{"id":28054,"date":"2021-10-20T11:18:35","date_gmt":"2021-10-20T11:18:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28054"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:40:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:40:16","slug":"12-razones-por-las-que-nunca-te-manda-un-mensaje-primero-pero-siempre-responde-cuando-le-mandas-un-mensaje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-razones-por-las-que-nunca-te-manda-un-mensaje-primero-pero-siempre-responde-cuando-le-mandas-un-mensaje\/","title":{"rendered":"Si no le env\u00edas un mensaje, \u00e9l te lo enviar\u00e1 a ti: 20 razones por las que nunca env\u00eda mensajes primero"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00e9 que quieres gritar y exigirle que te diga por qu\u00e9 ha estado actuando as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>I know you feel confused and frustrated because you don\u2019t know why he never texts you first even when he&#8217;s clearly present on social media. And you have every right to feel this way.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes todo el derecho a pregunt\u00e1rtelo: <i>Why doesn&#8217;t he text <\/i><i>yo primero<\/i><i>? \u00bfEst\u00e1 tratando de jugar <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-juegos-mentales-que-los-hombres-hacen-a-las-mujeres-antes-de-una-ruptura-y-como-afrontarlos\/\"><i>juegos mentales<\/i><\/a><i> conmigo o est\u00e1 interesado pero no es muy <\/i><i>texter<\/i><i>?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Sea cual sea su raz\u00f3n, la verdad es \u00e9sta: <b>Don&#8217;t <\/b><b>env\u00edale un mensaje<\/b><b> y te enviar\u00e1 un mensaje.<\/b> \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa eso? Siga leyendo y desc\u00fabralo.<\/p>\n<h2>Por qu\u00e9 nunca debes escribirle primero<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69931 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-outside-on-stairs-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"pareja hablando fuera en las escaleras puesta de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-outside-on-stairs-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-outside-on-stairs-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-outside-on-stairs-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need a relationship expert to tell you that when a guy likes you, he WILL make an effort. It doesn&#8217;t matter what internal issues are stopping him \u2013 he will find a way to initiate a conversation with you.<\/p>\n<p>Granted, perhaps texting isn&#8217;t his way of showing affection. But, if you notice that he isn&#8217;t doing much of anything else either, then he doesn&#8217;t really love you.<\/p>\n<p>Primero deja de mandarle mensajes. <b>If you notice that he doesn&#8217;t reciprocate, reject him once and for all. You&#8217;ve had enough <\/b><b>rompecorazones<\/b><b>.<\/b> Ahora, aprende a quererte m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<h2>Why Doesn&#8217;t He Text Me First? 20 Possible Reasons<\/h2>\n<p>It can be hard to determine why a man doesn&#8217;t text you first, so if you&#8217;re not entirely sure, take a look at the following relationship advice.<\/p>\n<p>Here are 20 possible reasons a guy doesn&#8217;t text you first:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Tiene otras prioridades en este momento<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/a03d70e-aobu5qeavnv3scpi04.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-103533 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"677\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3.jpg 1202w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-768x433.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-150x84.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1202px) 100vw, 1202px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This one means he\u2019s interested in you, but he has some other priorities at the moment and after he\u2019s done with them, he will get back to you.<\/p>\n<p>Otras prioridades son su trabajo, su familia, sus mascotas, sus amigos o cosas por el estilo.<\/p>\n<p>The most confusing part is that he won\u2019t tell you what is going on in his life because he doesn\u2019t want you to worry about him.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso te seguir\u00e1 respondiendo y nunca te har\u00e1 cuestionar su felicidad o sus intenciones.<\/p>\n<p><b>He\u2019s aware of the fact that he cannot make you his priority (for the time being) until he\u2019s done with whatever he is doing and resets his list of priorities.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you sense that this might be the case, you can simply try asking him what is going on in his life and if there\u2019s anything he would like to share with you.<\/p>\n<p><i>If he keeps refusing to tell you anything, reassuring you that everything\u2019s fine with the two of you but he just needs some time for himself, it means you shouldn\u2019t worry because he will be back in no time.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>2. He\u2019s interested in you, but also in others<\/h3>\n<p>Esta es parecida a la primera, pero la principal diferencia es que sus prioridades son sus posibles chicas y no otras cosas con las que pueda estar lidiando.