{"id":28044,"date":"2020-04-20T08:23:05","date_gmt":"2020-04-20T08:23:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28044"},"modified":"2022-01-24T12:49:39","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T12:49:39","slug":"8-razones-por-las-que-los-hombres-desaparecen-y-luego-intentan-volver","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-razones-por-las-que-los-hombres-desaparecen-y-luego-intentan-volver\/","title":{"rendered":"8 razones por las que los hombres desaparecen y luego intentan volver"},"content":{"rendered":"

No todo es siempre blanco o negro, sobre todo cuando se trata de relaciones entre hombres y mujeres.<\/p>\n

We are wired differently. That\u2019s why we fail to understand each other\u2019s behavior from time to time.<\/p>\n

Pero por qu\u00e9 los hombres desaparecen y luego intentan volver<\/a> desaf\u00eda la l\u00f3gica.<\/p>\n

Lo primero que nos viene a la mente es que son jugadores. Aun as\u00ed, puede que no todo sea tan sencillo.<\/p>\n

A veces hay otras razones adem\u00e1s de que jueguen en el campo y vean a otras mujeres.<\/p>\n

Even though that\u2019s most probable reason and the one that makes the most sense, there are always exceptions to the rule.<\/p>\n

Se what else might be the cause of a man\u2019s disappearance and reappearance in your life?<\/p>\n

1. He still hasn\u2019t figured out how he feels about you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Los hombres tambi\u00e9n tienen cosas que resolver en sus cabezas antes de estar preparados para una relaci\u00f3n significativa.<\/p>\n

Dan un paso atr\u00e1s para ganar perspectiva y espacio para reflexionar.<\/p>\n

Yes, I know that the righteous ones will say: \u201cWhen you know you know. What\u2019s there to think about?\u201d But sometimes there are a lot of things to think about.<\/p>\n

You never know what\u2019s going on in somebody\u2019s head or how their mind works.<\/p>\n

Si crees que \u00e9sta es la causa, lo peor que puedes hacer es perseguirle o exigirle una explicaci\u00f3n inmediata.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo puede hacerle dudar m\u00e1s y correr en otra direcci\u00f3n a\u00fan m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido.<\/p>\n

Give him the space he wants to think things through. Play it cool even though it\u2019s going to be extremely hard.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t tolerate him coming in and out of your life as many times he wants.<\/p>\n

Que desaparezca y vuelva es m\u00e1s de lo que esperabas, y est\u00e1s siendo s\u00faper comprensiva por tolerarlo la primera vez.<\/p>\n

2. He\u2019s developed real feelings for you, and it freaked him out<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Puede que haya empezado una relaci\u00f3n contigo y haya pensado en ir d\u00eda a d\u00eda sin ning\u00fan objetivo claro de ad\u00f3nde podr\u00eda llevarle.<\/p>\n

Pero una vez que te conoci\u00f3 mejor, una vez que se abri\u00f3 a ti y te dej\u00f3 entrar, eso le hizo vulnerable, y literariamente le asust\u00f3 tanto que se asust\u00f3 y se fue.<\/p>\n

Puede que haya problemas con los que est\u00e9 lidiando, sus propias inseguridades o miedos que le hayan llevado a actuar de forma est\u00fapida.<\/p>\n

Si s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 asustado, puede que merezca una segunda oportunidad. Pero si lo hace por otro motivo, desp\u00eddete de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

3. He doesn\u2019t want a real relationship<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

If he is good with words, he will keep you in limbo. You won\u2019t be in a relationship, and you won\u2019t be single either.<\/p>\n

Te dar\u00e1 la ilusi\u00f3n de que ten\u00e9is una verdadera conexi\u00f3n. Te prestar\u00e1 atenci\u00f3n y ser\u00e1 muy amable contigo cuando est\u00e9is solos.<\/p>\n

Pero nunca te llamar\u00e1 su novia. Nunca te presentar\u00e1 a sus amigos ni a su familia.<\/p>\n

