of your dreams.<\/p>\n

But the thing is, after he accomplishes that, he becomes bored, he gets sick of you. You\u2019re no longer attractive to him because he got what he wanted.<\/p>\n

So he leaves feeling nothing, neither regret nor remorse. These men cannot feel empathy. They don\u2019t give a damn about your emotions and the fact you\u2019re left broken, hurting.<\/p>\n

4. Se pone a s\u00ed mismo en primer lugar<\/h2>\n

Los psic\u00f3patas son hipersensibles, pero s\u00f3lo cuando se trata de ellos. Se sentir\u00e1n desatendidos y atacados si alguien les critica.<\/p>\n

Then, they\u2019ll go out and seek the best way to get their revenge, and you won\u2019t even know they were hurt or what the hell is going on.<\/p>\n

They only think about themselves and are unable to feel empathy toward anyone else. Other people\u2019s feelings are completely irrelevant to them.<\/p>\n

5. Bloquea tu felicidad futura<\/h2>\n

He doesn\u2019t want you to move on. It\u2019s like he has a sixth sense when it comes to your happiness. Every time something nice happens to you, there he is. He shows up and tries to demolish everything you\u2019ve built after him.<\/p>\n

He pretends he wants to keep a warm relationship. He wants you to stay friends, but actually, the only reason he is back in your life is to make sure you don\u2019t move on.<\/p>\n

He suddenly wants you to give him another try. But that is not a sincere request. That is just another play from his thick playbook to try to lure you back into his life of terror. It\u2019s just another try to keep you as his toxic supply.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t get rid of him and he keeps popping back into your life announced, you have to take some serious steps. If you want to move on with your life, you have to ir sin contacto<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

No vuelvas a saber nada de \u00e9l. Borra todo contacto que tengas con \u00e9l, y b\u00f3rralo de tu memoria de una vez por todas.<\/p>\n

Only then, you\u2019ll have a fighting chance to move on with your life. A better life, a happier life.<\/p>\n

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He was a psychopath. A complete and utter crazy person. That is the sentence I use to describe my ex. He was a true example of a classic abuser. No, I didn\u2019t have bruises on my body. He didn\u2019t hit me, but emotional scars were deeply carved on my heart. It\u2019ll take months for them…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":27131,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27138","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/pawel-szvmanski-1131771-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27138","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27138"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27138\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27131"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27138"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27138"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27138"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}