<\/p>\n<p><b>Los t\u00edos a veces establecen prioridades en funci\u00f3n de lo dif\u00edcil que seas de conseguir.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And in their mind, if you\u2019re playing hard to get, you must be a good catch (which doesn\u2019t necessarily have to be the case).<\/p>\n<p><i>If these potential girls don\u2019t <\/i><i>env\u00edale un mensaje<\/i><i> first, he will make them his priorities because if they don\u2019t <\/i><i>env\u00edale un mensaje<\/i><i> first, it means they\u2019re hard to get, and he will have to win them over.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>He will subconsciously multiply his efforts in trying to win them, and that is why he\u2019ll <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/an-open-letter-to-the-man-who-took-his-woman-for-granted\/\"><i>darte por sentado.<\/i><\/a><\/p>\n<p>He will not text you first because he knows that you\u2019ll be the one texting him first, and that is why he doesn\u2019t bother. But, this doesn\u2019t mean <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-senales-desgarradoras-de-que-no-esta-interesado-en-ti\/\">no est\u00e1 interesado en ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He is, but he\u2019s also interested in others as well, and it will take some time until he realizes exactly what he is doing and how he wants it to end.<\/p>\n<h3>3. He\u2019s unsure about his feelings for you<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69932 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/bussines-man-on-balcony-outside.jpg\" alt=\"hombre de negocios en el balc\u00f3n exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/bussines-man-on-balcony-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/bussines-man-on-balcony-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/bussines-man-on-balcony-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando un chico no est\u00e1 seguro de lo que siente por ti, se retraer\u00e1, y retraerse significa que necesita algo de tiempo para digerir sus sentimientos y admitir por s\u00ed mismo si le gustas o no.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps he\u2019s been hurt before and now he\u2019s afraid of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/emocionalmente-vulnerable\/\">vulnerabilidad emocional<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-razones-por-las-que-no-se-abre-a-ti\/\">abrirse a ti<\/a> because he\u2019s afraid you\u2019ll take advantage of him like someone else in his past might have done to him.<\/p>\n<p><i>Por eso intentar\u00e1 no mandarte un mensaje antes, porque si lo hace se sentir\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s confuso e inc\u00f3modo.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Pero, cuando <\/i><i>env\u00edale un mensaje<\/i><i> first, he will try to ignore it, only to realize that he cannot, and if he doesn\u2019t <\/i><i>devolverte el mensaje<\/i><i>lo arruinar\u00e1 todo.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que decide responderte, pero al d\u00eda siguiente se encuentra de nuevo contemplando sus sentimientos hacia ti.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s an endless circle of confusion, unsaid feelings and anticipation.<\/p>\n<p><b>Lo mejor es preguntarle en persona cu\u00e1les son sus intenciones o darle un ultim\u00e1tum para que entre en raz\u00f3n y <\/b><b>devolverte el mensaje<\/b><b> when he\u2019s ready to.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>4. He doesn\u2019t like texting, but he likes you<\/h3>\n<p><i>S\u00e9 que suena contradictorio. \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo gustarle pero no gustarle mandar mensajes conmigo? La verdad es que muchos chicos <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/son-malos-enviando-mensajes-de-texto\/\"><i>malo enviando mensajes de texto.<\/i><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Consideran que los mensajes de texto son una forma de compartir informaci\u00f3n sencilla, concertar citas, reuniones o para mensajes de emergencia cuando no se puede llamar a la persona.<\/p>\n<p>I was absolutely freaking out the first time I dated a guy who liked me but wasn\u2019t that into texting.<\/p>\n<p><b>Era una pesadilla estar siempre <\/b><b>el<\/b><b> que ten\u00eda que enviar primero un mensaje de texto para mantenerse en contacto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And when I asked him why this was so, he simply told me that he\u2019s not that into texting which has nothing to do with spending time with me.<\/p>\n<p>So, he liked me and liked spending time with me but couldn\u2019t find a way to get over that texting-phobia thing.<\/p>\n<p>Si te dice esto, que sepas que es 100% cierto, y debes aceptarlo tal cual.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you try to force him to change, he will feel pressured to be something he\u2019s not. Just leave him be, and with time it will get better. I promise you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Besides, it&#8217;s not on you to chase him. Once he starts missing you, he will come back. Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you!