{"id":28136,"date":"2020-03-21T09:27:07","date_gmt":"2020-03-21T09:27:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28136"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:53:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:53:09","slug":"la-sorprendente-verdad-sobre-como-se-enamoran-de-ti-los-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-sorprendente-verdad-sobre-como-se-enamoran-de-ti-los-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"La sorprendente verdad sobre c\u00f3mo se enamoran los hombres de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A diferencia de las mujeres, los hombres son mucho m\u00e1s complicados a la hora de enamorarse.<\/p>\n<p>Men don\u2019t just decide that they are going to like you and eventually fall in love with you.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando un hombre ve a una mujer que le gusta, empieza a pensar: <em>Maldici\u00f3n, me gusta esta chica. \u00a1Tengo que trabajar duro para ganar su coraz\u00f3n!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Se arremanga al instante y te pide tu n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono o te invita a cenar, se compra ropa nueva para estar m\u00e1s guapo, aprende un par de cosas para impresionarte con su inteligencia, se convierte en la encarnaci\u00f3n de un caballero, etc.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que suena tentador y que es muy dif\u00edcil resistirse a un hombre as\u00ed, pero si eres demasiado f\u00e1cil y te enamoras de \u00e9l demasiado pronto, perder\u00e1 el inter\u00e9s de inmediato.<\/p>\n<p>And I know this doesn\u2019t make any sense to you and you probably wonder why he would try so hard to win you in the first place only to let you go when he succeeds in doing so.<\/p>\n<p><b>Los hombres se enamoran en tu ausencia y no en tu presencia. <\/b>It is because men don\u2019t want you to fall too soon or too late for them.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando est\u00e1n haciendo todo lo posible <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/si-quieres-conservarla-tratala-como-si-aun-estuvieras-intentando-conquistarla\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">para ganarte<\/a>lo que quieren es que te des cuenta de sus esfuerzos y les des un pulgar hacia arriba para luego esperar a que te ganen m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Quieren sentir que se esfuerzan mucho por conquistar tu coraz\u00f3n porque as\u00ed les haces sentir que intentan ganar algo que vale la pena y que no es f\u00e1cil de conquistar.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s simply in their blood to fight for something and to be the one who succeeds in winning it.<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre quiere ser el elegido y no la que te elige a ti.<\/p>\n<p>He wants to feel like you\u2019ve chosen him out of all of the other men you could have chosen but didn\u2019t. And that is what makes him fall in love with you.<\/p>\n<p>Pasan por todo el proceso de perseguir, contemplar, sopesar y procesar sus sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p>Y tienen que pasar por todo ello para comprender sus sentimientos y decidir entregarse plenamente a ti.<\/p>\n<p><b>He aqu\u00ed 5 condiciones necesarias para que un hombre se enamore.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Los hombres quieren desaf\u00edos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77425 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-and-woman-standing-and-talking-at-the-bar.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer de pie y hablando en el bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-and-woman-standing-and-talking-at-the-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-and-woman-standing-and-talking-at-the-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-and-woman-standing-and-talking-at-the-bar-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nYes. Men fall in love with women who know how to challenge them. They don\u2019t want you to just nod to everything they say to you.<\/p>\n<p>Quieren que siempre tengas tu propia opini\u00f3n independientemente del tema y que no est\u00e9s de acuerdo con todo lo que te dicen.<\/p>\n<p>Men want you to tell them if you don\u2019t agree on something or if it makes you feel uneasy because that way you are telling him that you\u2019re not afraid to express yourself and you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/cuando-te-des-cuenta-de-lo-que-vales-estas-5-cosas-dejaran-de-molestarte\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">conoce tu valor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They will realize that you will not tolerate anyone\u2019s bullshit and that is when they decide to fight even harder to win you.<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre quiere sentir que est\u00e1 intentando ganar un trofeo y ganar un trofeo requiere mucho esfuerzo y conocimientos.<\/p>\n<p>And if you\u2019re showering him with love and compliments and not letting him fight for you, he will change his mind and start pursuing something more unconquerable.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se enamoran en tu ausencia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77427 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/side-view-of-man-wearing-eyeglasses-and-black-tshirt-sitting-on-rooftop.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de un hombre con gafas y camiseta negra sentado en un tejado\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/side-view-of-man-wearing-eyeglasses-and-black-tshirt-sitting-on-rooftop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/side-view-of-man-wearing-eyeglasses-and-black-tshirt-sitting-on-rooftop-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/side-view-of-man-wearing-eyeglasses-and-black-tshirt-sitting-on-rooftop-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re always around them, not giving them space to pursue you and think about you, they will not fall in love with you.<\/p>\n<p>They will give up on you. The truth is, men fall in love in your absence because they start contemplating you when you\u2019re away and not when you\u2019re present.<\/p>\n<p>It is thinking about you and wondering what you\u2019re doing that makes him fall in love with you.