{"id":27350,"date":"2018-11-07T09:30:27","date_gmt":"2018-11-07T09:30:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27350"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:50","slug":"la-tragedia-de-ver-como-se-desenamora-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-tragedia-de-ver-como-se-desenamora-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"La tragedia de ver c\u00f3mo se desenamora de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you are in love, you are consumed by that feeling, and it is all you can think about. Even when you don\u2019t want to, you still find yourself daydreaming about him.<\/span><\/p>\n

El amor es algo curioso<\/span><\/i>. You don\u2019t really think you need it, but when you have it.. it consumes every fiber of your being, and you don\u2019t know how you could\u2019ve ever been without it. Your heart needs to feel his in order to keep beating. It\u2019s like fuel that is making your whole body function properly.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve lived without love for so long, you kind of get used to it, so much so that it feels like you can do this by yourself. You are perfectly fine being your own fuel and igniting your own spark. <\/span>Hasta ese d\u00eda.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Until the day you meet that special someone who makes you question how you ever could\u2019ve thought of doing this solo. Now, it seems unimaginable. Now, you have <\/span>le<\/span><\/i>, and the thought of ever living without him feels like knives…<\/span><\/p>\n

When he isn\u2019t near, you yearn for his touch. Even if he had just left, you covet his closeness. All you want is his lips touching yours, and his body intertwined with yours. You love his scent more than anything, and when he isn\u2019t there, you lie in his bed, feeling like he\u2019s there and longing for his return… Life is so good it feels like a dream.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The universe has finally granted you with something so precious, and everyday feels like a fairytale that you get to relive every single morning when you wake up next to his face. The thought of it ending makes you physically sick and gets your gut churning\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

PERDERLO COMIENZA GRADUALMENTE.<\/span><\/p>\n

One day, everything seems perfect…until suddenly, like changing seasons…a chilly breeze runs all over you and indicates an imminent change.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you wake up that day, everything seems normal at first glance, but then you look at him. You don\u2019t feel the instant warmth he exudes when your eyes meet, and he doesn\u2019t kiss you like every other morning.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel uneasy, but you tell yourself it\u2019s all your imagination. Everything is okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel like there is this weird wall between you all of a sudden, and he doesn\u2019t look at you the way he usually does. Something is missing, but you can\u2019t (or won\u2019t) quite figure it out.<\/span><\/p>\n

You brush it off. It\u2019s just your mind playing tricks on you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

HAY UN VAC\u00cdO EN TU CORAZ\u00d3N.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"LaYou are starting to feel hollow. Your heart feels like it\u2019s losing the most important thing it needs to keep beating.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever you do, you do it half-heartedly. You no longer feel like the main actor in the story of your life. You don\u2019t feel in control any longer.<\/span><\/p>\n

La mayor parte del tiempo est\u00e1s al borde de las l\u00e1grimas. El vac\u00edo te sigue a todas partes y no puedes escapar de \u00e9l. Te averg\u00fcenzas de lo mucho que <\/span>anhelan su amor<\/i><\/b>. Necesitas sentirte cerca de \u00e9l pero parece que est\u00e1 <\/span>que se escapa<\/span><\/a>\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

El proceso es muy lento. Tus heridas se hacen m\u00e1s profundas cada d\u00eda que pasa, y el vac\u00edo de tu coraz\u00f3n empieza a doler f\u00edsicamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

SE EST\u00c1 ESCAPANDO.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ahora, realmente puedes sentir la p\u00e9rdida gradual de su amor. \u00c9l ya no est\u00e1 interesado en ti. <\/span>It\u2019s almost palpable how much it hurts.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

The sweet gentle kisses when he sees you are gone. The constant search for your hand to hold is gone. The tender embrace that leaves you so full of love and gratitude is gone. Any signs of affection that he used to display toward you are gone and forgotten\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Intentas tener amor por los dos. Intentas demostrarle afecto besando sus labios el doble de veces. Le coges la mano desesperadamente, esperando que su agarre sea lo bastante fuerte para demostrarte que a\u00fan le importas...<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s haciendo todo lo que est\u00e1 en tu mano para hacerle ver lo desesperada que est\u00e1s por que te toque.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

TE SIENTES COMPLETAMENTE DESESPERADO.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are beating yourself up, wondering how you could\u2019ve salvaged this. What could you possibly have done to not let him slip away from you completely?<\/span><\/p>\n

Sientes <\/span>sin valor<\/span><\/a>. Debe de haber algo mal en ti. \u00bfC\u00f3mo ha podido volverse tan distante y esquivo si lo \u00fanico que has hecho ha sido entregarle tu coraz\u00f3n en bandeja de plata?<\/span><\/p>\n

Las l\u00e1grimas caen por tu miserable rostro mientras intentas aceptar que ya no puedes hacer nada m\u00e1s. Por fin te das cuenta de que todo ha terminado y de que tu coraz\u00f3n no va a sentirse mejor en un futuro pr\u00f3ximo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

El que cre\u00edas que era tu <\/span>para siempre<\/span><\/i> ha ido desapareciendo poco a poco de tu vida, haci\u00e9ndotela lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil posible con cada sutil golpe.<\/span><\/p>\n

LA IDEA DE VOLVER A ESTAR SOLTERO TE HACE ESTREMECER.<\/span><\/p>\n

La idea de volver a pasar por todas esas citas de Tinder te asusta. Tener que <\/span>abrir<\/span><\/a> to somebody again, after having your great love slip away so recently seems unbearable…<\/span><\/p>\n

De repente, vuelves al mundo de la solter\u00eda. En lugar de que \u00e9l te espere bajo una manta en el sof\u00e1 cada noche, llegas a casa y te encuentras con un apartamento vac\u00edo. No concibes volver a estar sola despu\u00e9s de haber experimentado un amor tan profundo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Vuelves a tu antigua vida. Tus viejas rutinas. Llamas a tus chicas. Te desahogas. Empiezas a darte cuenta de que, despu\u00e9s de todo, hay esperanza para ti. Tienes personas en tu vida que van a hacer que este cambio repentino para ti sea lo m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil posible.<\/span><\/p>\n

No vas a estar bien pronto. Pero con el tiempo, y rodeado de tus seres queridos, empezar\u00e1s a volver a ser el de antes.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

And when you do, you are not going to let yourself dwell in the past of what could\u2019ve been. No. You are going to be grateful for the beautiful love story you had, but one that had to come to its end.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes que si fuera el indicado para ti, nunca se te habr\u00eda escapado tan f\u00e1cilmente.<\/b><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que sigue viviendo. Sigue trabajando en ti mismo, y d\u00e9jate abrir a la posibilidad de un nuevo amor. Todo puede suceder cuando tienes un poco de fe en ti mismo. Y cuando menos te lo esperes, suceder\u00e1 algo hermoso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te mereces esa gran historia de amor que no tiene final a la vista. Ten paciencia y d\u00e9jate curar. Suelen ocurrir cosas incre\u00edbles cuando menos preparado est\u00e1s para ellas. No todos los amores van a doler tanto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perm\u00edtete volver a ser feliz y abre tu coraz\u00f3n a cosas nuevas. Cuando creas, <\/span>pueden ocurrir cosas m\u00e1gicas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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