{"id":28965,"date":"2020-10-27T13:35:01","date_gmt":"2020-10-27T13:35:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28965"},"modified":"2021-11-29T21:39:50","modified_gmt":"2021-11-29T21:39:50","slug":"como-conquistar-a-una-chica-y-hacerla-tuya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-conquistar-a-una-chica-y-hacerla-tuya\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo seducir a una chica (y hacerla tuya)"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, you really like this girl and you feel like you should make the first move but you\u2019re not sure how to do it. You don\u2019t want to do something that will scare her away from you because every step you take is equally important. And that is when the anxiety kicks in.<\/p>\n

Te pones ansioso por las cosas m\u00e1s triviales, como: \u00bfDebo sentarme a su izquierda o a su derecha? \u00bfLe pregunto si puedo cogerle la mano? \u00bfDeber\u00eda llevar este perfume? <\/i> By contemplating all of this, you forget the most important thing, which is almost the only thing you\u2019ll ever need to hacer un movimiento en una chica<\/a> y eso es: relajarse.<\/b><\/p>\n

Think of it this way\u2014if you\u2019re not relaxed, she will sense it and she will not feel comfortable, which instantly ruins your chances of kissing her or something more. If a girl is not comfortable around you, you cannot proceed to other steps that will make her approve your actions and enjoy them.<\/p>\n

Mantente relajado.<\/p>\n

The first step to making a move on a girl is to stay relaxed. If you\u2019re thinking about asking her out, approaching her at a party or at school, if you\u2019re thinking about hugging and kissing her, the first thing that should come to your mind is to chill. I know the pressure is high and the more you like the girl, the harder it is to stay relaxed.<\/p>\n

But try to understand that if you stay relaxed, the chances that she\u2019s going to reject your invitation become really low. Be cool. Act like you don\u2019t really care about her (even though you know it\u2019s a lie) but if a woman senses that you\u2019re not that into her, she will immediately start wondering whether you like her or not and she will be more than happy to date you.<\/p>\n

But if you act like she\u2019s the only girl in the world for you and tr\u00e1tala como a una reina<\/a>, she will most definitely lose interest before you even ask her out. And even if she accepts your invitation, the chances she\u2019s going to friendzone you are really high.<\/p>\n

La confianza es la clave.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Tranquil\u00edzate, mantente relajado y le demostrar\u00e1s que tienes confianza en ti mismo y en lo que haces. Ninguna chica puede resistirse a un chico as\u00ed. La confianza es tu amiga n\u00famero uno cuando se trata de chicas, \u00a1as\u00ed que intenta memorizar esto! La confianza lo gana todo. Te hace parecer diez veces m\u00e1s sexy y audaz de lo que realmente eres. <\/p>\n

Now you\u2019re wondering how you can appear confident when you\u2019re being anxious about every single detail and you want everything to be perfect. Congratulations, you\u2019re on to something.<\/p>\n

Do you often wonder how such a beautiful girl could ever date a guy like him? She\u2019s the embodiment of beauty and he looks like just a random guy you meet on the street every day. But that guy knows something you\u2019re about to learn now. That guy knows that even if he doesn\u2019t look that good or he\u2019s not that seguro de s\u00ed mismo <\/a> siempre puede fingir que lo es y ella no lo sabr\u00e1.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s true. If you\u2019re not confident in yourself, you can always fake it. If you pretend that you\u2019re all relaxed and chill, she will buy it and trust me, she will fall for it. Remember that you\u2019re equally worth it, just like the girl you like. Don\u2019t let her beauty overwhelm you and make you feel less worthy of being with her.<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s not true. I\u2019m sure you have some badass qualities that will make her fall to her knees. Now, when you\u2019ve overcome all of these psychological barriers, you can proceed to the rest of the steps that will help you haz un movimiento con la chica que te gusta<\/a> (y hazla tu novia<\/a>).<\/p>\n

C\u00d3MO SEDUCIR A UNA CHICA (Y HACERLA TUYA)<\/h3>\n

Inv\u00edtala a salir<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Yup. Asking her out is the first step that will get you to your dreamland. Now, the question is not where to ask her out but the question is how to do so. Always pay attention to how you do something and not where you\u2019re going to do it or when. So, you decide whether you feel more comfortable with the casual or the not too casual version.<\/p>\n

You decide whether you want to take her out to the movies or you want to watch one at home. Or if you would rather take her to a museum, why not. Girls love diversity and it\u2019s all about making them feel special. So, you have to pay attention to how you are going to ask her out. Try the following method: Chill. Breathe out, breathe in. Pick up your phone or go to her and simply ask her: Oye, me preguntaba, \u00bfte gustar\u00eda ir al cine esta noche? <\/i> Que sea sencillo.<\/p>\n

