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<\/p>\nLa gente parece pensar que una mujer necesita a un hombre para que le haga la vida m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil. Parecen pensar que somos incapaces de hacer las cosas por nosotras mismas.<\/p>\n
Social norms teach you that men are the protectors and providers of the families, and women are the caretakers. Well, I\u2019m going to tell you that that is a load of BS!<\/p>\n
Conozco a muchas mujeres que son m\u00e1s hombres que los hombres que tienen a su lado. Conozco a madres solteras que cr\u00edan a sus hijos tan bien como lo har\u00edan dos padres.<\/p>\n
And I, for one, am sick of these presumptions that a woman needs a man in her life. She doesn\u2019t need him, but she can have him if she wants.<\/p>\n
Todas las mujeres deb\u00e9is creer que sois fuertes e independientes. Pod\u00e9is cuidar de vosotras mismas. <\/b><\/p>\n
Pod\u00e9is haceros una buena vida. <\/b>You\u2019re more than capable. You don\u2019t need someone else in your life to become what you want.<\/b><\/p>\n
Of course, this doesn’t mean that you need to shut everyone out because you can do things by yourself. Don\u2019t be a relationship-hater. You can be in a relationship and be independent at the same time.<\/p>\n
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Just never allow yourself to lose that independence and be subordinate to anyone you\u2019re dating just for the sake of the relationship. There are plenty of other men out there; men that won\u2019t make you give up your freedom.<\/p>\n
Eso no es amor; eso es control.<\/p>\n
El amor no consiste en tomar decisiones por otra persona. Amor no es llamar para comprobar si tu pareja te est\u00e1 enga\u00f1ando<\/span><\/a>. El amor es no dudar de todo lo que dice el otro.<\/p>\n El amor es apoyo y confianza. El amor es inspiraci\u00f3n y motivaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n I let someone fall in love with me, but I\u2019ve set boundaries because I don\u2019t want to lose myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n I don\u2019t necessarily need a man<\/b> en mi vida, pero elijo tener uno.<\/b> It\u2019s who I am. I\u2019m always going to choose love, but not at all costs.<\/p>\n I\u2019ll love someone because I want to, not because I have to.<\/p>\n I\u2019m perfectly capable of living on my own. I don\u2019t need anyone<\/a> to show me how to live or tell me what to do. I\u2019m independent, and I want to stay that way.<\/p>\n I\u2019ll never sacrifice myself and stay in a shitty relationship just because I don\u2019t have any other choice. I refuse to be trapped with a man I don\u2019t love just because I need him.<\/p>\n When I fall in love, the man standing beside me won\u2019t have to carry me on his shoulders for the rest of his life.<\/b><\/p>\n We\u2019re going to be partners and lovers. We\u2019ll create an unbreakable union and a partnership. We will help each other.<\/p>\n Love shouldn\u2019t be about only taking care of the other person. Sure, you\u2019ll be there for each other when it\u2019s needed.<\/p>\n Pero el amor no consiste en recoger la basura detr\u00e1s de alguien. En una relaci\u00f3n, nadie debe limitarse a dar o recibir.<\/p>\n Tienes que dar y recibir a la vez. Cuando te necesitan, tienes que estar ah\u00ed, y cuando t\u00fa les necesitas, ellos tienen que hacer lo mismo.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t want to lower my partner\u2019s expectations.<\/b> I want him to know that I\u2019m going to work as much as him.<\/p>\n I want him to know that I\u2019m never going to let him support me just because he is used to me not lifting a finger or esforz\u00e1ndose<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n If this relationship is destined to work, we have to give our best\u2014both of us.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t need to be saved. I\u2019m not looking for a Prince Charming to wake me up from my deep sleep. I don\u2019t need a knight on a white horse to come and rescue me.<\/p>\n I need an equal partner. I need a friend. I don\u2019t need or want a man to solve my problems nor do I need a man who will become one.<\/b><\/p>\n![\"la](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-stands-in-a-field-of-outstretched-arms.jpg\")
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