{"id":27459,"date":"2018-11-08T11:43:07","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T11:43:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27459"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:13:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:13:54","slug":"deja-de-poner-tu-vida-en-espera-por-un-chico-que-puede-vivir-sin-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-poner-tu-vida-en-espera-por-un-chico-que-puede-vivir-sin-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de poner tu vida en espera por un chico que pueda vivir sin ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sure we\u2019ve all been there. You fall in love, you live with your head in the clouds for the first few months, everything is so idyllic and you have never felt more radiant.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of a sudden, your entire sense of self revolves around this guy who has only been in your life for a few months. You have embraced the role of his girlfriend so well that all you want to do is please his every need and be at his service. You really don\u2019t mind and he is <\/span>definitivamente<\/span><\/i> sin quejarse.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are slowly, but surely, starting to lose yourself in the comfort of your new, booming relationship and you are putting his needs above yours. You don\u2019t even realize how much of yourself you are sacrificing for the sake of the relationship, so it\u2019s probably wise to stop for a second and ask yourself whether what you are doing is serving you happiness or if you\u2019re only doing it to make him happy.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the type of person who needs to be in a relationship tofeel whole, stop and take a minute and think about this. You barely know yourself outside of your relationship and it\u2019s time to find out what it is that makes YOU happy and what floats your boat. Stop putting the guy first and get to know yourself, Then you will be much more secure in choosing the right man for you and not settle for just anyone who merely needs attention from you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to become just a pretty accessory on his arm. You are not a thing and you are not something to be paraded around.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Eres una mujer autosuficiente, capaz e inteligente <\/span>que sabe lo que vale<\/span><\/a> and no guy can take that away from you by only liking you for your looks. You are more than your physical appearance and make sure your guy knows that. And if he doesn\u2019t, he knows where the door is.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget about all the things you still want to achieve and all the fun you still want to experience. Don\u2019t let him diminish your eagerness for more by putting you down and limiting your dreams. Never let him tell you what you can or cannot do. And if he does, prove to him how capable and willful you are. You are a badass woman who is not to be messed with. Don\u2019t pause your dreams for a guy who only sees you as something pretty to pass time with.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Nunca renuncies a tu poder por nadie, sobre todo si te hace sentir que tienes que hacerlo. No dejes que tome tus decisiones y bajo ning\u00fan concepto le hagas ver que puede hacer lo que le plazca. No. T\u00fa eres una parte igual de la relaci\u00f3n y completamente capaz y feliz de tomar decisiones. Nunca sucumbas a lo que se espera de ti y esfu\u00e9rzate siempre por conseguir m\u00e1s. S\u00e9 inteligente ahora para no odiarte despu\u00e9s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make sure to rediscover the parts of yourself you may have suppressed in order for his big ego to flourish. Take some alone time and think long and hard about your hopes and dreams and if there is anything you may have sacrificed for the guy who doesn\u2019t seem to appreciate you for the unapologetically fierce woman you are.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Si sientes que no se aprecia tu val\u00eda y que no se escucha tu voz, por supuesto, apunta hacia la puerta. I <\/span>conozca<\/span><\/i> lo sabes mejor que esto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar con alguien s\u00f3lo por no <\/span>estar solo<\/span><\/a> es diez veces peor que estar solo, pero al menos no rodeado de toxicidad. Recuerda que una relaci\u00f3n debe a\u00f1adir algo a tu vida y en ning\u00fan caso restarle valor.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que si sientes que tu chico te est\u00e1 agotando poco a poco y no te deja expresar plenamente tu singularidad, ya sabes lo que tienes que hacer. Mu\u00e9strale la puerta y vete a buscar a tu igual.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Deja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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