{"id":27667,"date":"2018-11-13T10:13:13","date_gmt":"2018-11-13T10:13:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27667"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:08:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:08:39","slug":"6-situaciones-en-las-que-no-debes-decir-te-quiero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-situaciones-en-las-que-no-debes-decir-te-quiero\/","title":{"rendered":"6 situaciones en las que no deber\u00edas decir \"te quiero\""},"content":{"rendered":"

It seems like saying \u201cI love you.\u201d at any given time is a good idea. And it usually is, especially when you are in a serious relationship or marriage. People need to be reminded of how they feel for each other every now and then.<\/p>\n

But when you are saying \u201cI love you.\u201d for the first time, it should really be special, and the timing should be right.<\/p>\n

You can really mess things up in saying \u201cI love you.\u201d in certain situations. Keep reading and see in which ones:<\/p>\n

1. Cuando es demasiado pronto en la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

This goes without saying but there is such a thing like saying \u201cI love you\u201d too soon. Saying it on a first date or in the first few months is not a good idea. In that period, it\u2019s easy to confundir lujuria con amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Uno puede enamorarse f\u00e1cilmente, pero amar a alguien de verdad lleva tiempo. Hay que quitarse las gafas de color de rosa y amar a esa persona con todos sus defectos y virtudes.<\/p>\n

So be careful. Wait a while to build a relationship and be sure in what you feel. An \u201cI love you.\u201d that comes is said at the wrong time (like too early) can pretty much ruin a potentially good relationship and make your partner run for the hills.<\/p>\n

2. Cuando est\u00e1s borracho<\/h2>\n

Tus emociones se intensifican cuando est\u00e1s bajo los efectos del alcohol, sobre todo si eres una de esas personas monas que quieren a todo el mundo y a todo cuando est\u00e1n borrachas. Lo que dices puede no reflejar lo que sientes.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, puede que tu pareja no te tome en serio o piense que lo dices s\u00f3lo por el licor que llevas en la sangre.<\/p>\n

Saying \u201cI love you.\u201d for the first time should be a magical experience you will treasure in your memory for a long time.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is if \u201cI love you.\u201d is not something you would say sober, you shouldn\u2019t say it while drunk either.<\/p>\n

3. Cuando eres vulnerable<\/h2>\n

La vulnerabilidad puede cambiar f\u00e1cilmente tu perspectiva. Los sentimientos de tristeza, desilusi\u00f3n y soledad pueden hacerte decir f\u00e1cilmente esas tres palabritas sin quererlas.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, puedes pensar que amas a alguien porque echas de menos estar con alguien, con quien sea, y echas de menos ese sentimiento de pertenencia a alguien.<\/p>\n

But saying \u201cI love you.\u201d without actually meaning it or in the phase where your relationship hasn\u2019t had time to grow will make the whole thing worse.<\/p>\n

4. Cuando uno de ustedes comienza una nueva relaci\u00f3n despu\u00e9s de terminar una de larga duraci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n

Cuando termine un relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/span><\/a>En el pasado, est\u00e1s lleno de cargas emocionales y sentimientos no resueltos. Puede que tardes mucho tiempo en volver a ponerte en contacto con tus verdaderos sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Tienes que frenarte y hacer una pausa en las declaraciones emocionales hasta que est\u00e9s seguro de tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, si es \u00e9l quien ha tenido recientemente una mala ruptura o una relaci\u00f3n larga que se fue al traste, dale tiempo. T\u00f3matelo con calma. No hay por qu\u00e9 precipitarse a la hora de decir lo que sientes. Deja que \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n lo haga.<\/p>\n

5. When he\u2019s going through some stuff<\/h2>\n

En la vida no todo son arco iris y mariposas. A veces es ca\u00f3tica, injusta y dolorosa. Si tu pareja est\u00e1 pasando por problemas familiares, laborales o la muerte de alguien cercano, deber\u00edas esperar un poco para decirle c\u00f3mo te sientes.<\/p>\n

For starters, it\u2019s not good timing. They need you just to be there and support them through difficult times.<\/p>\n

They need to see that you care but there is no need to say, \u201cI love you.\u201d for the first time at this point because they might think you are saying it just because you feel sorry for them.<\/p>\n

6. Cuando sientas que tienes que decirlo<\/h2>\n

Tal vez \u00e9l lo dijo primero, y ahora t\u00fa sientes que tienes que devolv\u00e9rselo, aunque a\u00fan no lo hayas hecho o a\u00fan est\u00e9s resolviendo las cosas.<\/p>\n

Saying how you feel shouldn\u2019t feel like an obligation; it should be instinctive and pure. You should only say it when you feel it\u2019s time.<\/p>\n

You should say it when you feel like you are going to go crazy with all those emotions locked on the inside. That\u2019s when it\u2019s real. That\u2019s when you should definitely say \u201cI love you.\u201d<\/p>\n

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