{"id":27433,"date":"2018-11-08T08:32:17","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T08:32:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27433"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:17:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:17:34","slug":"6-alucinantes-razones-por-las-que-siempre-acabas-siendo-una-casi-novia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-alucinantes-razones-por-las-que-siempre-acabas-siendo-una-casi-novia\/","title":{"rendered":"6 alucinantes razones por las que siempre acabas siendo una casi novia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Being an \u201calmost girlfriend\u201d sucks. It is really frustrating to wonder whether things will go in the right direction or you\u2019ll end up in an \u201ccasi relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>\u201d every single time you meet a great guy.<\/p>\n

Es un asco tener que estar siempre pensando en el estado de tu relaci\u00f3n, porque acaba con la alegr\u00eda. Y nadie merece vivir con miedo a ser rechazado. Nadie se merece vivir con falsas esperanzas s\u00f3lo para darse cuenta de que las cosas no son como pensabas que eran.<\/p>\n

There are endless reasons for this phenomenon, and sometimes it\u2019s kind of your fault. Here are 6 reasons that will help you understand why you always end up being an almost girlfriend and never the real deal.<\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re too yearning<\/h2>\n

You can\u2019t stop thinking about him, and you do everything in your power to show him. If he sees that you\u2019re all about him, he might get confused and even scared of you.<\/p>\n

Aunque te gusten mucho, nunca es buena idea abrumarles con tu afecto. La mejor opci\u00f3n es mostrar tu afecto de una forma m\u00e1s sutil.<\/p>\n

Por lo general, a los hombres les asustan las emociones y, si les das demasiadas, acabar\u00e1n huyendo porque son incapaces de digerirlas. Por eso cambian de opini\u00f3n sobre ti de repente.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re not giving him space<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re constantly texting him and calling when he doesn\u2019t text you back, he will feel like you\u2019re forcing him to act the way you want him to. If a guy senses that you\u2019re too into his personal space, he will run for his life.<\/p>\n

You should always make sure to give him some space, so that he can recharge himself. Even if he doesn\u2019t text you immediately, there\u2019s no need to freak out about it.<\/p>\n

If you do freak out, things will only get worse, and from a potential girlfriend you\u2019ll end up being an almost girlfriend. Don\u2019t let that happen.<\/p>\n

3. No ve las se\u00f1ales de alarma<\/h2>\n

Sometimes a guy is clearly showing that he\u2019s not interested in you, but you\u2019re too infatuated to realize it. If he\u2019s constantly making excuses, doesn\u2019t have time for you or all of a sudden goes on multiple trips, maybe he is trying to tell you that he doesn\u2019t want any kind of a relationship with you.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re head over heels for him, you might start making excuses for his behavior, and that way, you\u2019ll miss the red flags that were in front of you this whole time. Always have your eyes wide open, and believe what you see.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re too compliant<\/h2>\n

If you let him do whatever he wants and however he wants it, you\u2019ll most surely not get what YOU want. It is okay to give him some space for himself, but you shouldn\u2019t let him delete you from his priority list.<\/p>\n

Si jugar a videojuegos, salir con sus amigos o beber cerveza en los pubs son sus prioridades n\u00famero uno, te conviertes instant\u00e1neamente en su segunda opci\u00f3n. Te conviertes en una casi novia porque eras demasiado complaciente.<\/p>\n

Ten siempre l\u00edmites. Nunca permitas que te traten de forma diferente a la que mereces.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re beating around the bush<\/h2>\n

One day you overwhelm him with affection, and the day after you\u2019re not sure if he\u2019s the one you want to be with. If you\u2019re not sure about what you want, he will notice it and act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Also, if you\u2019re one hundred percent sure that you want to be with him but you haven\u2019t shown him, he might start dating others as well because he\u2019s not sure about your intentions.<\/p>\n

Si quieres estar con \u00e9l, tienes que decirlo en voz alta, para que sepa que eres aut\u00e9ntica.<\/p>\n

Si lo haces, las posibilidades de ser casi novia disminuir\u00e1n significativamente.<\/p>\n

6. Eliges a los tipos equivocados<\/h2>\n

Maybe you choose someone who is far away from being your equivalent, and you realize it too late. If you\u2019re a creative soul, you can never function with someone who is too conservative or reserved.<\/p>\n

You should choose your potential partners wisely because if you don\u2019t, there\u2019s a chance that you\u2019ll end up being an almost girlfriend without even knowing why. You shouldn\u2019t be too picky either.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to give a chance to everyone, but your heart is the one which will choose the right one.<\/p>\n

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