{"id":27394,"date":"2020-11-07T11:32:14","date_gmt":"2020-11-07T11:32:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27394"},"modified":"2022-01-17T22:51:26","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T22:51:26","slug":"no-te-mereces-un-chico-que-te-haga-sentir-sola-en-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-mereces-un-chico-que-te-haga-sentir-sola-en-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"No te mereces a un chico que te haga sentir sola en una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sentirse solo de vez en cuando nos ocurre a todos y no tiene nada de tr\u00e1gico.<\/p>\n

Pero una cosa es que sepas que est\u00e1s solo y otra completamente distinta que est\u00e9s en una relaci\u00f3n en la que tu pareja te hace sentir solo.<\/p>\n

Porque no hay nada m\u00e1s doloroso que estar juntos pero sentirse solos.<\/p>\n

You feel like you don\u2019t have a compa\u00f1ero de vida<\/a> y te sientes m\u00e1s sola a su lado que cuando eras soltera.<\/p>\n

Because being lonely doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you are physically alone\u2014you can be surrounded by people but feel like no one genuinely cares about you and like your absence would make no difference.<\/b><\/p>\n

Y as\u00ed es exactamente como tu relaci\u00f3n te est\u00e1 haciendo sentir.<\/p>\n

Sientes que eres el \u00fanico que se preocupa, el \u00fanico que lo intenta, el \u00fanico que se esfuerza y el \u00fanico que lucha para que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n

So you can\u2019t help but wonder if you are also the only one who loves in this relationship?<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014this is not how things should be and this is not what a real, healthy relationship should look like or make you feel. <\/b><\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t feel this void and emptiness you are experiencing. <\/b><\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be craving your partner\u2019s affection, love and attention and you shouldn\u2019t feel this miserable or unwanted.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esto no es lo que te mereces, porque una relaci\u00f3n sentimental nunca deber\u00eda complicarte la vida ni hacerte menos feliz.<\/p>\n

Porque si es as\u00ed, \u00bfqu\u00e9 sentido tiene?<\/p>\n

You don’t deserve to be anyone\u2019s backup plan or <\/b>red de seguridad<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> You don\u2019t deserve to be the person this guy calls only when he needs a shoulder to cry on and someone to listen to him.<\/p>\n

La persona a la que recurre cuando atraviesa una mala racha y cuando su vida es un desastre.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to be with someone who won\u2019t be clear about his feelings for you. With someone who can\u2019t commit and who doesn\u2019t give you any type of certainty.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to be in a relationship in which you feel like you are begging or forcing the other side to be with you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Donde sientes que s\u00f3lo eres conveniente para \u00e9l en este momento exacto y nada m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve a relationship in which you have to ask for your partner\u2019s undivided attention. In which you feel unloved and like a burden to the other person.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n en la que est\u00e1s desatendida emocionalmente y en la que tienes que perseguirle para que te d\u00e9 lo que necesitas.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to be in a relationship in which your boyfriend treats you like he could turn his back on you any moment now.<\/b><\/p>\n

In a relationship in which you can\u2019t even make short-term future plans because you simply don\u2019t know how long he\u2019ll stick around.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve a guy who isn\u2019t ready to put any effort<\/a> o alguien que te trata bien s\u00f3lo cuando le apetece.<\/p>\n

A guy who doesn\u2019t give a shit about the fact that your relationship is going downhill and who isn\u2019t ready to lift a finger to make things better.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

A guy who doesn\u2019t mind having you by his side now but wouldn\u2019t be much affected or bothered if he lost you.<\/b><\/p>\n

En cambio, te mereces un hombre de verdad con el que puedas contar en los d\u00edas buenos y malos. Un hombre que estar\u00e1 a tu lado cuando m\u00e1s lo necesites.<\/p>\n

Un hombre en el que puedes confiar y que siempre te cubrir\u00e1 las espaldas. Un hombre que ser\u00e1 tu roca y tu puerto seguro.<\/p>\n

Te mereces un hombre maduro<\/a> que sabr\u00e1 lo que es una relaci\u00f3n sana y que dar\u00e1 lo mejor de s\u00ed para que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n

Un hombre que te ame y te trate como debes ser amada y tratada.<\/p>\n

You are entitled to much more and better than what you\u2019re getting now. <\/b><\/p>\n

So please, look the truth in the face and understand that it\u2019s time for you to stop settling for less and worse than you deserve.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"No
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