But, I\u2019m sorry to disappoint you that guys don\u2019t work that way.<\/p>\n
If you demand or beg him to change, your requests will be ignored. Guys don\u2019t like to be begged or ordered what to do or how to behave, but they like to be inspired and subtly given advice on something that bothers you.<\/p>\n
Think of them like puppies. If you promise him that you will give him a treat each time he does something good, he will be more than happy to work on himself. I know it sounds weird, but that\u2019s how guys function as well.<\/p>\n
Para obtener los resultados que desea, debe crear un entorno positivo e inspirador que le haga cambiar sutilmente sin darse cuenta.<\/b><\/p>\n A la hora de conseguir que cambie sin ser contundente, una de las cosas m\u00e1s importantes es ofrecerle primero sugerencias y luego darle consejos.<\/p>\n Si lo hace, \u00e9l no podr\u00e1 descartarlo porque ofrecer sugerencias no es imponerse, y tendr\u00e1 una mejor visi\u00f3n y comprensi\u00f3n de la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n After that, when he\u2019s accepted the situation, you give him advice (solution on how to overcome it). And if he doesn\u2019t like your advice, let him think and contemplate about it until he finds a proper solution for it.<\/p>\n Este enfoque le har\u00e1 comprender, anim\u00e1ndole a cambiar y a encontrar una soluci\u00f3n para ello.<\/p>\n Por animar me refiero a darle feedback por algo bueno que haya hecho. Puede ser en forma de palabras o de recompensa.<\/p>\n No guy can resist this, and if he sees that you\u2019re noticing his efforts, he will be more than happy to continue improving himself.<\/p>\n If a guy notices that you\u2019re rewarding his work and you\u2019re showing him that his actions have made you happy, he will be encouraged to keep up the good work, so that you continue rewarding him.<\/p>\n That way he will not even be aware that he\u2019s changing because he\u2019s doing it subconsciously.<\/p>\n La forma m\u00e1s eficaz de inspirarle para que empiece a trabajar en s\u00ed mismo es empezar a trabajar en ti primero. Sepa que los chicos modelar\u00e1n su comportamiento sin ni siquiera darse cuenta de que lo est\u00e1n haciendo.<\/p>\n So, the best way to inspire him to change himself is to find something that you\u2019ve always wanted to change about yourself and start working on it.<\/p>\n When he sees that you\u2019re giving your best to accomplish it, he will be inspired to do the same if only to prove you that he can. And when a guy becomes determined to achieve something, believe me, nothing will stop him.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t mean that you should ignore him or act like you don\u2019t care about him. Instead, you should limit the amount of affection you\u2019re showing him and limit your conversations, and he will instantly know that something\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n Esto no le enfadar\u00e1, pero evocar\u00e1 su curiosidad y querr\u00e1 saber cu\u00e1l fue el desencadenante de tal comportamiento.<\/p>\n Y cuando se lo digas, se alegrar\u00e1 de saberlo por fin y empezar\u00e1 a hacer algo para recuperarte. Pero, ten cuidado de no exagerar porque provocar\u00e1 un efecto contrario.<\/p>\n It is important to set your boundaries and to stick to them. If he knows exactly what you\u2019re expecting of him and your relationship, he will know that he will have to work on himself if he wants to keep you.<\/p>\n El mayor error que podr\u00edas cometer es hacer la vista gorda si hace algo que sabe que le has dicho espec\u00edficamente que no vas a tolerar.<\/p>\n If you let this happen once, you will not be able to control it anymore. He has to see that you\u2019re serious about your boundaries and decisions, and if he is not willing to cooperate, there will be certain consequences.<\/p>\n Always remember to acknowledge his efforts if you see that he\u2019s trying. It doesn\u2019t matter if he fails at it because trying is what will make him succeed. So, don\u2019t forget to tell him that you see how hard he is trying, and you really appreciate it.<\/p>\n1. Ofrecer sugerencias, luego dar consejos<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. An\u00edmale<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Inspirarle<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Apartarse durante alg\u00fan tiempo<\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Establezca sus l\u00edmites<\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Reconocer sus esfuerzos<\/span><\/h2>\n
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