{"id":28895,"date":"2020-03-27T08:08:18","date_gmt":"2020-03-27T08:08:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28895"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:48:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:48:35","slug":"5-cosas-que-debes-saber-antes-de-amar-a-una-chica-con-un-ex-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-debes-saber-antes-de-amar-a-una-chica-con-un-ex-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que deber\u00edas saber antes de amar a una chica con un ex t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando conozcas a una buena chica que haya salido de una mala relaci\u00f3n, ver\u00e1s que es especial y que no puedes tratarla como a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you might feel like she doesn\u2019t believe in love and as if she is doing everything in her power to push you away.<\/p>\n<p>But when you get a closer look, you\u2019ll see that her behavior is nothing more than a defense mechanism.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see that this girl\u2019s personality has many layers, waiting to be discovered.<\/p>\n<p>Most of all\u2014you\u2019ll see that she is worthy of your love, time and energy.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que esta chica es vulnerable y est\u00e1 asustada y hay que tratarla con especial cuidado y delicadeza.<\/p>\n<p>Y por eso te damos 5 cosas que toda chica que tuvo un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-has-dejado-atras-a-tu-ex-toxico\/\">ex t\u00f3xico<\/a> desear\u00eda que lo supieras.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She&#8217;s been through hell and back<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-from-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando hacia el balc\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-from-balcony.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-from-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-looking-away-from-balcony-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Before you get yourself involved with this type of girl, beware of the fact that she has been through some horrible things and that she\u2019s experienced more pain than you could ever handle.<\/p>\n<p>Pero resurgi\u00f3 de las cenizas de su coraz\u00f3n roto y eso la hizo m\u00e1s fuerte que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>The guy she loved more than anything didn\u2019t manage to break her into pieces but everything he did changed her for good.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, por favor, ten esto en cuenta si piensas en volver a destrozarle el coraz\u00f3n o si piensas en jugar con ella.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me that this girl will see right through your intentions and if you don\u2019t plan on treating her right, don\u2019t even bother entering her life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Es un ex por una raz\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82501\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-holding-broken-picture.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sosteniendo un cuadro roto\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-holding-broken-picture.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-holding-broken-picture-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-holding-broken-picture-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though this guy changed her to the bones, there is absolutely no freakin\u2019 chance that she would ever go back to him.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca debes sentirte intimidado por la profundidad de su amor por \u00e9l porque eso es s\u00f3lo una parte del pasado.<\/p>\n<p>Esta chica se dio cuenta de todo lo que le estaba haciendo y precisamente por eso se alej\u00f3 de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Es un ex por una raz\u00f3n y no tienes nada de qu\u00e9 preocuparte.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tiene problemas de confianza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82502\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-deep-thoughts-standing.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven en profundos pensamientos de pie\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-deep-thoughts-standing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-deep-thoughts-standing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-deep-thoughts-standing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Otra cosa que debes saber sobre salir con una chica con un ex t\u00f3xico es que tiene serios problemas de confianza.<\/p>\n<p>When you first meet her, she\u2019ll doubt every single word you say and she\u2019ll question your intentions.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, when you talk to her, you\u2019ll feel like you are being interrogated and judged because she is literally examining you.<\/p>\n<p>Su experiencia le ha ense\u00f1ado que todos los hombres son iguales y, en consecuencia, supone que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1s aqu\u00ed para hacerle da\u00f1o. As\u00ed que tiene que tener cuidado a la hora de confiar en ti.<\/p>\n<p>Even when you act like the best boyfriend in the world, she\u2019ll be suspicious and she\u2019ll look for some hidden agenda of yours.<\/p>\n<p>This is the girl who will always wait for you to show your true colors and a girl who will be afraid to expect too much of you so she doesn\u2019t get disappointed.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She won&#8217;t chase you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82504\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-standing-in-lavender-field.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven de pie en un campo de lavanda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-standing-in-lavender-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-standing-in-lavender-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-standing-in-lavender-field-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This girl isn\u2019t cocky nor does she enjoy playing hard to get. She doesn\u2019t want you pursuing her or running after her just so she can feel better about herself.<\/p>\n<p>But she won\u2019t chase you either because she doesn\u2019t want to keep in her life anyone who doesn\u2019t want to be in it.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t beg for your undivided attention or love because she\u2019s had enough of that bullshit.<\/p>\n<p>This girl won\u2019t be the only one putting in all effort and the only one trying, even if she falls for you hard.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that she doesn\u2019t need you and that she can make it without you, no matter how much she cares about you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Est\u00e1 vigilada<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82510\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-attractive-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer atractiva posando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-attractive-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-attractive-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-attractive-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Otra cosa que puedes esperar cuando te enamoras de una chica con un ex t\u00f3xico es que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/7-maneras-en-las-que-una-chica-precavida-ama-de-forma-diferente\/\">she\u2019ll be guarded<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It is not that she is heartless\u2014this is just one of her ways of protecting herself from another heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que esta chica tiene miedo de volver a amar porque relaciona el amor con el dolor.<\/p>\n<p>Even when she grows to love you, she won\u2019t admit it just like that. Instead, she\u2019ll appear to be way tougher than she really is and she\u2019ll do everything in her power to keep her soft heart to herself.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll never relax and show her true emotions until she sees that you deserve to see them.<\/p>\n<p>Most of all, she\u2019ll hide her vulnerabilities and weaknesses out of fear that you\u2019ll use them against her as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll have to put in a lot of patience and energy before this girl finally lets you in completely.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s been building thick and high walls around her heart for quite some time and you\u2019ll have to be pretty damn special to tear them down.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82497\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Things-You-Should-Know-Before-Loving-A-Girl-With-A-Toxic-Ex-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 cosas que deber\u00edas saber antes de amar a una chica con un ex t\u00f3xico\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Things-You-Should-Know-Before-Loving-A-Girl-With-A-Toxic-Ex-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Things-You-Should-Know-Before-Loving-A-Girl-With-A-Toxic-Ex-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Things-You-Should-Know-Before-Loving-A-Girl-With-A-Toxic-Ex-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you meet a good girl who\u2019s gotten out of a bad relationship, you\u2019ll see that she is special and that you can\u2019t treat her like everyone else. At first, you might feel like she doesn\u2019t believe in love and as if she is doing everything in her power to push you away. But when&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":82511,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28895","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Things-You-Should-Know-Before-Loving-A-Girl-With-A-Toxic-Ex.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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