Puede que incluso te diga que le gustas, pero que ahora mismo no est\u00e1 preparado para una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que nunca va a estar listo, y s\u00f3lo va a seguir enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Have zero tolerance if a man acts like this. Don\u2019t allow him to come and go from your life as he pleases.<\/p>\n

4. Las cosas van demasiado deprisa<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Puede que t\u00fa y tu hombre no est\u00e9is de acuerdo desde el principio.<\/p>\n

Mientras \u00e9l decide ir paso a paso, t\u00fa ya est\u00e1s demasiado metido. El escenario opuesto tambi\u00e9n es posible.<\/p>\n

Que desaparezca podr\u00eda ser su intento inconsciente de frenar las cosas.<\/p>\n

Estaba abrumado por c\u00f3mo iban las cosas, y probablemente empez\u00f3 a sentirse atrapado.<\/p>\n

Si crees que \u00e9sta es la causa, d\u00e9jale respirar y tener su espacio. Ve un poco m\u00e1s despacio y sigue su ritmo.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones deben construirse ladrillo a ladrillo, y saltarse pasos nunca es una buena opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

En caso de que vuelva a desaparecer, d\u00e9jale marchar, pero esta vez para siempre. Si t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n te esforzaste por tomarte las cosas con calma, no hay raz\u00f3n para permitir que te trate as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

5. Est\u00e1 centrado en otra cosa<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Podr\u00eda haber otras cosas ocupando su mente que le hicieron tomar estas acciones extremas.<\/p>\n

Su trabajo puede estresarle o robarle demasiado tiempo. Puede tener problemas familiares o incluso de salud que le impidan llevar una vida normal.<\/p>\n

El punto es que su enfoque est\u00e1 en otra parte y no est\u00e1 en un lugar para estar en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

There is a mess inside of his head that isn\u2019t allowing him to let anyone get close.<\/p>\n

I know your first instinct is to help him, but there is nothing you can do if he doesn\u2019t allow you.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t sort his life out for him, and until he manages to do that himself, he won\u2019t be ready for a real relationship with you or anybody else for that matter.<\/p>\n

6. Tiene problemas de confianza<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

No todas las mujeres son santas, ni todos los hombres son demonios. Puede que se haya involucrado con alguien que le haya dejado emocionalmente destrozado.<\/p>\n

Si se va y luego vuelve y t\u00fa conoces bien su pasado, lo m\u00e1s probable es que haya desarrollado problemas de confianza que le impiden dejarte entrar y entablar una relaci\u00f3n contigo.<\/p>\n

Although you can understand or relate where he\u2019s coming from, you can\u2019t keep turning the switch off and on in your heart.<\/p>\n

Try openly talking to him, and tell him that you shouldn\u2019t pay for somebody else mistakes.<\/p>\n

If he disappears again, I\u2019m afraid there is nothing you can do. He has to deal with his own trust issues.<\/p>\n

7. Tiene fobia al compromiso<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Parece que en estos d\u00edas cada tipo tiene un fobia al compromiso<\/a>. No est\u00e1n preparados para una relaci\u00f3n. Temen que les atrape y limite todas sus libertades.<\/p>\n

Puede que sean inmaduros. Tener responsabilidades y dedicarse a una sola mujer no es para ellos.<\/p>\n

Si tiene miedo al compromiso, no hay nada que puedas hacer. De nada sirve que le recibas la primera vez, si lo m\u00e1s probable es que vuelva a hacerlo.<\/p>\n

8. No est\u00e1 seguro de que los dos pod\u00e1is trabajar realmente<\/h2>\n

\"Ri\u00f1a<\/p>\n

Sometimes the love mist gets so thick that you can\u2019t see things clearly. Take a step back and see the big picture. Do you really belong in each other’s lives?<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to be anybody’s fault. It\u2019s just that you aren\u2019t compatible, and his attempt to get back into your life might be just about making sure that he hasn\u2019t made a mistake when he disappeared for the first time.<\/p>\n

Make sure you don\u2019t make a mistake by inviting him back into your life.<\/p>\n

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