{"id":27708,"date":"2019-11-13T13:04:13","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T13:04:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27708"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:53:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:53:12","slug":"6-luchas-emocionales-a-las-que-se-enfrentan-casi-todas-las-madres-solteras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-luchas-emocionales-a-las-que-se-enfrentan-casi-todas-las-madres-solteras\/","title":{"rendered":"6 luchas emocionales a las que se enfrentan casi todas las madres solteras"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser madre es el trabajo m\u00e1s duro y responsable del planeta. Pero ser una madre soltera que est\u00e1 haciendo el trabajo de dos personas ella sola es un acto de una verdadero h\u00e9roe<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And it is especially difficult at first, when you are still not fully aware of all of your strength and of everything you can accomplish. You are scared if you\u2019ll succeed in raising this human being alone.<\/p>\n

But eventually, you see that a mother\u2019s love for a child can move mountains.<\/p>\n

You see that you are fierce and powerful and that nothing and nobody can stand in your way where your child\u2019s happiness is concerned.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been raised by a single mother or you are one, you know exactly what I am talking about.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que no te castigues cuando te sientas cansada o abrumada porque casi todas las madres se enfrentan a luchas emocionales similares y aqu\u00ed tienes 6 de ellas.<\/p>\n

1. Finanzas y carrera profesional<\/h2>\n

Todo padre cari\u00f1oso y atento quiere hacer todo lo posible para mantener a su familia. Y las madres solteras no son una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

La gran diferencia es que si eres madre soltera sin ayuda econ\u00f3mica de la otra parte, eres la \u00fanica proveedora de la familia. Por supuesto, quieres darle a tu hijo todo lo que pueda.<\/p>\n

But at the same time, you are always torn apart between working extra hours and the fear that you\u2019ll miss out on a big part of your kid\u2019s childhood because you are chasing your career to give them a better future.<\/p>\n

2. Responsabilidad<\/h2>\n

Una de las luchas a las que se enfrentan literalmente todas las madres es el hecho de que toda la responsabilidad de la crianza recae sobre sus espaldas.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres el responsable de formar a otro ser humano y no hay nadie que comparta esa carga contigo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have anyone to rely on. Yes, you can ask for advice from people close to you but at the end of the day, you are the one making all the decisions.<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser a la vez el poli bueno y el malo, un padre estricto y un amigo, la madre y el padre.<\/p>\n

3. Culpa<\/h2>\n

Cuando terminas una relaci\u00f3n sin hijos de por medio, s\u00f3lo tienes que lidiar con tu angustia.<\/p>\n

But what happens when you have to mend your child\u2019s broken heart and explain to them that their dad doesn\u2019t want to be a part of their life and that they aren\u2019t to blame for that?<\/p>\n

Were you the one who ended things with your child\u2019s father? You knew that this was the best thing you could do for your kid and you knew that they didn\u2019t deserve to be raised in such a toxic atmosphere.<\/p>\n

But despite this, sometimes you can\u2019t help but wonder\u2014did you make the right choice? Should you have chased him more in order to be a responsible parent?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPrivaste a tu hijo de tener un padre en su vida? \u00bfComprenden que hiciste algo que hab\u00eda que hacer o te culpan por marcharte?<\/p>\n

Cuando te hagas estas preguntas, ten en cuenta que es mejor as\u00ed. Es mejor que tu hijo tenga una relaci\u00f3n sana con uno de sus progenitores a que se cr\u00ede en una familia disfuncional.<\/p>\n

4. 4. Vida social<\/h2>\n

Ser madre soltera es agotador y rara vez te deja tiempo o energ\u00eda para nada m\u00e1s en la vida.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve ceased to exist as a human being other than being just a mother. That doesn\u2019t mean that you don\u2019t want to socialize and have friends.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you just one thing\u2014there is nothing remotely wrong with this. You shouldn\u2019t ever feel guilty for giving yourself a break from time to time.<\/p>\n

I know you are a full-time mother but you\u2019ll be happier if you loosen up a little and your child will enjoy having a more satisfied mother.<\/p>\n

5. Amar la vida<\/h2>\n

The same way you haven\u2019t ceased to exist as a human being since you\u2019ve become a mother, you are also still a woman with her emotional and sexual needs.<\/p>\n

A veces te sientes solo y lo \u00fanico que quieres es que alguien te coja de la mano y te diga que todo va a salir bien. Necesitas intimidad y afecto, y eso es perfectamente natural.<\/p>\n

Pero, por otro lado, sabes que hace falta un hombre fuerte para conquistar tu coraz\u00f3n y te preocupa c\u00f3mo pueden afectar tus relaciones sentimentales a tu hijo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe sentir\u00e1n desatendidos emocionalmente? \u00bfSe llevar\u00e1 bien su posible pareja con su hijo?<\/p>\n

6. Inseguridad<\/h2>\n

Cuando eres madre soltera, hay momentos en los que te sientes orgullosa de ti misma por haberlo conseguido todo t\u00fa sola.<\/p>\n

And then, there are times when you don\u2019t feel enough and when you wonder if you should have done something differently.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEcha de menos su hijo tener otro padre? \u00bfDeber\u00eda ganar m\u00e1s dinero? \u00bfPasa suficiente tiempo con ellos?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 dando un buen ejemplo? \u00bfO en realidad eres un padre t\u00f3xico, sin ni siquiera ser consciente de ello?<\/p>\n

Hay momentos en los que todas tus inseguridades y miedos salen a la superficie. Momentos en los que s\u00f3lo necesitas que alguien te diga que est\u00e1s haciendo las cosas bien.<\/p>\n

Y por eso estoy aqu\u00ed, para darte la seguridad que necesitas, para decirte que eres incre\u00edble y que est\u00e1s arrasando en esto de la paternidad.<\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed, eres m\u00e1s que suficiente<\/a> y est\u00e1s haciendo un gran trabajo simplemente porque est\u00e1s dando lo mejor de ti.<\/p>\n

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