<\/p>\n<h3>5. He\u2019s too busy to think of texting you first<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69934 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/jealous-girl-looking-at-happy-couple.jpg\" alt=\"chica celosa mirando a pareja feliz\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/jealous-girl-looking-at-happy-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/jealous-girl-looking-at-happy-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/jealous-girl-looking-at-happy-couple-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Puede que tu chico sea muy trabajador y s\u00f3lo piense en su trabajo y en las cosas que tiene que hacer durante el d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><b>These guys don\u2019t have time for texting, but if they really like you, they will always make sure to find some time to <\/b><b>devolverte el mensaje<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t \u2018ignore\u2019 you because they want to. It\u2019s due to the nature of their job, schedule, and meetings.<\/p>\n<p><i>Por eso siempre <\/i><i>devolverte el mensaje<\/i><i> porque aprecia sus esfuerzos por <\/i><i>env\u00edale un mensaje<\/i><i> primero, pero <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-se-siente-un-hombre-cuando-hiere-a-una-mujer\/\"><i>se arrepiente de haberte hecho da\u00f1o<\/i><\/a><i> because he\u2019s not as good at multitasking as you are.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>If a guy is doing one thing, he will not be able to think about anything else until he accomplishes the thing he\u2019s just started. If he\u2019s deep into his job, chances are he will erase the possibility of texting you first, but will never hesitate to text you back when he\u2019s finally \u2018relieved of duty\u2019.<\/p>\n<h3>6. He\u2019s playing hard to get<\/h3>\n<p>S\u00ed. Algunos chicos utilizan esta t\u00e1ctica s\u00f3lo porque est\u00e1n tratando de hacerse los dif\u00edciles contigo.<\/p>\n<p>He wants to feel desired by you and to make you work hard to win him, and that is why he\u2019s deliberately avoiding texting you first. But, he will never fail at responding.<\/p>\n<p><i>Siempre se asegurar\u00e1 de responder para darte un poco de s\u00ed mismo y que vuelvas a por m\u00e1s. Espeluznante, lo s\u00e9.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>But that\u2019s just how some men function. They want you to do all the work while he\u2019s laying back, waiting to enjoy the fruits of your hard work.<\/p>\n<p><b>The truth is, if he\u2019s playing hard to get, it means he\u2019s not that interested in the <\/b><b>primer puesto<\/b><b>. The only person he\u2019s interested in is himself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>By doing this, he\u2019s trying to appease his egocentric self and make you feel less important or valuable. Always be careful with men like this.<\/p>\n<h3>7. He doesn\u2019t text you first because he knows you\u2019re going to text him first<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69935 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Man-standing-next-to-trees-during-the-day.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre de pie junto a los \u00e1rboles durante el d\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Man-standing-next-to-trees-during-the-day.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Man-standing-next-to-trees-during-the-day-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Man-standing-next-to-trees-during-the-day-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some guys are just lazy when it comes to texting. They don\u2019t play hard to get, and they have time to text you first, but they simply refuse to do it because they know you will be the one who will text first.<\/p>\n<p>Y se aferran a \u00e9l. Se adhieren a este r\u00e9gimen ego\u00edstamente perezoso, y te dejan hacer todo el trabajo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Puede que le gustes, puede que <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-cosas-subconscientes-que-hacen-los-hombres-cuando-se-enamoran-perdidamente-de-una-mujer\/\"><b>locamente enamorado de ti<\/b><\/a><b>, but he will never text you first because he doesn\u2019t even think of doing it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s too preoccupied with waiting for you to text him first, and he thinks this is the right thing to do.<\/p>\n<p><b>He knows that whatever he does, you will always reach him first, and that is why he feels comfortable with the fact that he&#8217;s not doing anything.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Try ignoring him for some time, and I\u2019m sure he will realize that there\u2019s something wrong with his behavior. Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you first \u2013 I guarantee it.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, para bailar un tango hacen falta dos y no s\u00f3lo uno.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Tiene miedo al compromiso<\/h3>\n<p>Si nunca te env\u00eda un mensaje de texto primero, pero responde a tus mensajes con gusto, es posible que tenga miedo de comprometerse.<\/p>\n<p><b>Cuando un chico tiene miedo al compromiso, actuar\u00e1 de forma confusa y te molestar\u00e1 sutilmente con cosas como no enviarte un mensaje de texto primero.