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<\/p>\nWe\u2019ve all sworn not to be like this. We\u2019ve all sworn that we won\u2019t forget our friends once we fall in love and we\u2019ve mocked those doing so for way too long. <\/b><\/p>\n
Le sali\u00f3 el tiro por la culata.<\/p>\n
Al principio, quer\u00eda quemar todas nuestras fotos y borrar las que ten\u00eda en mi galer\u00eda. Quer\u00eda borrar ese periodo de mi vida porque el futuro no nos deparaba nada a los dos.<\/p>\n
Ella encontr\u00f3 su verdadera alma gemela y ya no hab\u00eda tiempo ni lugar para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n
But the fact that we didn\u2019t hang around as we used did couldn\u2019t change the fact that we had so many amazing and exciting moments together. That can\u2019t be erased.<\/p>\n
I spent so much time thinking, \u201c Who else am I going to call my best friend?\u201d.<\/b><\/p>\n
We\u2019ve been friends for so long and I had plenty of people around, but you know how it goes\u2014there is this one really best friend; others are just people I hang around with.<\/p>\n
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Siempre estuvo ah\u00ed, supongo.<\/b> Ella estaba all\u00ed para las noches salvajes. Ella estaba all\u00ed para curar mi coraz\u00f3n roto.<\/p>\n
She was there for Netflix and chill\u2014the only one I let change my favorite show until she wasn\u2019t anymore. It felt kind of empty.<\/p>\n
Los recuerdos estaban por todas partes.<\/b> Los recuerdos siguen estando por todas partes. All\u00ed estaba nuestro lugar favorito para comer despu\u00e9s de una noche de fiesta.<\/p>\n
Hubo nuestro helado especial para un coraz\u00f3n roto y tuvimos nuestro baile con nuestra canci\u00f3n favorita. Supongo que pasamos de amigos a extra\u00f1os con recuerdos.<\/p>\n
Boohoo for me\u2014I know I am not the only one out there to live these things. It\u2019s just awkward when people ask me about her and why they don\u2019t see us together any longer. It\u2019s a little too obvious, don\u2019t you think? <\/i><\/p>\n
She was no longer up for wild nights out. She wasn\u2019t always available and most of her plans contained her new boyfriend as well.<\/p>\n
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See, I felt betrayed, left alone, played and what not. We had our plan\u2014we had our mantra that we lived until she fell in love.<\/p>\n
And still she had me in her plan. She did, but it wasn\u2019t the only two of us and it somehow felt awkward. So, we fell apart.<\/p>\n
V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> As\u00ed es como una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica mat\u00f3 a mi mejor amiga<\/p>\n Empec\u00e9 a pensar en la amistad que ten\u00edamos y en las amistades en general.<\/b><\/p>\n I realized most of our friendships are formed when we\u2019re in our 20s and when life is scary as hell. It\u2019s mostlyfriendships out of need.<\/b><\/p>\n We need someone who\u2019ll share our deprivation. We need someone who\u2019ll share the same feelings as we do. We need somebody who\u2019ll understand us and we need to be taken care of.<\/p>\n When our whole world is falling apart, we need someone to tell us it\u2019ll be alright\u2014basically, we need our soulmates. Someone in whose life we\u2019re reflected.<\/p>\n La segunda cosa que me di cuenta es que nuestros amigos son de hecho nuestras almas gemelas, pero s\u00f3lo por un tiempo.<\/b><\/p>\n Porque una vez que sales, encuentras a un chico con el que puedes pasar las noches, que era el objetivo principal de tu salida.<\/p>\n We might fool ourselves and think we go out to have fun, but it\u2019s only fun if there are cute guys around us.<\/p>\n Love is what we\u2019re constantly searching for.<\/b> Nos guste admitirlo o no, necesitamos amor para funcionar.<\/p>\n Necesitamos meternos en la cama con un hombre al que queremos y necesitamos tener a alguien en quien apoyar la cabeza. Ese tipo de intimidad es un nivel totalmente nuevo y, despu\u00e9s de unos a\u00f1os, lo entiendo.<\/p>\n Entiendo que ella sigui\u00f3 adelante y encontr\u00f3 a alguien especial en su vida. Estuvo ah\u00ed cuando realmente la necesit\u00e9 y luego sigui\u00f3 adelante.<\/p>\n That\u2019s the way things should go. I know now if I was her, I\u2019d do the same thing. I\u2019d choose the love of my life over her as well. I would plan my days with him, my vacations, trips and what not.<\/p>\n Because he\u2019d be mine forever, and he\u2019d be the one I\u2019d like to see myself with in future. I get it now.<\/p>\n I\u2019m just sorry that I spent so much time angry when I should\u2019ve been happy for her. She deserved to be loved, not to be held back by me. <\/b><\/p>\n It hurt like hell to lose my best friend over a guy, but I know now that\u2019s the way things should go. I just wish I knew this earlier.<\/b><\/p>\n We\u2019ve all sworn not to be like this. We\u2019ve all sworn that we won\u2019t forget our friends once we fall in love and we\u2019ve mocked those doing so for way too long. That backfired horribly. At first, I wanted to burn all our photos and delete those I had in my gallery. 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