{"id":29096,"date":"2020-05-29T09:22:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-29T09:22:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29096"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:09:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:09:20","slug":"12-senales-de-que-una-ruptura-fue-lo-mejor-aunque-aun-le-eches-de-menos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-senales-de-que-una-ruptura-fue-lo-mejor-aunque-aun-le-eches-de-menos\/","title":{"rendered":"12 se\u00f1ales de que una ruptura fue lo mejor (aunque a\u00fan le eches de menos)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>1. Tu autoestima ha vuelto.<\/b> You\u2019re back baby! You don\u2019t feel lonely, and you don\u2019t question every single thing you do.<\/p>\n<p>Tus pensamientos est\u00e1n en el lugar correcto. Vuelves a sentirte t\u00fa mismo. No hay p\u00e1nico ni ansiedad.<\/p>\n<p><b>2. You feel like you\u2019re free.<\/b> Puedes estar todav\u00eda un poco triste y tal vez perdido.<\/p>\n<p>Pero el sentimiento general que te consume por debajo de todo lo dem\u00e1s es la sensaci\u00f3n de libertad. Sabes que has recuperado tu antigua vida.<\/p>\n<p><b>3. It\u2019s been a long time since you last devoted time to yourself.<\/b> Cuando rompes con alguien, te levantas y te reinventas.<\/p>\n<p>You try to find that something within you which you\u2019ve lost. And then you realize it has been forever since you last did something nice for yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b>4. You feel peace when you\u2019re by yourself.<\/b> Sure, it\u2019s not all that peachy all the time. Loneliness is a big burden to bear, but at the same time, you sometimes feel like you\u2019ve found your peace.<\/p>\n<p>You feel lonely because you\u2019re still hurt, and the wound is still fresh. But those moments when you feel happy about being alone are how you actually feel when you take away the sadness.<\/p>\n<p><b>5. You know exactly what you want and where you\u2019re headed.<\/b> Tienes posibilidades ilimitadas guardadas para el futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes un objetivo claro, y sabes que nadie puede meterse con \u00e9l; nadie puede impedir que consigas lo que quieres.<\/p>\n<p><b>6. You don\u2019t have to make compromises you don\u2019t want to.<\/b> Puedes ver los programas de televisi\u00f3n que te gusten. Puedes comer lo que quieras.<\/p>\n<p>Hay muchas cosas que estaban fuera de tu alcance cuando ten\u00edas pareja y que ahora est\u00e1n disponibles. Pero lo m\u00e1s importante es que esas cosas te hagan feliz.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47821\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/12-Signs-A-Breakup-Was-The-Best-Thing-To-Do-Even-If-You-Still-Miss-Him-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"12 se\u00f1ales de que una ruptura fue lo mejor (aunque a\u00fan le eches de menos)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/12-Signs-A-Breakup-Was-The-Best-Thing-To-Do-Even-If-You-Still-Miss-Him-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/12-Signs-A-Breakup-Was-The-Best-Thing-To-Do-Even-If-You-Still-Miss-Him-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/12-Signs-A-Breakup-Was-The-Best-Thing-To-Do-Even-If-You-Still-Miss-Him.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>7. You\u2019re laughing like you haven\u2019t laughed in a long time.<\/b> Laughter heals the soul, but while you were in a relationship, you didn\u2019t laugh that much.<\/p>\n<p>Laughing was replaced with bickering and yelling. Now that you are laughing again, you realize how much you\u2019ve missed it.<\/p>\n<p><b>8. La idea de volver a estar juntos te da p\u00e1nico.<\/b> Cuando rompes, hay momentos de debilidad en los que empiezas a pensar \u00bfc\u00f3mo ser\u00eda si siguierais juntos?<\/p>\n<p>On the surface, that seems so much easier than going through the pain you\u2019re feeling. But when you really start thinking about it, you start panicking because you remember all the bad things that happened.<\/p>\n<p>Ya est\u00e1. Ahora sabes que romper es lo mejor.<\/p>\n<p><b>9. Disfrutas de tu propia compa\u00f1\u00eda.<\/b> You don\u2019t need people around you in order to be happy and feel good.<\/p>\n<p>Before, you needed someone around you to enjoy yourself. Now you\u2019d rather drink a cup of coffee all by yourself than putting up with someone else\u2019s unnecessary presence.<\/p>\n<p><b>10. You\u2019re learning how to do things you know you wouldn\u2019t have learned if you had stayed in that relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re learning how to comfort yourself because you have no one by your side to make you feel better. You\u2019re learning how to be happy without a man in your life. You\u2019re learning how to be by yourself and love it!<\/p>\n<p><b>11. You\u2019re not afraid of change.<\/b> You\u2019re aware that it\u2019s so much better to be scared about the future and feel a bit of discomfort because you know you\u2019re growing than feel comfortable by staying in one and the same place.<\/p>\n<p><b>12. You\u2019ve gotten your own identity back.<\/b> Cuando estabas en una relaci\u00f3n, la gente te ve\u00eda como parte de otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>Eres tu propia persona, con sus propios intereses y su propia personalidad. Ahora tienes todo eso de vuelta, y nunca volver\u00e1s a renunciar a ello.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-29099 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/10-6-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"12 se\u00f1ales de que una ruptura fue lo mejor (aunque a\u00fan le eches de menos)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/10-6-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/10-6-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/10-6.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Your self-esteem is back. You\u2019re back baby! You don\u2019t feel lonely, and you don\u2019t question every single thing you do. Your thoughts are in the right place. You feel like yourself again. There is no panic or anxiety. 2. You feel like you\u2019re free. You can be still a bit sad and maybe lost&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":29098,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29096","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/greg-raines-50574-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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