{"id":27360,"date":"2020-04-07T09:58:30","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T09:58:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27360"},"modified":"2022-01-10T02:49:24","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T02:49:24","slug":"10-cosas-mas-comunes-que-dice-si-te-esta-manipulando","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-mas-comunes-que-dice-si-te-esta-manipulando\/","title":{"rendered":"Las 8 cosas m\u00e1s comunes que dice si te est\u00e1 manipulando"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. \u201cIt isn\u2019t a big deal.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Nunca ve a qu\u00e9 viene tanto alboroto, por qu\u00e9 est\u00e1s enfadada o c\u00f3mo te han perjudicado sus actos. Lo \u00fanico que le interesa es liberarse de la culpa de haberte tratado mal.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que nadie puede decirte c\u00f3mo debes sentirte en determinados momentos. Si te ha hecho da\u00f1o, deber\u00eda ponerse en tu lugar y pensar c\u00f3mo se sentir\u00eda si las cosas fueran al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

2. \u201cYou are being too emotional.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Your relationship should make you feel comfortable enough to express your emotions; however, he fails to realize that he made you upset or sad. He doesn\u2019t want to see or hear you cry.<\/p>\n

Busca un culpable y siente placer al ver tus emociones exageradas, en lugar de enfrentarse al hecho de que \u00e9l es la raz\u00f3n de que te sientas as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier than reassuring you that everything is OK, or – God forbid – apologize for something he has done.<\/p>\n

3. \u201cYou must have heard it wrong, I never said that.\u201d<\/h2>\n

He will basically make you question your sanity. He will deny his own words up to the point where you perhaps start to think \u201cMaybe I actually heard it wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n

No, there\u2019s nothing wrong with your hearing or your memory, you are simply emocionalmente agotado<\/a> and are letting things slide because you can\u2019t ponder over them forever.<\/p>\n

Esta es su forma de mantener el control sobre ti y tergiversar la realidad. \u00a1S\u00f3lo empeora con el tiempo!<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWhy can\u2019t you trust me for once?\u201d<\/h2>\n

If he is the sole cause and responsible for your trust issues, if he lied, cheated or betrayed you in any way, why is he so surprised that you don\u2019t trust him?<\/p>\n

Broken trust is not something that can be mended overnight. To be honest, it\u2019s difficult to ever repair it.<\/p>\n

But he is not working on gaining your trust. It\u2019s easier to shift the focus on you and your lack of trust, instead of putting in actual effort to prove and show you that he has changed.<\/p>\n

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5. \u201cIt seems like I can\u2019t do anything right.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Hacerse la v\u00edctima es una de las t\u00e1cticas de manipulaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s utilizadas por las personas t\u00f3xicas. Saben que eres emp\u00e1tico y que tarde o temprano empezar\u00e1s a sentir l\u00e1stima por ellos.<\/p>\n

Te oir\u00e1s a ti mismo disculp\u00e1ndote, incluso cuando sabes que tienes raz\u00f3n, porque te ha hecho sentir que no est\u00e1s siendo razonable y le haces sentir mal.<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 sentir que eres una mala persona en esas situaciones, mientras que \u00e9l es inocente en todo esto.<\/p>\n

6. \u201cYou did the same exact thing.\u201d<\/h2>\n

When he does something he knows he never should – texting his ex, saying that he had been some place when he hadn’t or lie, he will remember that offense is the best defense.<\/p>\n

Jugar\u00e1 un juego de culpar<\/a>. Recordar\u00e1 y amplificar\u00e1 cada error tuyo del pasado.<\/p>\n

Equiparar\u00e1 que tu ex te desee un feliz cumplea\u00f1os con que \u00e9l le mande mensajes a su ex durante meses, o tu mentira piadosa con alguna de sus notorias mentiras.<\/p>\n

7. \u201cI didn\u2019t lie, I just didn\u2019t tell you. It must have slipped off my mind.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Withholding the truth, especially when it\u2019s something important is as good as telling lies.<\/p>\n

He will defend himself by telling you that he told you all about a particular thing, when you asked and for him, it wasn\u2019t so important and the matter slipped from his mind and so on.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is if he hasn’t told you something that directly affects your relationship, he is to blame. He will attempt to manipulate you into thinking he isn’t.<\/p>\n

8. \u201cI\u2019m going to bed.\u201d<\/h2>\n

He has no problem falling asleep during the middle of an argument. You might be upset, crying or asking him questions – but he doesn’t care!<\/p>\n

He knows very well that you won\u2019t be able to fall asleep and twill probably think about all that has happened during the entire night.<\/p>\n

You will be unable to function properly in the morning while he will be well-rested. He knows you won\u2019t be able to spend more energy to continue an argument and that things will, in all probability, be left unresolved permanently.<\/p>\n

El chico adecuado te tranquilizar\u00eda y encontrar\u00eda una soluci\u00f3n a tu problema, en lugar de pasarse al otro bando y mostrar s\u00f3lo lo poco que le importas.<\/a><\/p>\n

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