{"id":27278,"date":"2020-05-06T09:18:55","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T09:18:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27278"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:06:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:06:26","slug":"7-senales-desgarradoras-de-que-eres-un-masoquista-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-desgarradoras-de-que-eres-un-masoquista-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales desgarradoras de que eres un masoquista emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando oyes el t\u00e9rmino \"masoquista emocional\", te dices al instante que t\u00fa no puedes ser as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Ser masoquista emocional significa que disfrutas recibiendo dolor emocional de los dem\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y poco a poco, empiezas a tener recuerdos de tu pasado y por fin puedes ver por qu\u00e9 no eres feliz<\/a> con tu vida.<\/p>\n

You are starting to see that for some strange reason, you also like pain but that it is something you simply can\u2019t control.<\/p>\n

Sientes que has estado triste durante toda tu vida y que, hayas hecho lo que hayas hecho, nunca has sido realmente aceptado por los dem\u00e1s, ni te has sentido satisfecho.<\/p>\n

Te esfuerzas tanto por luchar por ti, pero al final siempre eliges a personas que no son tan importantes en tu vida, a veces incluso a las que son malas contigo.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t know why you have been doing all that. You don\u2019t know why you are sabotaging your own chance to be happy.<\/p>\n

Y una vez m\u00e1s, te pones en posici\u00f3n fetal y lloras a moco tendido.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You feel so hopeless. You feel like someone else is running your life. You feel like you don\u2019t have any control over yourself. Simply, you feel like shit.<\/p>\n

Si te reconoces en estas frases, lo m\u00e1s probable es que seas un masoquista emocional.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, si haces todas las cosas que mencionar\u00e9 a continuaci\u00f3n, puedes estar seguro de ello. Pero, \u00bfsabes de qu\u00e9 tambi\u00e9n tienes que estar seguro?<\/p>\n

Ser masoquista emocional no es el fin del mundo. S\u00f3lo significa que eres un tipo especial de persona. La que es peor para s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

El que es bueno con todos los que le rodean. El que sale herido al final pero, al mismo tiempo, una persona que tiene el coraz\u00f3n m\u00e1s grande que nadie haya visto jam\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Y lo m\u00e1s importante es que puedes cambiar lo que te ocurra y hacer que tu vida sea hermosa, como te mereces.<\/p>\n

Toleras a la gente que te trata mal<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces te ha pasado que pones a los dem\u00e1s en primer lugar? \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces te has sentido desatendido por las personas a las que pones en un pedestal?<\/p>\n

How many times have you ended up getting hurt while others didn\u2019t see your tears?<\/p>\n

If all this happened to you, you are an emotional masochist who simply can\u2019t make themselves a priority.<\/p>\n

Crees que los dem\u00e1s se merecen todas las cosas buenas m\u00e1s que t\u00fa y que debes tener paciencia hasta conseguirlas.<\/p>\n

Y si piensas as\u00ed constantemente, te sentir\u00e1s frustrado por todas esas emociones negativas que bullen en tu interior.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que ser\u00e1 mejor que eches el freno y, para variar, empieces a pensar primero en ti.<\/p>\n

Unless you do that, you won\u2019t be able to imagine how your life will change for the better.<\/p>\n

Escuchas canciones deprimentes<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Y \u00e9sta es la pregunta del mill\u00f3n. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 crees que escuchas canciones deprimentes?<\/p>\n

I will tell you why\u2014because you are in that mood almost all the time and it is something you are most familiar with.<\/p>\n

Escuchas esas canciones porque puedes sentir el dolor en las canciones de las que estoy hablando.<\/p>\n

Puedes ponerte en la piel de la persona que las canta porque sientes lo mismo que ella.<\/p>\n

Y pensar que no est\u00e1s solo te hace sentir un poco, pero s\u00f3lo un poco, mejor.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que todos escuchamos a veces canciones as\u00ed, pero si eso es lo que te gusta la mayor parte del tiempo, entonces definitivamente eres un masoquista emocional.<\/p>\n

Saboteas constantemente tu propia felicidad<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe ha pasado alguna vez que por fin sent\u00edas que la vida iba bien y que todo iba sobre ruedas y de repente, en un abrir y cerrar de ojos, te escapaste<\/a> de todo eso?<\/p>\n

