{"id":27476,"date":"2020-11-08T12:12:41","date_gmt":"2020-11-08T12:12:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27476"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:45:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:45:06","slug":"ella-no-merecia-la-angustia-que-le-trajiste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ella-no-merecia-la-angustia-que-le-trajiste\/","title":{"rendered":"No se merec\u00eda la angustia que le causaste"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las relaciones llegan a su fin. La gente se aleja. Se desenamoran o se cansan de la otra persona. Todo eso forma parte de la vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y ella lo entiende. Ella entiende que en un momento dado, dejaste de amarla. O tal vez <\/span>nunca la am\u00e9 lo suficiente<\/span><\/a> \u00bfpero tardaste a\u00f1os en darte cuenta?<\/span><\/p>\n

She understands that you obviously didn\u2019t see a future with her and that you didn\u2019t want to stay by her side any longer. <\/span>So, she doesn\u2019t blame you for leaving her.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pero ella te culpa por la forma en que lo hiciste. Te culpa por todas las cosas que le hiciste antes de que te fueras de su vida para siempre. Te culpa por todo el dolor que le causaste, aunque podr\u00eda haberse evitado.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ella s\u00ed te culpa por haberle roto el coraz\u00f3n y por haberla hecho pedazos. Porque sabes muy bien que era lo \u00faltimo que se merec\u00eda.<\/b><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you treating her the way you did. She didn\u2019t deserve you not being man enough and not taking responsibility for your actions. She didn\u2019t deserve the fights, the emotional abuse and the fact that you tried to make her feel guilty for everything that went wrong between the two of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you taking her for granted or treating her like your backup plan, nor you counting on the fact she\u2019d always be someone you could go back to, when everyone else left you or if everything else failed.<\/span><\/p>\n

This girl didn\u2019t deserve you abandoning her when she needed you the most. She didn\u2019t deserve to waste years on you when you knew all along that you could never be the man she deserved to have by her side.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you cheating on her or lying to her. And she certainly didn\u2019t deserve you emotionally scarring her for life.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you <\/span>convincing her that she wasn\u2019t meant to be loved<\/span><\/a> and losing all faith and trust in everyone around her. She didn\u2019t deserve you spiritually killing her or making her doubt herself and her worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes muy bien que esta chica te dio todo lo que ten\u00eda, sin pedir nada a cambio. Sabes que llevaba el coraz\u00f3n en la manga y que te quer\u00eda como nadie m\u00e1s en tu vida lo har\u00e1 jam\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes que ella estaba dispuesta a mover monta\u00f1as por ti, mientras que t\u00fa nunca moviste un dedo por ella. Que fue ella la que puso todo el empe\u00f1o y la que hizo todos los sacrificios. La \u00fanica que luch\u00f3 por esta relaci\u00f3n, mientras que t\u00fa estabas dispuesto a renunciar a ella tan f\u00e1cilmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY as\u00ed fue como le pagaste?<\/b> Por <\/span>alej\u00e1ndose sin decir una palabra<\/span><\/a>? \u00bfNo d\u00e1ndole un cierre?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfAs\u00ed fue como le agradeciste todas las cosas buenas que hizo por ti?<\/b> \u00bfDej\u00e1ndola pregunt\u00e1ndose qu\u00e9 sali\u00f3 mal y qu\u00e9 podr\u00eda haber hecho para evitar que te marcharas?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfAs\u00ed fue como le mostraste tu gratitud por todo lo que te dio?<\/b> \u00bfHaci\u00e9ndola pasar por toda esta miseria? \u00bfManteni\u00e9ndola despierta por la noche, pensando en todo el da\u00f1o que le causaste?<\/span><\/p>\n

Couldn\u2019t you have been the bigger person and showed her some more respect? Couldn\u2019t you at least have acted like you appreciated all of her love even if you stopped feeling it back? Couldn\u2019t you have chosen to be a mature man instead of being a selfish asshole?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfPero adivina qu\u00e9? Ella se levantar\u00e1 de este dolor. Y cuando eso suceda y cuando por fin te vea como realmente eres, no habr\u00e1 vuelta atr\u00e1s.  <\/span><\/p>\n

She will pick up the pieces of her crushed heart and everything you did will just make her stronger. All the pain you made her go through will empower her to become the best possible version of herself. And that is when she\u2019ll realize that you breaking her heart was actually the best thing that could have ever happened to her.  <\/span><\/p>\n

So apparently, even though you are the one who left, she is the one who won. And you know why? Because she will be happy again and you\u2019ll forever remain the same piece of shit you\u2019ve always been.<\/b><\/p>\n

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