{"id":27845,"date":"2020-11-15T12:23:21","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T12:23:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27845"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:33:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:33:11","slug":"estos-son-6-significados-ocultos-detras-de-un-te-quiero-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estos-son-6-significados-ocultos-detras-de-un-te-quiero-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"Estos son 6 significados ocultos tras el \"te quiero\" de un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

No importa lo que intenten hacerte creer, los narcisistas son no es capaz de amar<\/a> a nadie m\u00e1s que a s\u00ed mismos. Su definici\u00f3n del amor es t\u00f3xica, malsana y peligrosa, y no tiene nada que ver con lo que realmente deber\u00eda ser el amor.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve heard your narcissistic boyfriend tell you how much he loves you a million times, right? Well, the truth is that a narcissist may think he loves you but he never does and here are all the hidden meanings behind his love.<\/p>\n

1. Me encanta disminuirte porque es la \u00fanica manera de sentirme bien conmigo mismo.<\/h2>\n

Even though they\u2019ll never admit it, all narcissists are actually dark and pessimistic people who don\u2019t have a good opinion about themselves. The truth is that they appear to be full of self-confidence but they are actually drowning in insecurities.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica forma que tiene un narcisista de sentirse mejor consigo mismo es menospreciar a su v\u00edctima. S\u00f3lo cuando se siente superior a ti tiene un sentimiento de autoestima. S\u00f3lo cuando te hace sentir que no eres lo suficientemente bueno mejora su autoimagen.<\/p>\n

And that is what every narcissist loves about his victim\u2014the possibility to drain your energy and the possibility to boost his self-confidence. When he insults you and makes you feel like you are good for nothing, he is actually feeding off your positive energy because that is the only way for him to feel good about himself.<\/p>\n

2. Te quiero como una posesi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

A narcissist doesn\u2019t see you as an individual person with your own feelings, mind and free will. He is not interested in taking care of you or meeting your needs and he\u2019ll never take your emotions into consideration.<\/p>\n

En cambio, s\u00f3lo te ve como una cosa y como alguien a quien puede abuso<\/a>. Y te quiere como una posesi\u00f3n preciosa que necesita tener.<\/p>\n

Te ve como un trofeo y como algo que le pertenece. Cuando act\u00faa como si estuviera orgulloso de estar contigo, en realidad est\u00e1 disfrutando del hecho de que la gente le envidie por tenerte.<\/p>\n

A narcissist\u2019s love is always selfish. He is never interested in the way you feel and he\u2019ll never put any effort into making you happy.<\/p>\n

3. Me encanta el poder que tengo sobre ti<\/h2>\n

La principal raz\u00f3n por la que los narcisistas cazan a sus v\u00edctimas es el sentimiento de superioridad que tienen sobre ellas. As\u00ed que cuando un narcisista dice que te ama, en realidad ama lo adecuada que eres como v\u00edctima para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Le encanta el poder que tiene sobre ti. Le encanta que consiga persuadirte de que est\u00e1s por debajo de \u00e9l en todos los sentidos posibles.<\/p>\n

Le encanta c\u00f3mo tu posici\u00f3n inferior aumenta su ego, c\u00f3mo te controla como a una marioneta y c\u00f3mo juega con tus emociones.<\/p>\n

Le encanta c\u00f3mo le haces sentir que manda y c\u00f3mo consigue convencerte de que eres completamente insignificante y sin importancia sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

4. Me encanta tener a alguien a quien culpar de todo<\/h2>\n

Una cosa com\u00fan para todos los narcisistas<\/a> is that they run away from responsibility. They are never guilty of the things they\u2019ve said or done.<\/p>\n

En cambio, fuiste t\u00fa quien les oblig\u00f3 a hacerlo y quien les provoc\u00f3. T\u00fa eres el loco y el que espera demasiado.<\/p>\n

Al menos eso es lo que un narcisista siempre te har\u00e1 creer. Y por eso te quiere tanto.<\/p>\n

Le encanta jugar con tu mente, haci\u00e9ndote cuestionar tu cordura. Le encanta hacerte luz de gas y culparte de todo lo que va mal en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

But most of all, a narcissist loves having someone\u2019s shoulders to put all of life\u2019s responsibilities on. Before you know it, you are guilty of all of his failures, for all the times he doesn\u2019t feel good and for everything in his life that doesn\u2019t go as planned. Before you know it, you have become the source of his frustrations even when you haven\u2019t done anything \u2018wrong\u2019.<\/p>\n

And you know why that is so? Because he sees that you are better than him and he is intimidated by it. He actually feels inferior to you and he wants you to feel guilty for your superiority. He doesn\u2019t want you to see that he is the one who isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

5. Amo la forma en que me amas<\/h2>\n

Cuando un narcisista te dice que te ama, en realidad ama la forma en que lo tratas y la forma en que lo cuidas. En realidad ama la forma en que lo amas.<\/p>\n

Le encanta estar en una relaci\u00f3n en la que los dos le dan prioridad y en la que los dos le quieren. Le encanta tener a alguien que haga todos los sacrificios por \u00e9l y alguien que le quiera incondicionalmente y haga lo que haga.<\/p>\n

He loves the way you don\u2019t ask for anything in return, while you are giving him your entire self. And most of all, he loves the way your love compensates for his lack of true self-love.<\/p>\n

6. Te odio por necesitarte<\/h2>\n

Every narcissist will try his best to persuade you that you need him. He\u2019ll try to make you believe that you would be nowhere without him in your life and that you could never find someone better.<\/p>\n

Pero la verdad es que las cosas son al rev\u00e9s. Este narcisista manipulador<\/a> en realidad te necesita como el aire para respirar y eso es lo \u00faltimo que quiere que te des cuenta.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres quien da sentido a su vida y quien le completa. Y por eso un narcisista nunca podr\u00e1 amarte. Es por eso que un narcisista te odia.<\/p>\n

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No matter what they try to make you think, narcissists are not capable of loving anyone but themselves. Their definition of love is toxic, unhealthy and dangerous and it has nothing to do with what love should really look like. You\u2019ve heard your narcissistic boyfriend tell you how much he loves you a million times,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":27846,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27845","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/katie-drazdauskaite-1151083-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27845","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27845"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27845\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27846"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27845"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27845"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27845"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}