{"id":29016,"date":"2020-09-28T11:43:04","date_gmt":"2020-09-28T11:43:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29016"},"modified":"2022-01-18T00:00:29","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T00:00:29","slug":"8-cosas-que-te-ensena-perder-al-amor-de-tu-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-cosas-que-te-ensena-perder-al-amor-de-tu-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"8 cosas que te ense\u00f1a perder al amor de tu vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todas tus esperanzas y sue\u00f1os estaban ligados a esa persona, y perderla es como perderlo todo. Es como el fin de la vida tal y como la conoces.<\/p>\n

Perder al amor de tu vida<\/a> is something you can\u2019t prepare yourself for. It\u2019s one of the worst things that can happen to you. It\u2019s like part of your heart was taken away from you, and you are never getting it back.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s unbelievably hard. Pain can be overwhelming and excruciating. But a heartbreak is a lesson on its own, a lesson we don\u2019t want to learn, but we don\u2019t get to have any say in it.<\/p>\n

Como ves, las relaciones est\u00e1n hechas para dos, y en cuanto una de las partes se aleja, no te queda m\u00e1s remedio que aprender de tu dolor.<\/p>\n

When it first happens you are telling yourself that you are OK, but you really aren\u2019t<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Tu reacci\u00f3n inicial es ser fuerte. Perder al amor de tu vida no es algo de lo que puedas recuperarte de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana.<\/p>\n

Incluso las personas m\u00e1s fuertes se aplastan cuando les arrancan el coraz\u00f3n del pecho. Nadie puede sobrevivir a eso de pie.<\/p>\n

Feel your feelings. Admit that you are not OK and that it\u2019s going to take you a long time before you can honestly say you are back on your feet.<\/p>\n

Let it hurt. It\u2019s supposed to hurt. You are supposed to cry and grieve over your loss. It will make the healing process a bit easier.<\/p>\n

Healing is a process which can\u2019t be rushed<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Sentir\u00e1s todo el espectro de emociones que ir\u00e1n desde la ira, la tristeza, la desesperaci\u00f3n, el miedo por el futuro hasta el adormecimiento total. <\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n tendr\u00e1s d\u00edas buenos en los que te sientas positivo y fuerte. Esos son los d\u00edas que te recargar\u00e1n y te dar\u00e1n el empuj\u00f3n que necesitas para seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t expect that healing will happen in just a few days or months. Sometimes it takes a long time, and we are all different when dealing with our pain, especially if they were the hard love (this is one of the tres amores en la vida<\/a>). <\/p>\n

You\u2019ll miss them for a great while, and that\u2019s something you can\u2019t help<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Fueron una gran parte de tu vida, y te los van a recordar constantemente. Las l\u00e1grimas vendr\u00e1n solas cada vez que veas algo que te haga pensar en ellos, y tus pensamientos ser\u00e1n tu peor enemigo.<\/p>\n

Aunque la relaci\u00f3n estuviera destinada a terminar y no fueras del todo feliz en ella, tu mente se limitar\u00e1 a reproducir todos esos momentos felices que t\u00fa y tu ex vivisteis juntos, e ignorar\u00e1 todos los feos.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look at this as a sign you should do the impossible to get back together. Remind yourself that you shouldn\u2019t chase after anyone who te dej\u00e9 solo<\/a> y eligi\u00f3 no formar parte de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Love is worth the fight, but it should never be begged for, and that\u2019s a huge difference.<\/p>\n

Las redes sociales son tu enemigo<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You are going to go through your exe\u2019s social media accounts. You will investigate every little clue in order to find some closure or the real reason why this person left you.<\/p>\n

But in the end, you will realize that you are just hurting way more this way. You will never get the answers you want if they weren\u2019t decent enough to tell you in person what it\u2019s all about.<\/p>\n

Your heart won\u2019t be at ease if you keep seeing their happy faces or even pictures with somebody they could have m\u00e1s que amistad<\/a> con.<\/p>\n

Try to resist the urge to check up on your ex. Don\u2019t go through their social media accounts. Don\u2019t ask your mutual friends about them. It will only make you feel worse and more hurt.<\/p>\n

Dejar\u00e1s de so\u00f1ar despierta con que volv\u00e9is a estar juntos<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

It\u2019s only natural that you will have these desires at the beginning. You will be nostalgic about that person and about all those amazing moments you shared together.<\/p>\n

Pero con el paso del tiempo, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que tu ex est\u00e1 en el pasado por una raz\u00f3n. Te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que te mereces algo mejor y de que, aunque te importaban mucho, s\u00f3lo fueron un gran cap\u00edtulo de tu vida. La historia no acaba as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

You choose your life; you don\u2019t settle for it<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t influence other people\u2019s behavior. We can\u2019t stop bad things that happen to us, but we can choose the way we deal with things.<\/p>\n

Podemos pasarnos d\u00edas en la cama y mucho tiempo llorando por el rumbo equivocado que ha tomado nuestra vida o podemos levantarnos y tomar nuestras propias decisiones.<\/p>\n

We can get up every day with a mindset that things will work out in the end. We can fight our pain and do things that shift our focus from our brokenness to empowering ourselves. If you do that, you will discover soon enough it\u2019s the way to happiness.<\/p>\n

Aprendes que tienes suficiente fuerza para empezar una nueva vida sin ellos<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de cierto tiempo en el que tu amor perdido era todo en lo que pod\u00edas pensar, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que debes seguir adelante a pesar del dolor. Te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n importas.<\/p>\n

You will want to change your life. Your essence will and should always be the same. You will want to welcome newness in your life. You don\u2019t need constant reminders of what you had and lost.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you might start with simple things like changing your hair or the way you dress, hitting the gym and finding a way to sweat out the pain, etc.<\/p>\n

Pero tambi\u00e9n querr\u00e1s cambiar tu vida a lo grande. Perseguir\u00e1s algo que te apasione. Pondr\u00e1s a prueba tus l\u00edmites y saldr\u00e1s de tu zona de confort.<\/p>\n

Conocer\u00e1s a gente nueva y tendr\u00e1s una nueva perspectiva de la vida. Saldr\u00e1s de este dolor con la victoria personal de ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Losing the love of your life doesn’t mean that you lost your chance for true love<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

No hay duda de que el amor que sentiste era de verdad, y tal vez pensaste que esa persona era el amor de tu vida cuando en realidad, s\u00f3lo era tu mayor amor hasta el momento.<\/p>\n

You will love again. As impossible as that sounds at the initial phases of your heartbreak, it\u2019s true. The one that is the real love of your life will be there to stay forever.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why the expression we use is a \u2018forever person\u2019\u2014love with them never ends.<\/p>\n

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