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There are many reasons why a guy would be afraid to commit. It might be because he is overwhelmed by your emotions, he doesn\u2019t want to lose his freedom or he feels like you\u2019re too into his personal space.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora probablemente pienses: <i>Si esta es la raz\u00f3n, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 se molesta en responder a mis mensajes?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Es porque <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-signos-reveladores-de-que-esta-luchando-contra-sus-sentimientos-por-ti\/\"><b>est\u00e1 luchando contra sus sentimientos por ti<\/b><\/a><b>. La otra parte de su cerebro le dice que deber\u00eda <\/b><b>devolverte el mensaje<\/b><b> to see where it&#8217;s all going.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lo mejor es dejarle pensar y sopesar todos los pros y los contras de su decisi\u00f3n de participar o no en tu vida.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-tantos-hombres-sufren-problemas-de-compromiso\/\">Cuestiones de compromiso<\/a> son realmente agotadoras, y sientes que hagas lo que hagas no es suficiente. Es dif\u00edcil obligarle a trav\u00e9s de mensajes de texto a comprometerse contigo y empezar a enviarte mensajes de texto primero.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo lo har\u00e1 cuando est\u00e9 preparado, y por eso debes dejarle tranquilo por el momento.<\/p>\n<h3>9. He\u2019s afraid he\u2019s not good at texting<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69936 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre infeliz escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>No todos los chicos son confiados y directos cuando se trata de enviar mensajes de texto.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Algunos chicos tienen serios problemas con esto hasta el punto de estar ansiosos por enviarte un mensaje de texto primero.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Por eso eligen la opci\u00f3n m\u00e1s segura de todas y es dejar que les env\u00edes un mensaje de texto primero. Entonces, simplemente responder\u00e1n y esperar\u00e1n lo mejor.<\/p>\n<p><b>In their mind, it is easier and safer to follow your intentions and topics regarding conversation than to overthink about you becoming upset if they text you about something you\u2019re not interested in.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Reconocer\u00e1s a este tipo de chico si sus respuestas son muy cortas o s\u00f3lo utiliza emojis, y si su personalidad te dice que puede ser del tipo de chico que es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-no-ser-un-sms-seco\/\">un texter seco<\/a>, especially if he really likes you &#8211; the pressure will be even higher.<\/p>\n<p>Deber\u00edas intentar animarle de alguna manera a que sea m\u00e1s abierto contigo, y una vez que empiece a sentir que puede contarte cualquier cosa o pedirte consejo, se volver\u00e1 m\u00e1s despreocupado al respecto.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-me-contesta\/\">14 cosas inteligentes que hacer cuando no te contesta en d\u00edas<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>10. Quiere jugar casual<\/h3>\n<p>A diferencia de hacerse el duro, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-que-demuestra-que-quiere-seguir-siendo-casual\/\">jugar a la ligera <\/a>is another type of \u2018game\u2019. Playing casual means he doesn\u2019t want to feel obliged to text you first or to text you when you expect him to.<\/p>\n<p>Quiere que sigas siendo casual y que no cuentes cu\u00e1ntas veces te ha mandado mensajes \u00e9l primero o cu\u00e1ntas veces le has mandado mensajes t\u00fa primero.<\/p>\n<p><b>Obviously, he\u2019s not into any kind of relationship, but this doesn\u2019t mean that he\u2019s not into you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Puede que le gustes, pero tambi\u00e9n puede que quiera jugar a lo casual contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he\u2019s been in a few relationships before you, and now he wants to chill for some time until he gets bored of it.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9l siempre <\/b><b>devolverte el mensaje<\/b><b> because apparently, he wants to stay in touch with you but also wants you to know that he\u2019s not ready for anything big.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l s\u00f3lo quiere pasar un buen rato contigo, y si esto se convierte en algo m\u00e1s grande, bien podr\u00eda cambiar de opini\u00f3n sobre seguir siendo casual y empezar a enviarte mensajes de texto primero en lugar de esperar a que t\u00fa lo hagas.<\/p>\n<p>But, don&#8217;t you ever do it! Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you because he loves the chase!<\/p>\n<h3>11. He\u2019s not interested in you<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69937 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-walking-with-bag.jpg\" alt=\"hombre caminando con bolsa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-walking-with-bag.