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed sabr\u00e1 que tienes tu propia vida y que no bailar\u00e1s a su son.<\/p>\n<p>A man needs to know that you feel good without him. He needs to know that you\u2019re having fun and you certainly don\u2019t need him to make you feel good about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Se enamora de una mujer que sabe proteger su coraz\u00f3n y d\u00e1rselo s\u00f3lo a quien ha trabajado duro para gan\u00e1rselo.<\/p>\n<p>He falls in love with your graceful demeanor and with how you make him feel when he\u2019s with you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They desire what you\u2019re not giving them<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77428 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/smiling-young-beautiful-couple-standing-in-front-of-wooden-fence.jpg\" alt=\"sonriente joven hermosa pareja de pie delante de la valla de madera\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/smiling-young-beautiful-couple-standing-in-front-of-wooden-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/smiling-young-beautiful-couple-standing-in-front-of-wooden-fence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/smiling-young-beautiful-couple-standing-in-front-of-wooden-fence-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Men desire mystery. He will fall in love with what he wants the most but which you\u2019re not giving him.<\/p>\n<p>If you give him your heart after two hours of dating or after two dates, he will think that your heart is less valuable than somebody else\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re constantly talking about yourself, not letting him court you or to say something nice about himself, he will stop listening to you.<\/p>\n<p>He will not be interested anymore in what you have to say because you\u2019ve already said everything. A man desires to know the things you don\u2019t say to him.<\/p>\n<p>Eso es lo que te hace misteriosa a sus ojos y lo que hace que se enamore de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Quiere sentir que tiene que resolver un acertijo para conquistarte y por eso tienes que darle informaci\u00f3n poco a poco.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quieren sentirse dignos de ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77426 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-holds-woman-face-outside.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sostiene mujer cara fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-holds-woman-face-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-holds-woman-face-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-holds-woman-face-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los hombres quieren sentirse merecedores de algo que intentan ganar desesperadamente.<\/p>\n<p>Quieren que los dem\u00e1s vean lo exitosos, corteses y capaces que son. Y quieren que t\u00fa te sientas feliz con ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Su prioridad n\u00famero uno es hacer feliz a su mujer porque si lo consiguen, significa que te merecen y que son dignos de tu amor y presencia.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso es importante dejar que te cortejen, te hagan cumplidos y te ayuden con las cosas.<\/p>\n<p>Only if you\u2019re truly happy will they feel like they are totally worthy of you and that is when they fall in love with you.<\/p>\n<p>Se enamoran de la sensaci\u00f3n de ser capaces de conquistarte, quererte y mostrarte aprecio.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Necesitan tiempo para procesar sus sentimientos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77424 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/bearded-man-wearing-brown-jacket-outside.jpg\" alt=\"hombre barbudo con chaqueta marr\u00f3n en el exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/bearded-man-wearing-brown-jacket-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/bearded-man-wearing-brown-jacket-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/bearded-man-wearing-brown-jacket-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed. Los hombres necesitan espacio cuando se trata de sentimientos. A diferencia de las mujeres, son incapaces de digerir la cantidad de sentimientos y afecto que pueden sentir por ti.<\/p>\n<p>No pueden comprender sus sentimientos cuando est\u00e1n contigo. En cambio, necesitan un tiempo a solas para procesar sus sentimientos hacia ti y poder comprenderlos.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen que estar seguros de lo que sienten por ti, porque si no lo est\u00e1n, se sentir\u00e1n confusos y probablemente desistir\u00e1n en sus intentos de conquistarte.<\/p>\n<p>That is why it is important to give men space when it comes to feelings and not to force them to express themselves when they are not ready for it. A man will fall in love when he feels he\u2019s ready and not when you want him to.<\/p>\n<p><b>Un hombre se enamorar\u00e1 de una mujer que le haga sentirse especial por haberle elegido.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77421 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/The-Surprising-Truth-About-How-Men-Fall-In-Love-With-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La sorprendente verdad sobre c\u00f3mo se enamoran los hombres de ti \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/The-Surprising-Truth-About-How-Men-Fall-In-Love-With-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/The-Surprising-Truth-About-How-Men-Fall-In-Love-With-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unlike women, men are much more complicated when it comes to falling in love. Men don\u2019t just decide that they are going to like you and eventually fall in love with you. When a man sees a woman he likes, he starts thinking: Damn, I like this girl. I have to work hard to win&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":113092,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28136","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/The-Surprising-Truth-About-How-Men-Fall-In-Love-With-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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