You stop yourself from your only chance of being happy and satisfied and while you keep running, you can\u2019t understand why.<\/p>\n

You only know that what is happening to you at that time is not something you are familiar with and you don\u2019t know how to behave in situations like that.<\/p>\n

Y lo peor es que realmente trabajas duro por todas esas cosas buenas, pero al final, de alguna manera te las arreglas para dejarlas escapar.<\/p>\n

Este es tambi\u00e9n un signo probado de masoquismo emocional que puede hacerte sentir realmente desesperado si se lo permites.<\/p>\n

You know that you are hurting yourself but you can\u2019t stop<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you know that you are not living a happy life but you don\u2019t do anything about it, then you are an emotional masochist.<\/p>\n

Te encuentras alejando de ti a las personas positivas y siendo herido por las negativas.<\/p>\n

Simplemente sientes que es algo que necesitas hacer para crecer espiritualmente pero eso no es verdad.<\/p>\n

No luchas por ti lo suficiente porque eres indiferente.<\/p>\n

And once life takes its toll on you, it will be too late to fight. That\u2019s why you need to start making changes as soon as you see that things are not like you wanted them to be.<\/p>\n

Te criticas a diario<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t a day that goes by when you don\u2019t tell yourself that you are incapable and that you should have done things differently.<\/p>\n

You think that everything that goes wrong is because of you and you can\u2019t shake off the feeling of being the guilty one.<\/p>\n

Sientes que otra persona habr\u00eda hecho mejor el trabajo y que todo el mundo te odia por ser as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

And negative thoughts like this keep rising all day and in the end, you can\u2019t stand it anymore and you explode.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t wait to run home, close yourself off in a room and cry. You simply can\u2019t stop criticizing yourself and you end up hating yourself for being the way you are.<\/p>\n

Simplemente, lloras porque es la \u00fanica forma que tienes de sobrellevar el dolor que llevas dentro.<\/p>\n

But you should know that doing that every day won\u2019t change anything if you don\u2019t change your life perspective.<\/p>\n

Empiezas peleas sin motivo<\/h2>\n

\"Dos<\/p>\n

Do you sometimes catch yourself picking a fight for no reason? You feel like others hate you and if they say something you don\u2019t like, you empezar a luchar<\/a> \u00bfcon ellos?<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t control it because you want to stand up for yourself so badly but you don\u2019t know how.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que piensas que la mejor manera ser\u00eda luchar verbalmente y decirle a tu oponente lo que llevas en el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Quieres parecer una persona fuerte e independiente, mientras que en el fondo tiemblas porque tienes miedo de c\u00f3mo reaccionar\u00e1 la gente ante tus palabras.<\/p>\n

Lo haces porque quieres protegerte, pero la gente podr\u00eda verte como una mala persona s\u00f3lo porque os pele\u00e1is por cosas triviales.<\/p>\n

Si esto te suena familiar, entonces eres un masoquista emocional. Pero tambi\u00e9n debes saber que puedes cambiar si realmente lo deseas.<\/p>\n

Te aferras a todas las cosas malas del pasado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t move forward and you feel like you are stuck in the past, chances are you are an emotional masochist.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t move on from all those bad things that happened to you and you keep repeating them in your head every single day.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t feel good when you think of them but at the same time, you can\u2019t control your thoughts that keep rushing through your head.<\/p>\n

And you live like that day to day, which totally drains you. At the end of the day, you feel emotionally drained and without any positive energy but you don\u2019t do anything that would change that.<\/p>\n

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When you hear the term \u2018emotional masochist\u2019, you instantly say to yourself that you can\u2019t be like that. Being an emotional masochist means that you enjoy getting emotional pain from others. And bit by bit, you are starting to have flashbacks about your past and you can finally see why you are not happy with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":84285,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27278","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/7-Heartbreaking-Signs-You-Are-An-Emotional-Masochist.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","parent":22911,"count":338,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29677,"category_count":338,"category_description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","cat_name":"personality types","category_nicename":"personality-types","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27278","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27278"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27278\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84285"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27278"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27278"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27278"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}