{"id":27156,"date":"2019-11-05T08:51:58","date_gmt":"2019-11-05T08:51:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27156"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:02:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:02:50","slug":"5-horribles-maneras-en-las-que-salir-con-un-hombre-toxico-te-cambia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-horribles-maneras-en-las-que-salir-con-un-hombre-toxico-te-cambia\/","title":{"rendered":"5 horribles maneras en las que salir con un hombre t\u00f3xico te cambia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre se oyen advertencias sobre c\u00f3mo salir con un <\/span>tipo t\u00f3xico<\/span><\/a> puede da\u00f1ar tu autoestima, pero eso no es todo lo que puede hacer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin saberlo, te conviertes en otra persona. Cuando sales con un chico de ese tipo, sus patrones de comportamiento pueden contagiarte y, te guste o no, puedes imitar su comportamiento sin darte cuenta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lo s\u00e9 porque me ha pasado a m\u00ed.<\/b>. Yo era una persona totalmente diferente antes de empezar a salir con un tipo t\u00f3xico. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yo era amable, agradecida y siempre estaba ah\u00ed para mis amigos, pero con el tiempo empec\u00e9 a darme cuenta de lo mucho que su comportamiento hab\u00eda afectado al m\u00edo y de lo mucho que yo hab\u00eda cambiado a peor.<\/span><\/p>\n

I really didn\u2019t like the person I had become, and as soon as I started being aware of it, I made some changes in my life, <\/span>despu\u00e9s de romper con \u00e9l<\/span><\/i>. <\/span><\/p>\n

These are all the ways in which dating a toxic man changed me for the worse, hoping you won\u2019t let it happen to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Me hizo sentir inseguro<\/h2>\n

Como si tener bajo <\/span>autoestima<\/span><\/a> wasn\u2019t bad enough, he made me feel so insecure of myself. It\u2019s the worst feeling when you can\u2019t seem to trust yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y la \u00fanica raz\u00f3n para ello fue la <\/span>flujo constante de mentiras<\/span><\/i> que me daba a diario. Me hizo cuestionar mi sano juicio, y de hecho pens\u00e9 que me estaba volviendo loca por un tiempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Me puse muy ansioso<\/h2>\n

Era una locura. Nunca estaba segura de nada y siempre esperaba que cayera el otro zapato. Eso se deb\u00eda a su excesivo mal humor y al hecho de que me dejara tirada MUCHAS veces. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even on date nights, I was always left wondering if he would actually show up or bail on me\u2014which he did a lot, as he didn\u2019t even have the common courtesy of telling me he wouldn\u2019t make it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estaba muy ansiosa y no ten\u00eda tranquilidad, <\/span>ever<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

3. Me volv\u00ed ego\u00edsta<\/h2>\n

I hated this the most! He was the selfish one, but I somehow fell into his patterns and wasn\u2019t there when my friends needed me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre me aseguraba de estar ah\u00ed para \u00e9l, y el resultado fue que descuid\u00e9 por completo a mis amigos y a otras personas a las que tanto aprecio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre me quejaba de lo cansada, frustrada y desatendida que me sent\u00eda, de modo que me olvidaba de darles la oportunidad de desahogarse conmigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Los hombres t\u00f3xicos pueden ser TAN necesitados, y supongo que a m\u00ed tambi\u00e9n se me peg\u00f3. Me olvid\u00e9 de ser una buena amiga, pero por suerte, entr\u00e9 en raz\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Perd\u00ed el foco de las cosas que me importaban<\/h2>\n

When you are in a relationship with a toxic man, all your attention is on him and pleasing his every need, making sure that he\u2019s covered in every possible way. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre qued\u00e9 en segundo lugar. Las cosas que me encantaban hacer antes de conocerle quedaron relegadas a un segundo plano. Mi VIDA pas\u00f3 a ser de baja prioridad. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perd\u00ed la pista de cosas que eran importantes para m\u00ed, debido a su ego\u00edsmo y egocentrismo. Nunca dejes que eso te pase a ti. <\/span>Aprender de mis errores.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

5. Me enferm\u00f3 f\u00edsicamente<\/h2>\n

Estaba tan estresada en todo momento que empez\u00f3 a <\/span>pasar factura<\/span><\/a> en mi salud f\u00edsica. Nunca hab\u00eda estado enfermo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I rarely had had any health concerns, so when I started having inexplicable headaches, stomach pains and just feeling dizzy for no apparent reason\u2014all while dating my toxic BF\u2014it all started to make sense. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi salud mental se resinti\u00f3 tanto por estar expuesta a sus gilipolleces a diario que empez\u00f3 a reflejarse en mi salud f\u00edsica. Ya no lo aguantaba m\u00e1s, y ese tipo sali\u00f3 de mi vida en cuanto empec\u00e9 a darme cuenta de estas cosas.<\/span><\/p>\n

En serio, \u00e9l no merec\u00eda ninguna de estas penurias, y si pudiera volver atr\u00e1s en el tiempo, elegir\u00eda no haberle conocido nunca. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nada bueno podr\u00eda haber salido de salir con su lamentable culo y gracias a Dios entr\u00e9 en raz\u00f3n. Ahora me siento m\u00e1s preparada para salir con un t\u00edo normal, y mentalmente, nunca he estado mejor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estoy prosperando y tengo tolerancia cero con los t\u00edos t\u00f3xicos que puedan cruzarse en mi camino. Por fin he terminado con eso.<\/span><\/p>\n

No merece la pena perderse por nada ni por nadie.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You always hear warnings about how dating a toxic guy can harm your self-esteem, but that is not all it can do. Unknowingly, you morph into a different person. When dating a guy of that kind, his behavioral patterns can somehow rub off on you, and whether you like it or not, you can actually…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":27162,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27156","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/51488.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27156","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27156"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27156\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27162"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27156"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27156"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27156"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}