{"id":2857,"date":"2020-09-26T07:55:51","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T07:55:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2857"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:34:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:34:23","slug":"10-cosas-que-nunca-digas-hombre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-que-nunca-digas-hombre\/","title":{"rendered":"10 cosas que NUNCA debes decir a un hombre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aunque los hombres parecen ser intangibles y les gusta aferrarse a una actitud de \"nada puede tocarme\", tambi\u00e9n son humanos y muchas cosas pueden afectarles.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, las mujeres tienen fama de ser sensibles cuando hay palabras de por medio. Son ellas en cuya presencia hay que tener cuidado de no decir algo que puedan malinterpretar.<\/p>\n

But, believe me, it\u2019s the same thing with men. Have you ever noticed a sudden change on their faces from happy mode to sad or irritated mode? That\u2019s not all of a sudden and for no reason as women mostly think.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably said something that made your man upset. Stay tuned and check out some of the things you might have been saying wrong.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou\u2019ve failed. Accept it!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Si tu hombre se esfuerza por tener \u00e9xito en algo y fracasa, nunca debes decirle directamente a la cara que es un asco.<\/p>\n

Try to find a more appropriate and more subtle way of telling him that. Try to do it in a way you will help him by saying the truth but at the same time, you won\u2019t hurt his feelings.<\/p>\n

\u201cMy ex would never do something like that!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Nunca, nunca debes decir algo as\u00ed. Bajo ninguna circunstancia debes comparar a tu novio actual con tu ex. En esencia, nunca debes compararlo con nadie, excepto si le est\u00e1s haciendo un cumplido.<\/p>\n

Imagine how you would feel if your boyfriend said to you that you have no idea what you\u2019re doing and that his ex was so much better in that \u2018something\u2019 than you are\u2014you would feel like crap\u2014so does he.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou are a f**king idiot. What is wrong with you?\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever work on your conflicts in public, especially in front of his friends and family. While arguing, a lot of things that you didn\u2019t mean come out of your mouth\u2014you say a lot of stuff in anger and you\u2019re sorry for that later on.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever put him down in front of his friends. Whatever dispute you have to solve with him, leave it for the private moments.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou look cute.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"unCute and men don\u2019t work together. They all strive to be macho-protector-sexy men who sweep women off their feet. They don\u2019t want to end up being cute.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Imagine how would you feel if you dress up, put on a smokin\u2019 hot dress, you feel and look all sexy, and your boyfriend comes along and instead of telling you, \u201cWOW\u201d, he tells you that you look cute\u2014WTF?! Right?<\/p>\n

\u201cEverything is ok.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

They are not idiots. They can see that something is bothering you from the look on your face. Don\u2019t play them for fools and admit when everything is not ok because they can see it.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t expect them to read your mind. Tell them what the problem is and perhaps you can solve it together.<\/p>\n

\u201cLet\u2019s just be friends.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

If you wanted to be friends, there\u2019s no need to say it. Let\u2019s face it, women just say these things to men when they want to get rid of them.<\/p>\n

In these situations, make things easier for him and yourself by just saying you are not interested in seeing him and do it quickly\u2014like pulling off a band-aid. You won\u2019t string him along and you will get rid of the agony.<\/p>\n

\u201cYeah, it\u2019s nice.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Your guy has left his comfort zone and he has done something amazing for you. It doesn\u2019t have to be anything special. It may be cooking a meal for you or pretty much anything your man usually doesn\u2019t do\u2014anything he seriously put an effort into.<\/p>\n

Instead of reacting with respect and admiration\u2014even if you\u2019re not that impressed but you know he gave it all he\u2019s got to make you happy\u2014you react with the words: \u201cIt\u2019s nice.\u201d WTF?! \u2018IT\u2019S NICE?!\u2019<\/p>\n

Now, that\u2019s just cruel and disrespectful\u2014DO NOT DO THAT! Just put yourself in his skin and imagine how you would feel.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhich outfit do you like better?\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

To be honest, no man has ever said to his woman which outfit he likes better, only which outfit he thinks she likes better. I mean, about 90 percent of men don\u2019t even notice which one is better and which one is not.<\/p>\n

They will try to guess which one you like better just to avoid the arguing that follows if he says the wrong answer. Don\u2019t put them in these situations. They will love you no matter what you wear. Don\u2019t do that to them.<\/p>\n

 \u201cYou are a spoiled mama\u2019s boy.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even go there. It\u2019s a common fact that men have a strong bond with their mothers and that\u2019s just how things work. Don\u2019t try to change that because it\u2019s impossible.<\/p>\n

Even if you are sure his mom is wrong and she taught him something wrong, don\u2019t fight him about it by saying he\u2019s spoiled and that he\u2019s a mama\u2019s boy. Especially don\u2019t tell him his mother is wrong.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the thing that will hurt him the most. Try to play this out differently. Try to explain him in a subtle way to open his horizons and make him see things from a different perspective, but don\u2019t involve his mom in it\u2014don\u2019t even mention her.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m way stronger than you are.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Even if you are, don\u2019t take the \u2018macho-protector\u2019 thing from him. It\u2019s not that men like dependent women, but they like to think they are the ones who are \u2018in charge\u2019, even if they are not. Their strength, that patriarch attitude, and knowing they are the caretakers of their women is what keeps them happy and satisfied.<\/p>\n

Sabes que tienes el control, y puede que incluso \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n lo sepa, pero deja que tenga la sensaci\u00f3n de que son ellos los que te cuidan a ti.<\/p>\n

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