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-walking-with-bag-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-walking-with-bag-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La raz\u00f3n por la que algunos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-me-manda-mensajes-si-no-le-intereso-13-reasons-why\/\">text you even if they&#8217;re not interested in you<\/a> is that they&#8217;re too polite.<\/p>\n<p><i>This one is really annoying because why would he waste your time replying to your texts when he\u2019s not interested in the <\/i><i>primer puesto<\/i><i>?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Additional clues are if he is replying with \u2018yes or no\u2019 or he\u2019s constantly making excuses when you propose a second date night, movie night or something similar.<\/p>\n<p><b>It is a clear sign that he is not interested in you but will keep responding because he thinks it\u2019s the right thing to do.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Obviamente, no es sincero o simplemente tiene miedo de decepcionarte.<\/p>\n<p>Sea cual sea el motivo, es realmente injusto que alguien te d\u00e9 falsas esperanzas.<\/p>\n<p>Again, you can try to quit texting for a while to see if something\u2019s going to change.<\/p>\n<p>Si no, ya sabes qu\u00e9 hora es. <b>It\u2019s time to leave him alone and text someone else who will be more than happy to reply to your texts and even text you first.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>12. Es introvertido<\/h3>\n<p>Si tu chico es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/citas-con-introvertidos-14-cosas-clave-que-debes-saber-antes-de-salir-con-ellos\/\">un introvertido<\/a>, chances are he\u2019s unable to text you first because his introvert nature is not letting him.<\/p>\n<p>A diferencia de los extrovertidos, a los introvertidos les resulta dif\u00edcil <a href=\"https:\/\/www.truity.com\/blog\/introvert-heres-why-opening-can-feel-oversharing\" rel=\"noopener\">abrirse a alguien<\/a> y tomar la iniciativa.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso optan por permanecer inactivos hasta que alguien llama a su puerta\/les env\u00eda un mensaje de texto antes.<\/p>\n<p>Es muy dif\u00edcil culpar a un introvertido de esto porque no es culpa suya.<\/p>\n<p><b>Viven en este mundo con miedo a ser juzgados por todo lo que hacen. Y cuanto m\u00e1s les gustas, m\u00e1s ansiosos se vuelven.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que deciden esperar a que les env\u00edes un mensaje de texto primero en lugar de hacerlo porque se ponen demasiado ansiosos al respecto.<\/p>\n<p><b>They get too anxious even when they have to reply to your text because they are afraid they are going to mess it up. And they don\u2019t want to mess it up.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They want you to understand that they have issues with opening up to you, and if they respond with some weird texts, it is because they\u2019ve been contemplating too much about how to properly respond.<\/p>\n<p><i>Para descifrar el <\/i><i>verdadera raz\u00f3n<\/i><i> nunca te manda un mensaje primero (pero siempre responde cuando t\u00fa <\/i><i>env\u00edale un mensaje<\/i><i>), tambi\u00e9n debes prestar atenci\u00f3n a sus rasgos de personalidad, sus intenciones, su pasado, <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/su-lenguaje-corporal-dice-de-el\/\"><i>lenguaje corporal<\/i><\/a><i>etc.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Estos pueden parecer detalles triviales e innecesarios, pero cr\u00e9eme, te ayudar\u00e1n a ver el panorama m\u00e1s amplio detr\u00e1s del concepto de no enviar mensajes de texto primero.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>13. He&#8217;s just playing with you<\/h3>\n<h2><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69938 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-thoughtful-while-holding-glasses.jpg\" alt=\"hombre pensativo con gafas en la mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-thoughtful-while-holding-glasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-thoughtful-while-holding-glasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-thoughtful-while-holding-glasses-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p><i>Does he send you &#8216;<\/i><i>buenos d\u00edas<\/i><i>&#8216; and &#8216;<\/i><i>buenas noches<\/i><i>&#8216; texts only to suddenly <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/verdaderas-razones-por-las-que-los-hombres-eligen-el-cobarde-acto-del-ghosting\/\"><i>fantasma<\/i><i> usted<\/i><\/a><i> para el pr\u00f3ximo <\/i><i>par de d\u00edas<\/i><i>? \u00bfEstar\u00edas teniendo <\/i><i>conversaciones de texto<\/i><i> if it weren&#8217;t for your strenuous efforts?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>If you are the only one keeping these conversations alive, then it&#8217;s not because he has bad texting habits.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que sea el tipo de hombre que s\u00f3lo env\u00eda buenos mensajes de texto cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-que-esta-usando-el-ego\/\">necesita que le suban el ego<\/a> o sexting.