{"id":2765,"date":"2020-11-25T07:29:04","date_gmt":"2020-11-25T07:29:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2765"},"modified":"2022-01-14T02:01:29","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T02:01:29","slug":"no-quiere-poner-etiqueta-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-quiere-poner-etiqueta-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que no quiere poner una etiqueta a su \"relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

You are his, but you are not. You are together, but you aren\u2019t really. There is this thing between the two of you and it resembles a relationship, but you do not call it a relationship. So, you can\u2019t help but wonder what are you really to him?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa para \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been seeing each other for the past few months and everything about the two of you screams \u2018couple\u2019, yet no eres su novia<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He refuses to put a label on your \u2018relationship\u2019 and it makes you feel insecure, doesn\u2019t it? You want exclusivity and you, as it happens to us women, are planning and hoping to get something true and real from this \u2018relationship\u2019 of yours.<\/p>\n

But you are not exactly sure where you stand with him. Because you don\u2019t have any idea what he has on his mind.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know where he wants to go with you and if he\u2019s planning anything serious with you. And it has started becoming a bit overwhelming.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s kind and nice to you. You spend a lot of time together and you already have your routine, but every time you ask what\u2019s up with the two of you and what you are to him, you get a neutral answer. It seems as if he shudders at your calling him your boyfriend.<\/p>\n

Y todo lo que quieres hacer es ll\u00e1male tu novio<\/a>. Quieres pertenecerle y quieres que \u00e9l te pertenezca.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

No la clase equivocada de posesi\u00f3n, sino aquella en la que se entregan sus corazones el uno al otro.<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019s not an \u2018all in\u2019 type of a guy.It could be you\u2019re one of the unlucky girls who stumbled upon a guy who seems to be material de relaci\u00f3n<\/a> but isn\u2019t really.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not labeling the two of you, he seems distant, and you are not introduced to his friends at all.<\/p>\n

It could be that he has a few relationships on the side, but nobody knows anything about that. Maybe he doesn\u2019t like to say out loud that he\u2019s taken.<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019s just keeping his options open. Maybe he\u2019s just with you until he finds the \u2018right\u2019 one.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re amazing, but he doesn’t think you are enough. You are convenient at this very moment, but you might not be the best option for anything further.<\/p>\n

It could be you\u2019re the one he\u2019s sharing his bed with until he meets the girl of his dreams.<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019s not labeling you because he\u2019s not sure you\u2019re right for him.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

But this doesn\u2019t sound like your boy, does it? You can see siente algo por ti<\/a>. It\u2019s obvious he wants to be with you. He isn\u2019t toxic, but you can\u2019t explain what exactly is off. There is something more to it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

What if he\u2019s not labeling you because he feels more comfortable that way? He\u2019s not labeling you even though both of you know deep down that what you have is the real thing.<\/p>\n

You are not his girlfriend, but you aren\u2019t anybody else\u2019s either. He\u2019s yours and he\u2019s all yours.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the thing you don\u2019t have to worry about because even though you are not labeled as a couple, it\u2019s obvious that there is something bigger going on between the two of you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re exclusive even though nobody said it out loud. You just know it wouldn\u2019t work with anybody else.<\/p>\n

Everything is pulling you together, but you\u2019re not his girlfriend. You are his girl, however, but this isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

You are tired of waiting and a bit scared and insecure about what the future holds for you, but you know the feeling is real. You know he\u2019s with you every night.<\/p>\n

You know he\u2019s true with you, but there is a huge pero<\/strong> entre vosotros dos.<\/p>\n

\"en<\/p>\n

Have you ever thought about his previous relationships? Have you ever stopped and thought what this guy you \u2018aren\u2019t dating\u2019 has been through?<\/p>\n

You know that there are girls out there who are just using boys and boys who are just using girls. That\u2019s why you\u2019re feeling insecure. That\u2019s why he\u2019s afraid.<\/p>\n

If your guy is treating you right and giving you girlfriend privileges but still hasn’t put a label on your relationship, he\u2019s not afraid of commitment.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s afraid of expectations and he\u2019s afraid that labeling might ruin everything.<\/p>\n

Tiene miedo de que le des la espalda como han hecho todos los dem\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t be the first one who promised to be there for him and then moved along with somebody else.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t be the first one to ask for \u2018making it official\u2019 and then stopped trying.<\/p>\n

Just because you label your relationship doesn\u2019t mean your efforts should drop. Just because you \u2018got him\u2019 shouldn\u2019t make you take him for granted. <\/p>\n

\"en<\/p>\n

There are men out there who are just toxic and simply don\u2019t want to settle down in life.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want to tie themselves to a single girl. But most of these men don\u2019t treat their girls right.<\/p>\n

Usually, they make promises they can\u2019t keep, everything about them is shady and the feeling you get when you\u2019re around them is simply off. But with your boy, you don\u2019t feel like this.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re with your boy(friend) it\u2019s something else. You feel this is it. And you feel like there is no need to keep looking because settling down feels just right.<\/p>\n

So if you feel like he deserves you and if you feel like he\u2019s worthy of your time and your efforts, fight for him. Don\u2019t give up if what you truly feel for him is love.<\/p>\n

Hay hombres por ah\u00ed que valen la pena la lucha. Hay hombres por ah\u00ed que fueron rotos por otras chicas y les resulta extremadamente dif\u00edcil dar su confianza a otra persona.<\/p>\n

Hay hombres que quiero volver a amar<\/a> pero han pasado por un trauma horrible y son incapaces de dejar que su coraz\u00f3n sienta libremente.<\/p>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

These men need a little help. They need to see that it\u2019s safe to love again and they need to know that what happened once won\u2019t happen again. Be honest, don\u2019t we all?<\/p>\n

Show him you\u2019ll be there. Show him he can trust you. Don\u2019t be another person to fail him, don\u2019t be another one in the line of those who broke him. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Make him feel you\u2019re going to stay and you\u2019re not like the others.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let him feel that what you have is the \u2018real\u2019 thing and you\u2019ll get him whispering \u2018girlfriend\u2019 in your ear. But don\u2019t just tell him, show him.<\/p>\n

Demu\u00e9strale que mereces tener al menos una oportunidad de estar juntos y que no eres de los que le van a romper.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, once he realizes what is really going on, he\u2019ll be ready to put his guard down and he\u2019ll eventually be ready to call himself yours.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push it and don\u2019t run away. Stay for a change. Stay for him. It will be worth it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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