{"id":27177,"date":"2020-07-05T09:12:18","date_gmt":"2020-07-05T09:12:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27177"},"modified":"2022-02-26T12:02:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T12:02:46","slug":"no-tengas-miedo-de-volver-a-amar-no-todo-el-mundo-va-a-ser-como-tu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-tengas-miedo-de-volver-a-amar-no-todo-el-mundo-va-a-ser-como-tu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"No temas volver a amar: no todo el mundo ser\u00e1 como tu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019ve been through hell. Maybe you were a victim of abuse. Or you were involved with a narcisista manipulador <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Or you got cheated on. Or you were with someone who never appreciated you and didn\u2019t love you enough.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, la cuesti\u00f3n es que dejaste entrar al hombre equivocado, pensando que era el adecuado para ti. Amaste a un hombre t\u00f3xico con todo tu coraz\u00f3n y \u00e9l solo utiliz\u00f3 tu amor en tu contra.<\/b><\/p>\n

Confiaste en \u00e9l y traicion\u00f3 tu confianza de la peor manera posible. Planificaste un futuro con un hombre que acab\u00f3 aplastando todos tus sue\u00f1os y esperanzas.<\/p>\n

You gave him your best and he still thought it wasn\u2019t enough. You prioritized a man who didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

Llevabas el coraz\u00f3n en la manga y \u00e9l te lo rompi\u00f3, sin pensar en las consecuencias. Le diste todo sin recibir nada a cambio.<\/p>\n

All of this crushed you to pieces and it made you question your judgment. Everything this man did left deep wounds on your soul and now, you are convinced that you\u2019ll never mend your broken heart.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

I know that now you see all of this as the end of the world but these things simply happen. Everything doesn\u2019t always go as you planned.<\/p>\n

La gente resulta ser diferente de lo que imaginas.<\/p>\n

Y te rompen el coraz\u00f3n. Pero todo eso forma parte de la vida.<\/p>\n

And a failed relationship doesn\u2019t equal a failed life. A broken heart doesn\u2019t have to mean that you are broken for good.<\/p>\n

I know that you think that you\u2019ll never recover from everything that has happened to you. I know that you\u2019ve lost all faith in people and that you don\u2019t believe in finding love again.<\/p>\n

Para ser honesto, para usted, la mera <\/b>la idea de enamorarse de nuevo es aterrador como el infierno<\/b><\/a>. You are terrified of diving into a new relationship ever again and you are afraid of getting your heart broken once more because that is something you couldn\u2019t take.<\/b><\/p>\n

Y est\u00e1s dispuesto a hacer lo que sea necesario para asegurarte de que nunca ocurra. Todo lo que quieres hacer es proteger tu coraz\u00f3n de pasar por todo este dolor devastador que ya experiment\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s seguro de que la \u00fanica forma de mantenerte a salvo es renunciar por completo al amor. Que lo mejor para ti es mantenerte en guardia y actuar sin coraz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Besides, you are convinced that you\u2019ve missed out on your chance to be happy. If things hadn\u2019t worked out with your ex-boyfriend, why would it be any different with anyone who comes after him?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s convencida de que todo el mundo te tratar\u00e1 igual que tu ex y de que todos los hombres son iguales.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfAdivina qu\u00e9? No lo son. Y si te permites seguir pensando as\u00ed, significa que ha ganado.<\/b><\/p>\n

It means that he has managed to change you and that he succeeded in leaving a permanent mark on you. It means that he has impacted your entire life and that you\u2019ve allowed bitterness and fear to take over you completely. It means that you are still a prisoner of everything he did to you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me trying to convince you that letting a new man in will be easy or that you are wrong or weak for being scared because that is a completely natural reaction to all the pain and disappointment you\u2019ve experienced. <\/b><\/p>\n

Y definitivamente no te estoy diciendo que te lances a una nueva relaci\u00f3n s\u00f3lo para demostrarte a ti mismo que realmente lo has superado.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te estoy aconsejando no renunciar al amor<\/a> en conjunto s\u00f3lo porque amaste a un chico equivocado y no para privarte de la oportunidad de ser feliz s\u00f3lo porque te rompieron el coraz\u00f3n en el pasado.<\/b><\/p>\n

Te digo que veas esta relaci\u00f3n fallida como una dura lecci\u00f3n. Que lo veas como una oportunidad para encontrar a un hombre que realmente est\u00e9 destinado a ser tuyo para siempre, porque todo sucede por una raz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Te digo que un hombre que piense que eres digna vendr\u00e1 <\/a> along, even though you don\u2019t believe it now. That you\u2019ll find un hombre que curar\u00e1 tu coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> and who\u2019ll show you what it means to be loved.<\/p>\n

And when he comes, he\u2019ll show you how wrong you were for thinking that everyone is the same. He\u2019ll show you how foolish you were for thinking you should give up on love.<\/p>\n

Because true love really does exist. And when it finally happens to you, you\u2019ll see that it is worthy of everything.<\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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