<\/p>\n<p><b>If a man isn&#8217;t consistent in his efforts, then he&#8217;s probably there because you make him feel good, not because he actually <\/b><b>te quiere<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Yes, don&#8217;t text him and he will text you \u2013 but what&#8217;s the point?<\/p>\n<p>See this as the big deal that it is and move on. Don&#8217;t waste your time on someone who doesn&#8217;t appreciate you for who you really are.<\/p>\n<h3>14. He doesn&#8217;t want to hurt your feelings<\/h3>\n<p><i>Not all men are players. Not all men are going to text you just so they can have fun. Some actually see you as a human being with feelings they don&#8217;t want to hurt.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>He wants you to see straight away that he&#8217;s not interested in you because he doesn&#8217;t want to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-te-esta-tomando-el-pelo\/\">enga\u00f1arte<\/a>. <b>He knows that even if he is just polite, you will get your hopes up unnecessarily. So, he simply doesn&#8217;t reach out to you at all.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You shouldn&#8217;t be angry with him. Quite frankly, respect that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-beneficios-de-salir-con-un-hombre-maduro-2\/\">he&#8217;s mature<\/a> suficiente para no jugar contigo y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-superar-una-relacion\/\">seguir adelante<\/a> a alguien que realmente te quiera.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Sigue enamorado de su ex<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69939 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-typing-on-his-phone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-typing-on-his-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-typing-on-his-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-typing-on-his-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some men are perfectly aware of it, and others only feel it subconsciously, but the truth is that many men can&#8217;t commit to someone new because <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/talking-apes\/202001\/why-some-people-cant-stop-thinking-about-their-exes\" rel=\"noopener\">they can&#8217;t stop thinking about their ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00bfTodav\u00eda se estremece al mencionar su nombre? \u00bfSigue guardando sus regalos? \u00bfTodav\u00eda tiene sus fotos en su perfil?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Si es as\u00ed, esa puede ser tu se\u00f1al. <b>Intenta <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/necesitas-dejarlo-ir\/\"><b>d\u00e9jalo ir<\/b><\/a><b> porque te mereces a alguien que no tenga a nadie m\u00e1s que a ti en su mente.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>16. He doesn&#8217;t think you feel the same<\/h3>\n<p>Este es un cl\u00e1sico porque los hombres realmente SON despistados cuando se trata de averiguar si te gustan o no.<\/p>\n<p><b>You could be giving him the most obvious hints, but alas, he just won&#8217;t see them for what they are.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Por lo tanto, si usted nota que <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-mereces-que-te-devuelva-el-mensaje-y-estas-otras-6-cosas-si-realmente-le-gustas\/\"><i>he&#8217;s into you<\/i><\/a><i> but, somehow, can&#8217;t seem to make a move, he probably thinks you won&#8217;t reciprocate. What can you do?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Lo mejor ser\u00eda decirle directamente lo que sientes por \u00e9l. Sin embargo, si eso te asusta, puedes limitarte a describir a tu hombre perfecto delante de \u00e9l. H\u00e1blale constantemente de sus virtudes y de c\u00f3mo te gustar\u00eda tener a alguien as\u00ed como pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Once he sees that he is what you&#8217;re looking for, you will have <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/haz-estas-6-cosas-coquetas-para-ayudarle-a-dar-el-primer-paso\/\">le ayud\u00f3 a dar el primer paso<\/a>, and eventually, he\u2019ll ask you out on a first date.<\/p>\n<h3>17. En realidad es muy t\u00edmido<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69940 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"hombre infeliz en pijama sobre la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yes, shy men do exist. It doesn&#8217;t matter if he has a tendency to talk a lot in front of you. <b>Puede que s\u00f3lo sea un parloteo nervioso. Podr\u00eda seguir siendo t\u00edmido a la hora de enfrentarse a sus sentimientos por ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>\u00bfTiene un <\/i><i>mal rato<\/i><i> \u00bfMantiene el contacto visual? \u00bfSus <\/i><i>mejores amigos<\/i><i> tease him whenever you&#8217;re around? Do you sense that he&#8217;s uncomfortable every time he speaks to you <\/i><i>cara a cara<\/i><i>?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Si es as\u00ed, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/le-gustas-a-un-timido\/\">le gustas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Try to make it easier for him. Don&#8217;t give him one-word answers, but rather be truly interested in whatever he has to say. Show him how much you care about him, and you will see how he will relax in no time.