{"id":27938,"date":"2020-08-16T11:52:57","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T11:52:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27938"},"modified":"2021-12-06T23:10:56","modified_gmt":"2021-12-06T23:10:56","slug":"8-banderas-rojas-que-indican-que-estas-en-una-relacion-temporal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-banderas-rojas-que-indican-que-estas-en-una-relacion-temporal\/","title":{"rendered":"8 se\u00f1ales que indican que est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n temporal"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le gustan los mensajes de texto (pero nada m\u00e1s)<\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

Esto suena un poco extra\u00f1o, pero si s\u00f3lo env\u00eda mensajes de texto y nunca llama, hay algo que huele mal.<\/p>\r\n

Ver\u00e1s, en la era de las citas modernas, un chico que ans\u00eda cercan\u00eda encontrar\u00e1 tiempo para hacer una videollamada, o al menos una llamada normal para escuchar tu voz.<\/p>\r\n

Si realmente odia hablar por tel\u00e9fono, sus llamadas ser\u00e1n escasas, pero si no est\u00e1 pensando en algo a largo plazo, ser\u00e1n inexistentes y probablemente tampoco responder\u00e1 a tus llamadas.<\/p>\r\n

Nunca te da una respuesta directa<\/h2>\r\n

\"chico<\/p>\r\n

He is trying to present himself as a \u2018go with the flow guy\u2019. He never knows what\u2019s going to happen next, where he\u2019s going to be or what\u2019s he going to do.<\/p>\r\n

He doesn\u2019t know whether he can see you tomorrow or next weekend. He usually says he\u2019ll let you know but sometimes he does, sometimes he doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n

Doesn\u2019t all of this sound like he is only doing things at his own convenience?<\/p>\r\n

El chico adecuado planificar\u00eda las citas y, la mayor parte del tiempo, sabr\u00eda cu\u00e1ndo puede verte.<\/p>\r\n

Si es impreciso en todo, est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n temporal.<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t know that much about him<\/h2>\r\n

\"Chico<\/p>\r\n

Incluso el chico m\u00e1s reservado empezar\u00e1 a abrirse poco a poco a la mujer con la que sale, si se trata de algo m\u00e1s serio con ella.<\/p>\r\n

Hablar\u00e1 de sus amigos, su familia, sus costumbres, su trabajo y sus recuerdos de infancia.<\/p>\r\n

Tendr\u00e1 un deseo inconsciente de hacer todo eso. Querr\u00e1 que con\u00f3zcalo<\/a> y querr\u00e1 saberlo todo sobre ti.<\/p>\r\n

Pero si vuestra relaci\u00f3n es temporal, crear\u00e1 una distancia hablando de algunos temas superficiales o s\u00f3lo te dar\u00e1 respuestas cortas a tus preguntas sobre cualquier cosa personal.<\/p>\r\n

Hay otra cosa que la gente temporal tiende a hacer, que es hablar demasiado de cosas que no son tan importantes, como su pel\u00edcula favorita, deportes, bebida, comida o cosas triviales.<\/p>\r\n

By doing that, he is making you believe that he is telling you everything about himself but when you really think about it, you don\u2019t know that much about him.<\/p>\r\n

 El futuro es un tema prohibido<\/h2>\r\n

\"pareja<\/p>\r\n

If he hates talking about the future or he skilfully avoids talking about it after you\u2019ve been together for a couple of months, you can be sure that he is not ready for a long-term relationship.<\/p>\r\n

By not saying a word about the future, he is actually saying that he doesn\u2019t know whether he is going to be there next month, in a few months\u2019 time, let alone in a year.<\/p>\r\n

With him, everything about the future ends and begins with, \u201cWe\u2019ll see\u2026.\u201d<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t see each other that often<\/h2>\r\n

\"joven<\/p>\r\n

A menos que se trate de una relaci\u00f3n a distancia, no hay excusa para no verse con regularidad.<\/p>\r\n

When a guy is really into someone, he will find time to spend with them. He won\u2019t neglect his friends, family or his work but he will always make you a priority.<\/p>\r\n

Si te trata como un alto en el camino y ves por su forma de comportarse que s\u00f3lo pasa cuando no tiene nada mejor que hacer, es s\u00f3lo alguien temporal en tu vida.<\/p>\r\n

You can\u2019t shake the feeling that something\u2019s off<\/h2>\r\n

\"pareja<\/p>\r\n

In the first few months of a relationship, you should be over the moon with happiness. But if you are plagued by the feeling that something doesn\u2019t add up, don\u2019t ignore it.<\/p>\r\n

En nueve de cada diez ocasiones, puedes confiar en tu instinto para guiarte.<\/p>\r\n

Da un paso atr\u00e1s e intenta determinar qu\u00e9 es exactamente lo que va mal y si notas algo en su comportamiento que haga saltar tu alarma interior y te diga que tengas cuidado.<\/p>\r\n

He\u2019s an entertainer (and not by profession)<\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

Tiene un sentido del humor impecable, lo cual es bueno. Pero lo convierte todo en un chiste, lo cual es muy malo y preocupante.<\/p>\r\n

Haci\u00e9ndose el gracioso, evita mantener una conversaci\u00f3n real, sobre todo cuando se tropieza con un obst\u00e1culo.<\/p>\r\n

He won\u2019t solve an issue or discuss a problem\u2014he will do his best to make you laugh and in that way, make you forget what the problem was.<\/p>\r\n

After a while, you will be frustrated because you won\u2019t be able to form a deeper connection with him because of all the humor.<\/p>\r\n

He\u2019s totally immature<\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

He is still at the \u2018party all night, sleep whole day\u2019 stage and there\u2019s no saying if he\u2019s ever getting out of it.<\/p>\r\n

Puede que siga viviendo con sus padres o que incluso te averg\u00fcence en p\u00fablico con su comportamiento infantil.<\/p>\r\n

Con este comportamiento inmaduro viene emocional<\/a> comportamiento tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\r\n

Podr\u00e1s verlo por la forma en que evita hablar de compromiso o se aleja cada vez que... las cosas se ponen dif\u00edciles o complicadas<\/a> o si s\u00f3lo piensa en sus propias necesidades.<\/p>\r\n

If this happens, you are definitely in a temporary relationship because an immature guy is never in anything serious or long-lasting. He\u2019s not ready for that.<\/p>\r\n

 <\/p>\r\n\r\n

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