You see, it\u2019s a simple sentence of thirteen words you need to utter to her. Don\u2019t overcomplicate it because there\u2019s no need for it. If you happen to be at a party and you want to ask her out, just introduce yourself, say something interesting (be humorous) and subtly ask her out by saying: I think we should see that (funny) movie\u2026 <\/i> As\u00ed no se sentir\u00e1 presionada a nada y aceptar\u00e1 encantada tu invitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3cala<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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By touching, I mean holding hands, hugging her or other cute gestures that simply work any time. So, the two of you are watching a movie and now you have to level up and involve some physical touch in order to show her your affection. When you feel it\u2019s the right moment for touching or holding her hand, don\u2019t hesitate to do it. It\u2019s all about feelings.<\/p>\n

If your brain is telling you that it is time to do it, then listen to it and act accordingly. If you don\u2019t listen to your gut, you will most likely end up confusing her and making the whole thing awkward. And you don\u2019t want awkwardness. Awkwardness is for newbies. You want to send her the message that you apreciarla <\/a> and you will not rush her into anything if she\u2019s not ready for it.<\/p>\n

By holding her hand, giving her a hug, and touching her from time to time, you\u2019re preparing her for what is about to come. And if you skip these steps of light physical touch, you will never be able to get to some intense touching (if you catch my drift).<\/p>\n

B\u00e9sala<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

The biggest dilemma of all is: When is the right time to kiss her? Well, the right time is when you FEEL is the right time. And it can never be otherwise. Once you feel that the moment has come, lean in, close your eyes and kiss her slowly. You don\u2019t want to rush things! Kiss her slowly, then look into her eyes and try to smile (if you can).<\/p>\n

After that, you can kiss her some more but make sure that she\u2019s enjoying it. If she looks like she\u2019s not in the mood for kissing, you should consider aborting the mission immediately. If that happens, then wait for some other time when she will be ready. But always kiss her like you really mean it. Don\u2019t make her question your intentions or sense that you\u2019re a little bit insecure about what you\u2019re doing. Do it like a boss and she will fall for you instantly.<\/p>\n

Apartarse y continuar<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

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I know this sounds weird because why would you pull away now that you\u2019ve gone this far? Well, women are not as simple as men. You need to make them want more. So, when you start kissing her, when you feel it\u2019s time to stop doing so, pull away (but make sure the transition looks natural) and then observe her body language and her intentions. If she seems like she wants more, then give her more (but not yet).<\/p>\n

Wait a little bit longer until she is at boiling point and then start kissing her again and include some touching as well. In this phase, she will be unable to resist you because she\u2019s waited for you for so long (when you really want someone, seconds feel like hours). And that is when you\u2019ve won.<\/p>\n

Ahora puedes hacer lo que te d\u00e9 la gana porque ella ser\u00e1 incapaz de decir que no. Mantenerte tranquilo y relajado te har\u00e1 m\u00e1s deseable y por eso ella querr\u00e1 m\u00e1s de ti y de lo \u00fanico que tienes que preocuparte ahora es de asegurarte de d\u00e1rselo.<\/p>\n

Always check that she\u2019s comfortable with what you\u2019re doing<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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There\u2019s a fine line between being pushy and being passionate. And it\u2019s all in her mind. If she\u2019s in the mood, she will see you as someone who is kissing her passionately and with care and she will enjoy it. But if she\u2019s not in the mood, she will see you as someone who is pushing her to do things she doesn\u2019t really enjoy doing at that moment.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t want that. So, always make sure that she\u2019s comfortable with what you\u2019re doing. If her body language and gestures are not telling you anything about how she feels, try simply asking her: \u00bfTe gusta cuando hago esto\/lo otro? <\/i> If she confirms and you can see it in her eyes that she\u2019s being sincere, you have the green light to continue with whatever you were doing.<\/p>\n

But if you sense that she could be lying only to appear polite, try changing tactics and include some variations. Try to be creative in everything you do and if you\u2019re not creative by nature, you can always Google it and try to memorize some of it. Also, don\u2019t make it look like you\u2019re trying hard to appease her because that is not hot.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re trying really hard to meet her needs and by that you\u2019re neglecting yours, it will not be good. Physical contact, holding hands, kissing, and having sex are all about mutual initiation and consent. If you don\u2019t skip any of these, I guarantee you that you will make a move on her like a boss and hazla tu novia<\/a>.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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