{"id":27674,"date":"2020-07-13T10:51:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-13T10:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27674"},"modified":"2022-02-06T16:51:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T16:51:21","slug":"22-cosas-que-solo-entenderan-las-mujeres-que-han-sido-utilizadas-emocionalmente-por-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/22-cosas-que-solo-entenderan-las-mujeres-que-han-sido-utilizadas-emocionalmente-por-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"22 cosas que s\u00f3lo entender\u00e1n las mujeres que han sido utilizadas emocionalmente por un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. Lleva much\u00edsimo tiempo <b>tiempo para curarse<\/b> because you can\u2019t avoid the aftermath of dating a narcissist. It\u2019s impossible to avoid the pain, and you know it, so you accept it.<\/p>\n<p>2. Su <b>la autoestima se va por el desag\u00fce<\/b>. You feel completely lost. After a narcissist is done with you, you feel simply put, like a piece of shit\u2014unable to continue your life, unable to recognize yourself.<\/p>\n<p>3. Antes de que \u00e9l entrara en tu vida, eras una chica normal, pero despu\u00e9s de que \u00e9l acabe contigo, t\u00fa <b>pierde tu dignidad<\/b>pierdes el sentido de lo que una vez fuiste.<\/p>\n<p>4. Intentas ocultar tu dolor. Intentas ocultar que cualquier cosa de este mundo te afecta, pero fracasas siempre. <b>You\u2019re extremely vulnerable,<\/b> and you can\u2019t hide it.<\/p>\n<p>5. Usted <b>sentirse invisible<\/b> porque te convenci\u00f3 de que no eras nadie.<\/p>\n<p>6. Tus ojos dir\u00e1n la verdad sobre c\u00f3mo te sientes. Puedes poner una sonrisa falsa, pero tus ojos est\u00e1n llenos de tristeza.<\/p>\n<p>7. <b>You don\u2019t smile anymore<\/b> because you want to but because you have to. You know people are worried about you, so you smile to ease them. You haven\u2019t smiled sincerely for a long time. And that is just a price you have to pay for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/asi-es-como-un-narcisista-juega-contigo-y-como-afrontarlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tratar con un narcisista<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>8. <b>Est\u00e1s vigilado.<\/b> You don\u2019t want to talk about what happened. Building emotional walls around yourself is the only thing you can do to feel safe. You need protection, and for now, you\u2019re the only person who can do that.<\/p>\n<p>9. Dating a narcissist doesn\u2019t come without a cost. You are <b>deprimido y ansioso<\/b> all the time, and you weren\u2019t like that at the beginning. That is a side-effect you get from being in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>10. Usted <b>can\u2019t go through the healing process alone<\/b>. S\u00f3lo los amigos m\u00e1s sinceros se quedar\u00e1n durante ese periodo. S\u00f3lo las personas que de verdad se preocupan por ti van a ser tu apoyo infinito. Acepta su ayuda; ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>11. Usted&nbsp;<b>don\u2019t believe in the good in people<\/b> anymore. Because you\u2019ve fallen into his trap, you don\u2019t trust anyone. The only thing you see when you look around is people who want to hurt you. The only thing you see is him, wherever you go.<\/p>\n<p>11. <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/conoces-mi-nombre-no-mi-historia-asi-que-piensa-antes-de-juzgar\/\">You don\u2019t need to be judged<\/a>.<\/b> You know you\u2019ve made a mistake. All you need now is understanding and patience. The pain won\u2019t just go away, and anyone who says, \u201dGet it over with already!\u201d has no idea what you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n<p>12. You still can\u2019t swallow what happened to you. You still don\u2019t believe it. It all seems like a <b>mal sue\u00f1o<\/b> from which you\u2019re going to wake up any minute now.<\/p>\n<p>13. <b>Necesitas aprobaci\u00f3n.<\/b> You need encouragement. It\u2019s hard to snap out of the reality that you\u2019ve lived in for so long. It\u2019s hard not to wait for something bad to happen. You\u2019ve lived your life that way, and it\u2019s impossible to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-hora-de-pulsar-el-boton-de-reinicio\/\">pulsar el bot\u00f3n de reinicio<\/a> en uno o dos d\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>14. <b>You don\u2019t trust people.<\/b> The person you were connected the most with is the person who failed you the most. Every time you meet someone new, you\u2019re doubtful. Every time someone does something nice for you, you wait for the price you have to pay.<\/p>\n<p>15. At the moment, you don\u2019t know how to love. You\u2019re bruised, and love is something so distant to what you know.&nbsp;<b>You\u2019re afraid to like anyone, let alone to actually feel love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>16. Intentas evitar el sufrimiento emocional, as\u00ed que <b>te disculpas<\/b> all the time. You\u2019re sorry even when you don\u2019t have to be sorry. When dating a narcissist, that was all you had to say to save yourself from being punished. You had to be the bad guy. You&#8217;re apologizing for the smallest thing because you\u2019re still so insecure.<\/p>\n<p>17. Usted <b>esconde tus sentimientos<\/b> because you\u2019re scared you\u2019re going to pay a price for feeling something. The more you showed your feelings in your relationship with a narcissist, the worse he treated you.<\/p>\n<p>18. You\u2019re <b>miedo de parecer pegajoso, dependiente o demasiado emocional.<\/b> As\u00ed que eliges el camino m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil y reprimes tus sentimientos. Te lo guardas todo para ti.<\/p>\n<p>19. One day, you\u2019ll want to be left alone with your thoughts, and the next day, that lonesomeness will suffocate you. Your <b>el estado de \u00e1nimo cambiar\u00e1&nbsp;<\/b>en cuesti\u00f3n de horas.<\/p>\n<p>20. You need someone to be there for you. Someone to convince you\u2019re going to be fine. You are a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/10-lecciones-que-tuvo-que-aprender-antes-de-convertirse-en-una-mujer-fuerte\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mujer fuerte<\/span><\/a>...al menos lo fuiste una vez, pero por ahora.., <b>necesitas a alguien que te proteja<\/b> hasta que te recuperes. Hasta que vuelvas a ser el de antes.<\/p>\n<p>21. Necesitas a alguien que realmente <b>cumplir las promesas<\/b> they\u2019ve told you. You need someone who\u2019ll finally put you first after you\u2019ve been dwelling at the bottom for so long. You need to be important; you need to feel alive.<\/p>\n<p>22. Don\u2019t be scared. There is a good girl hiding beneath that scared face. There is a girl who can love with all of her heart. But, <b>she\u2019s scared now<\/b>. Ay\u00fadala mostr\u00e1ndole que todo lo malo al final pasa. S\u00f3lo se necesita tiempo. Mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-27677 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"22 cosas que s\u00f3lo entender\u00e1n las mujeres que han sido utilizadas emocionalmente por un narcisista\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. It takes a hell of a long time to heal because you can\u2019t avoid the aftermath of dating a narcissist. It\u2019s impossible to avoid the pain, and you know it, so you accept it. 2. Your self-worth goes down the drain. You feel completely lost. After a narcissist is done with you, you feel&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":27676,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27674","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/pietra-schwarzler-463523-unsplash.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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