{"id":27172,"date":"2020-11-05T09:04:30","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T09:04:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27172"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:50:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:50:16","slug":"el-amor-necesita-trabajo-duro-no-se-puede-simplemente-dejar-cuando-las-cosas-se-ponen-dificiles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-necesita-trabajo-duro-no-se-puede-simplemente-dejar-cuando-las-cosas-se-ponen-dificiles\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor requiere trabajo duro; no puedes marcharte cuando las cosas se ponen dif\u00edciles"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Cuando amas a alguien, lo amas hasta el final. Lo amas en las buenas y en las malas, en las buenas y en las malas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t love them only when everything is going smoothly and when life is beautiful. Because when you really love someone, you stay by their side, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n<p>You stick with them even when it&#8217;s not easy and even when the only impulse you have is to run and hide from everything.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, the truth is that love is beautiful and that it shouldn\u2019t make your life harder. But you need to have in mind that love isn\u2019t a real life fairytale and that it will always be far from perfect.<\/p>\n<p>Porque a veces, la mierda simplemente sucede.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando ocurre, es cuando se pone a prueba la fuerza y la profundidad de tu amor por la otra persona. Porque el amor es un viaje, no un destino.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y hay que trabajar duro. Hay que trabajar y luchar por ello. Necesita esfuerzo, energ\u00eda y muchos sacrificios.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122175\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja mirando al oc\u00e9ano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, requiere el mismo grado de compromiso tanto en los d\u00edas buenos como en los malos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Because you don\u2019t walk away from someone you love just like that.<\/strong> You don\u2019t leave them hanging when something becomes too much for you to handle.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t just turn your back on them the second things get rough.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y eso fue exactamente lo que le hiciste a esta chica. La abandonaste cuando m\u00e1s necesitaba tu apoyo. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>La abandonaste sin luchar, y la dejaste, cuando lo \u00fanico que ella necesitaba era que te quedaras. Y eso no se le hace a alguien que amas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because when you love someone, you go through life shoulder to shoulder with them. You show them that they can count on you and that you\u2019ll always be their partner in crime.<\/p>\n<p>When you love someone, you love all of them\u2014not just the parts you like and find convenient. You accept them with all of their flaws and imperfections.<\/p>\n<p>Aceptas todos sus problemas como propios y os ves a los dos como un equipo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122173\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el suelo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you truly care about someone, you are aware that things between the two of you won\u2019t always be easy. You understand that your relationship will sometimes go through rough patches.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando lo hace, en lugar de echarte atr\u00e1s, es cuando m\u00e1s luchas por mantener vivo tu amor. Es entonces cuando pones todo tu empe\u00f1o y toda tu energ\u00eda en superar esta crisis.<\/p>\n<p>Es cuando demuestras a tu pareja que crees en los dos.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando quieres a alguien, le quieres igual cuando est\u00e1 en su mejor momento y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/choose-man-will-love-worst\/\">cuando est\u00e1n en su peor momento<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You hold their hand through thick and thin, and you don\u2019t run away at the first sign of trouble.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t escape when they need to be taken care of, when they need help or just a shoulder to cry on.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t run away when they crave your support and when all they need is you assuring them you aren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122172\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone.jpg\" alt=\"Morena guapa sentada sola\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Instead, you stand by their side, and you show them that you have their back. You don\u2019t act like their problems are none of your business, and you never even think of giving up on them.<\/p>\n<p>When you love someone, you don\u2019t disappear on them when they need your presence the most.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t chicken out on them, and you show them that the two of you will overcome every life difficulty and obstacle, as long as you are together.<\/p>\n<p>And this is something you\u2019ve never done for this girl. You\u2019ve never showed her that she can rely on you, and you\u2019ve never fought for your relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You know, it is easy to remain in someone\u2019s life when everything is going great. It was easy for you to be with this girl while everything was sugar and spice. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero hac\u00eda falta un hombre de verdad que estuviera a su lado y fuera su fuerza.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>And obviously, you weren\u2019t man enough for the job. Instead, you acted like a coward who ran away when she needed you to hold her hand.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que no, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-lado-feo-de-darse-cuenta-de-que-nunca-me-amara-lo-suficiente\/\">nunca la quisiste lo suficiente<\/a>. Because you don\u2019t turn your back on the ones you truly love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122284\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"El amor requiere trabajo duro; no puedes marcharte cuando las cosas se ponen dif\u00edciles\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you love someone, you love them all the way. You love them through good and bad times and through thick and thin. You don&#8217;t love them only when everything is going smoothly and when life is beautiful. Because when you really love someone, you stay by their side, no matter what happens. You stick&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":122174,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27172","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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