{"id":28311,"date":"2020-03-23T10:08:02","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T10:08:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28311"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:19:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:19:01","slug":"una-carta-de-ruptura-al-hombre-que-no-quiero-dejar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-de-ruptura-al-hombre-que-no-quiero-dejar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta de ruptura al hombre que no quiero dejar marchar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Durante toda mi vida, he sido una chica fuerte y valiente, pero cuando se trata de amor, de alguna manera pierdo totalmente todo mi poder.<\/p>\n

Me transformo en una chica que s\u00f3lo quiere meterse en un agujero y dejar que otro haga el trabajo duro por ella.<\/p>\n

And I am not doing that because I am a coward but because I can\u2019t stand watching people while I am telling them things they don\u2019t want to hear.<\/p>\n

And that is why I am doing this right now. That is the reason I am writing this letter. I can\u2019t look you in the eye and tell you that I am leaving.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que te sentir\u00edas decepcionado, roto y que te derrumbar\u00edas. S\u00e9 que me rogar\u00edas que me quedara contigo, dici\u00e9ndome que cambiar\u00edas.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que volver\u00e1s a decirme las mismas mentiras de siempre y lo que es peor, te creer\u00e9 y volver\u00e9 a aceptarte.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am writing this break-up letter far away from you. I want to calm my thoughts and to think straight.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to hurt you, especially after so many things that we went through together. But I don\u2019t want you in my life anymore.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t stand putting you first while you never do that for me.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t stand fighting for your attention while you easily give it to the first girl you meet.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t convince you that you should sometimes listen to what I have to say because, hey, I know what is best for you.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to decide instead of me. I don\u2019t want you to think that I would be incapable of doing big things without you.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to tell me what I should and shouldn\u2019t do. I am big enough to know what can benefit me and what is not so good for me.<\/p>\n

And that is what you did throughout the whole relationship. You didn\u2019t behave like we are equals. You didn\u2019t behave like I was an adult.<\/p>\n

Siempre has tenido una extra\u00f1a necesidad de ser el dominante, el que decide y el que tiene la \u00faltima palabra.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

I am sick and tired of that! I don\u2019t want to be with someone who doesn\u2019t even think I am worthy.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a man who will mold me into someone he would like to fall in love with.<\/p>\n

I want you to fall in love with the real me. I want you to accept the real me and not ever having it cross your mind to change anything about me\u2014not even a single bit.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEstoy pidiendo demasiado? \u00bfEstoy pidiendo lo imposible?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t think so, especially after everything I did for you. I\u2019m not asking too much because if it was real love, you would have known my wishes by just looking at me.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Pero nunca fuiste capaz de hacerlo.<\/p>\n

Nunca viste m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de mi cuerpo. Nunca quisiste conocerme m\u00e1s a fondo.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00edas a alguien que fuera bueno para tu ego, alguien que escuchara tus deseos y alguien con quien te divirtieras.<\/p>\n

Y me convert\u00ed en todo lo que quer\u00edas. Estuve perdi\u00e9ndome demasiado tiempo s\u00f3lo para poder hacerte feliz.<\/p>\n

And I came to the breaking point where I couldn\u2019t even recognize myself anymore.<\/p>\n

I changed so much just so you would like me more that I forgot to love myself. The girl I see in the mirror isn\u2019t that happy and positive girl anymore.<\/p>\n

She is far from happy because she doesn\u2019t listen to her heart. Instead, she listens to someone else who isn\u2019t even good for her.<\/p>\n

Ella escucha al hombre que cree que es su felices para siempre <\/a>. Pero no lo es. Y nunca lo ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why this ruptura<\/a> carta es tan doloroso para m\u00ed. Y s\u00e9 que ser\u00eda m\u00e1s dolorosa si te contara todo esto en persona.<\/p>\n

I know that I wouldn\u2019t be so strong and that you would convince me to go back to you. And that is the last thing I want to do.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Hoy es el d\u00eda en que te dejo marchar, lo quieras o no. Llevo mucho tiempo escuchando tus deseos y ahora me toca a m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Necesito que respetes mi \u00fanico deseo, el que escribo en esta carta. Quiero que respetes mi decisi\u00f3n como yo siempre respet\u00e9 la tuya.<\/p>\n

I want you to finally let me go because this is not love anymore; it is just a bad compromise. And I can\u2019t live like this any longer.<\/p>\n

If you are wondering if there is another man behind this whole story, just know that there isn\u2019t. I am still madly in love with you, but you are ruining me like nobody did before.<\/p>\n

You are hurting me even if I love you, and you don\u2019t want to change.<\/p>\n

Rompes tus promesas como si no significaran nada para ti, y repites las mismas cosas una y otra vez.<\/p>\n

And I am smart enough to see that by doing all that, you don\u2019t really love me.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te gusta la idea de m\u00ed. Te encanta tener a alguien con quien tomar el caf\u00e9 de la ma\u00f1ana, alguien que te abrigue en las fr\u00edas noches de invierno y alguien con quien presumir.<\/p>\n

Sadly, I was that person but not anymore. So please don\u2019t call me and beg me to give you another chance because I gave you too many of them.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t text me and don\u2019t try to find me.<\/p>\n

Aunque rompa contigo, no es f\u00e1cil. Pas\u00e9 demasiado tiempo contigo como para poder olvidarte en tan poco tiempo.<\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t reach out. Don\u2019t make it harder for both of us.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edas que algo as\u00ed pasar\u00eda tarde o temprano. Y es mejor que haya ocurrido ahora porque a\u00fan podemos encontrar a nuestra verdadera pareja.<\/p>\n

In the end, I just want you to know that I don\u2019t hate you. I guess heaven sent you into my life for some reason.<\/p>\n

Maybe to make me stronger, to teach me that real love can\u2019t be found on every corner and to show me that sometimes it is better to be alone than in a bad company.<\/p>\n

Y eso es lo que har\u00e9 ahora mismo. Estar\u00e9 solo, libre de ti y totalmente centrado en m\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Maybe in losing you, I will find what I have always been seeking \u2013 maybe I will find myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Christine is the author of \u2018 Mirar fijamente a los ojos de la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n <\/a>\u2019 , a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>\n

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