<\/p>\n<h3>18. Se sinti\u00f3 decepcionado en el pasado<\/h3>\n<p>A man&#8217;s behavior can tell you a lot about his past. If you see that he&#8217;s having a hard time committing to you or saying &#8221;I love you,&#8221; then that means that he was really hurt by a woman in his past. He shouldn&#8217;t be judged for it.<\/p>\n<p>If you notice that he still has feelings for her, that&#8217;s a different matter and a major red flag. <b>But, if he&#8217;s merely hesitant to open up to you because he believes each relationship is doomed, be <\/b><b>el<\/b><b> para convencerle de lo contrario.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Demu\u00e9strale de la mejor manera posible que no est\u00e1s aqu\u00ed para jugar, sino para quererle de verdad y formar un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-5-etapas-de-las-citas-que-crean-una-relacion-amorosa-y-duradera\/\">relaci\u00f3n amorosa<\/a> con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p><i>Elige tus palabras con cuidado y estrat\u00e9gicamente (con un buen prop\u00f3sito), pero tambi\u00e9n deja que tu comportamiento hable por ti. Le animar\u00e1s a enviar por fin ese <\/i><i>primer texto<\/i><i>!<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>19. Es demasiado inseguro para hacer un movimiento<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69941 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando el tel\u00e9fono descontento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombres-con-baja-autoestima\/\"><i>Hombres con bajo <\/i><i>autoestima<\/i><\/a><i> exist too. So, if he still hasn&#8217;t made the <\/i><i>primer paso<\/i><i>podr\u00eda ser <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-signos-le-gusta-el-rechazo-miedo\/\"><i>miedo al rechazo<\/i><\/a><i>\u00a1! Podr\u00eda pensar que eres demasiado buena para \u00e9l.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>When he thinks about his own looks and personality, he keeps finding flaws and reasons for you not to be with him. If a man is this insecure, I am sure you can understand why he hasn&#8217;t texted you yet.<\/p>\n<p><b>So, if you&#8217;re really interested in a relationship with him, show him how worthy he is of you. Show him that he&#8217;s just your type and that all his flaws are utterly adorable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Cr\u00e9eme, ese mensaje de texto aparecer\u00e1 en tu tel\u00e9fono antes de lo que crees.<\/p>\n<h3>20. He doesn&#8217;t want to be seen as desperate<\/h3>\n<p>He seemed so interested the last time you saw him, and now it&#8217;s as if you don&#8217;t exist. He can&#8217;t devote any of his free time to sending even one text.<\/p>\n<p><b>This is because he doesn&#8217;t want to appear overly eager to impress you as he thinks that it will drive you away.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Los hombres tienen un ego muy fr\u00e1gil, y la idea de que le rechaces despu\u00e9s de haber hecho un gran esfuerzo es inaceptable para \u00e9l.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Lo que debes hacer es demostrarle lo mucho que aprecias cada peque\u00f1a cosa que hace. Demu\u00e9strale que ninguno de sus esfuerzos pasa desapercibido.<\/p>\n<p>He will start acting differently after this encouragement, that&#8217;s for sure.<\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t Text Him And He Will Text You&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69942 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-sitting-on-roof-and-looking-at-city.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sentado en el tejado mirando la ciudad\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-sitting-on-roof-and-looking-at-city.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-sitting-on-roof-and-looking-at-city-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-sitting-on-roof-and-looking-at-city-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yes, show him how much you like him to encourage him to make a move, but never be the only one who tries. Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you first.<\/p>\n<p>Lo mejor <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/consejos-de-citas-para-mujeres\/\">consejos sobre citas<\/a> anyone could ever give you is to never make an effort for a man who doesn&#8217;t do the same for you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-definitivas-que-el-hombre-nunca-amara-de-verdad\/\"><b>Un hombre que realmente <\/b><b>te quiere<\/b><\/a><b> se <\/b><b>doble texto<\/b><b> y aseg\u00farate de no cuestionar nunca sus sentimientos por ti.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you want to scream and demand from him to tell you why he\u2019s been acting this way. I know you feel confused and frustrated because you don\u2019t know why he never texts you first even when he&#8217;s clearly present on social media. And you have every right to feel this way. You have&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":69946,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28054","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/12-Reasons-He-Never-Texts-You-First-But-Always-Responds-When-You-Text-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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